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Posted: 7 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: corie

What I found strange also was anything Shyam wanted she gave him without thinking of the consequences. For a traditional and pooja loving lady I did not expect her to send Shyam to bath in her brother's room with his wife alone there. The Huge mansion does not have any guest room for him to bath? She didn't thought it strange to send Shyam to the room with her SIL in it? It shows that she had no respect for Khushi and didn't see her as anyone of importance in the family. Then she turn around blaming Khushi for her problems.


Originally posted by: corie

Anjali flaws started becoming clear from the entry of La. She made la fast for her brother and tell him to break la fast. This should not have happened because they are not married. Also La should not have been invited to stay at RM and welcome like a new bride to the house. Every wrong la did she said it is a mistake even calling the police to check Khushi.


Sorry for a very late reply. The line in bold stands out. That is Khushi's room and she can come back into that room any time she wants.

Anjali has no consideration for others at all.

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Edited by Savera84 - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: ArshiMirat

These are all fantastic points! Anjali really did need to work on herself as a person; developing a spine and a powerful personality is a must for her personal growth now


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Posted: 7 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: sanoniti

first I want to give you a big applause to your post on anjali's character. First of all why anjali want a husband I mean she lives in arnav's house if she wants to go to hospital or temple she wants to arnav accompany her,she eats arnav's hard earned money, she buys her sarees jewelries by arnav's hard earned money ,whenever she gets sad she wants arnav's shoulder to cry and tell how much she is helpless then why she want a husband only to make her pregnant. sorry if I rude because iam really pissed of her character. she wants everyone pampering her like a princess


Originally posted by: sanoniti

even I also don't like anjali's character. what I don't like about her character if she loved her husband that much then when arnav kicked out shyam to RM why don't she demanded she also wants to go with him instead of she said " mere pati ko wapas lao " seriously afterwards also she feeds money to her snake husband. its really sad arnav kabhi khushi ka goodness deki nahi paya. in spite of being big businessman's wife she started her own dabba service. she never used his money. What she got in return a gold digger name I can say many more things but in spite of all the flaws we loved / loving our serial.


Thank you very much for your comments.
I have the same doubt. Why did she need a husband who is MIA most of the time? As I said she treats him like a toy.
Arnav "I need my husband, Please return him to me".
Posted: 7 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: shrattila

I totally agree with you. I also didnt like the way Anjali constantly covered up for others mistakes calling it misunderstandings. There are things not acceptable and they shouldn't be covered up. Overall, Anjali was a very weak character!!


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Edited by Savera84 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#45
Anjali never came up as a strong woman to me! I had no sympathy whatsoever even after snakewa's doings were exposed and she slapped him... It made no sense to me that she never once tried to trace her hubby Dev or the work he does! Every woman needs stability in life shouldn't she have demanded that of her husband too?

They were orphaned and helI won't ever like even my parents paying my bills after a certain age... Thought about living independent is so enchanting that I refuse to believe no girl wants to live life that way! And here it was not her parents but brother who has got his wife and other family too!

This woman had no spine for me others can think otherwise and sympathize her... Why mere fuss over her fate if she didn't do anything at all and Just hoped for best doing nothing to get best?
Edited by Zephyr. - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Zephyr.

Anjali never came up as a strong woman to me! I had no sympathy whatsoever even after snakewa's doings were exposed and she slapped him... It made no sense to me that she never once tried to trace her hubby Dev or the work he does! Every woman needs stability in life shouldn't she have demanded that of her husband too?


They were orphaned and helI won't ever like even my parents paying my bills after a certain age... Thought about living independent is so enchanting that I refuse to believe no girl wants to live life that way! And here it was not her parents but brother who has got his wife and other family too!

This woman had no spine for me others can think otherwise and sympathize her... Why mere fuss over her fate if she didn't do anything at all and Just hoped for best doing nothing to get best?


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All Anjali wanted was a right to live in the Shantivan along with her husband and pamper him.

Tell me about paying bills. When I was at school, I solved a problem in my dad's account book and he gave me some money as a reward. I told him not to give me pocket money for next month because I earned some money by myself.
Anjali always said, Shyam worked very hard to take care of her, yet, she never asked him for money, but, gave him money and wrote checks for him.
Anjali what should I do with you?
Cheers...

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Posted: 7 years ago
#47
I agree
Anjali with the passing became more and more selfish
She never asked shyam about his late comings and whereabouts but never left arnav
And the kidnapping thing was royally ignored
And what's wrong in wanting to be with ur wife
Double standards for different people
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Posted: 7 years ago
#48
Rewatching the show. Shall be back with my comments(rants) in a little while!
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Posted: 7 years ago
#49
Okay, So here it goes.
Yes, I completely agree with you. Anjali was the most butchered character in the show. Though every character was butchered at some point or another, it was a close call between Payal and Anjali but in the end, I have to concede that Anjali really has to be the most shoddily written character in all the TV shows I have watched!
You are right...in the beginning, she did show a little depth, but I completely lost it for her after the kidnapping track. To be honest, I thought her completely stupid when she failed to connect the dots when Arnav displayed extreme reactions when it came to Khushi...I mean, in that scene after she tells Arnav her doubts regarding Khushi' engagement and he retaliates by saying why did she agree to the engagement then? It is not like someone forced her to or something. I mean, it was obvious that he was pareshaan...that he didn't like the fact that Khushi got engaged. And all Anjali had to say to that was Why are you speaking like this chote?! Really??!! I mean, I am bringing up the most inane of scenes but that is because you have covered most of the others in your rants 😊
Okay, leave that, She really thinks Lavanya is ASR's love? Doesn't she remember his explanation of how even if he found a girl who was capable of stopping his saans, he would stay away from her?! Then why the hell was she so upset when Arnav and La call off the engagement? I mean, shouldn't she have been the one advising her chote not to get into a life-long commitment if he doesn't feel as deeply for the girl as she obviously felt for him? Did she really think he would be happy that way?
Okay, granted that her love for her brother made her impervious to his lack of interest in Lavanya, but I can never forgive her reactions post the kidnapping track. I don't blame Daljeet for wanting to leave the show multiple times when it was airing. I mean, which sane woman would want to be portrayed like this? Come on! They didn't even bother to give her a swelling belly to imply that she was indeed pregnant!
Don't even get me started on the kidnapping track. That, to me, was the beginning of the derailment of the show. Really, all naivety aside, how the bloody hell can anyone approach a man who has been harassing you to go to your husband and tell that idiot that nothing was your fault but you had been played by the snakewa and that the snakewa had actually been the one who has been harassing you?!!! Boggles the mind that the makers actually thought of this! It is wrong on so, so many counts!!! I understand that Barun had requested for a month off but comeon!! They couldn't come up with a better track?! And the scene where one of the goons and Arnav hit Khushi on the head with that huge, motti, piece of wood?!! Who is to say some idiot teenager would not try to do the same in the hopes it would just render the girl(or guy) unconscious?
Kids(idiot ones) do imitate what they see on TV and movies. Happened once in TN where a boy killed another and then tried to hide his tracks by spreading chili powder since he saw that in a movie. Was somewhat a sensational news back home!
I don't know why a production house would butcher their own show like this, but, I think this PH is famous for it. I have tried watching a couple of other shows from this PH and have given up soon after starting because of the way they decimate the story-line and make a mockery of the characters. In spite of that, I keep coming back to this one alone mainly because of the leads and the sheer brilliance of their acting!
Phew!! Anyways, watching the show again brought back all the feelings of dissatisfaction and disappointment and I needed to rant a little too.
Like you, I missed the show when it first aired and watched it first only around three years back and didn't have a chance to rant then. The re-airing of the show on Star Utsav prompted me to watch the show again and thanks to you, I could rant out a little 😛
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Posted: 7 years ago
#50
I just read this analysis of Anjali and her flaws it was awesome to the point I don't have any words to write.about Anjali ( poojali) who was a weak and spineless character.
just loved it

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