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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: aarwen

Nice conversation Indi and Indu di..

I have always liked ASR and Garima's relationship from the start.. he had slammed bundles of note in front of buaji (lol! oh I miss him), but with aunty he was respectful from the start (if am not wrong the first time he met her was after the diwali showdown.. what a moment there..)

During the Gupta house days when he says sorry for his high and mighty ways she is so understanding and lovable.. same with when he calls her aunty and says he can't call her amma.. she was a bit nervous around the hi fi hot headed damadji, but knew her daughter had found the perfect rajkumar.. and he just liked straightforward people I feel. He had warmed up to Khushi's family really well..

IPK's take on relationships was spot on.



hi rhea,

hi fi hot headed damad ji is giving me palpitations. 😆 why does the word hot go so terrifically well with asr by barun in any and every sense? okay, no need to answer that question. i am remembering issk's hotstuff aka hotisstuff.

you are so right, they had the sweetest relationship, he did meet her that night of diwali, his heart already touched by a girl who can't sleep in the dark, whom he must protect, whose father is unwell, whom he must return the payal to, whom he must kiss. the girl who has koi matlab nahin in his life.

poor bua ji got that money slapped on table intro... sigh gosh yes, i just miss that fellow. the look as he left the room... aaargh.



garima seemed to have both the typical gentler woman's need, esp if middle class, to give the damad a certain place and respect, also keep a certain distance as the relationship asks for... and yet, from the time she saw him at gupta house, struggling and trying to be part of the scene, a funny kind of almost maternal tenderness in her, she gets damad ji somehow... and on that issue of calling her amma, beautiful understanding of a boy's heart, one who says in a broken way, i don't have a mother.

piyumori mehta created a lovely nuanced emotion for damad ji. there was a naturally gentle, kind, motherly woman's love there, also strains of society and its expectations. but push come sto shove i felt she would go with her feelings for a young boy terribly hurt as a child and who seemed to also be a bit nuts about her daughter.

you are so so spot on... ipk understood relationships.

uff to pull off the mami bitwa one... every relationship felt real. i used to particularly like the payal khushi one... never flat. khushi's all giving happy love for payaliya and payal's protective almost fierce love for sibling... payal is presented as sweet and a little sedate even, not a spitfire sort, but if khushi is troubled, watch out. actually, her getting mad at khushi for interfering with her relationship with akash, also somewhere real... i am sure she and akash had an interesting relationship and she was not the silly creature she was made out to be for a while. i liked her wearing that nightie stuff, sort of real again.

sorry, rambling attack.



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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Kowsi


That's it! This is exactly what I thought about the whole "Amma" thing!

I was so sure that he couldn't call anyone as Amma, Maa or even Mom! I love reading FF where Arnav call her Amma and I would like to write one where he calls her Amma or something like that because a fanfiction is imagination so it's okay I think but seeing ASR on screen and doing the same is so awkward!

Calling someone and giving someone a status of a Mother is something big and it represents so much for him

Or at least they should have explained the whole thing more or just let pass one "Amma" and not him repeating it several times

And as Garima said a relationship does not lay in a name, well in my opinion a sibling relationship and parents-children relationship does not need a name! Many are those who disagree with me but that's just my way of seeing the thing

About the Gupta House track... I plead guilty!!

I was one of those who loved that thing well maybe not that public shower (definitely not talking about seeing ASR's body!)😳 🤣

But I guess they could have extended it a bit! I loved to see ASR trying to live in a middle class place even if it was said that he did struggle at 14 till he got to Harvard and came back to be the businessman we love!



hi kowsi,

that introspection on liking asr in ff saying amma and not being able to really watch it on screen... lovely.

i love the way ipk makes us all think... go beyond hayee, uff, and sigh (though we also get to do plenty of that. 😃)

if it had felt perfectly normal, so many of us would not have felt the what was that??? when he called his maa, mom, i nearly passed out. i was angry... a character was being played with, a character i had grown to love and feel.

amma just sounded off. totally. and you're right, they made him say it again and again like rubbing it in.

don't you get the feeling it's just a please the girls party going on here? every woman makes the deep mistake (in my opinion) of thinking, after marriage her man will change (in those things that she can't handle)... i did too... and ha ha today is 30 years of marriage completing, lemme tell ya, this mega change doesn't really happen... he in fact started telling me at one point, why the h did i think he'd change.

made me think.

i was being foolish.

i think it's one way in which we women for centuries have "managed" through patriarchy and the cultural results of it... we know our power is highly taken away, but by hoping we can change a partner, perhaps we try to get some sense of control in our lives... think, we are teh mainstay, the real power behind the so called power...

i am just chatting, what i say may be totally wrong.

what does happen, at least that's what i noticed, is that a certain evolution takes place over time. if you keep saying what you are pointing out is valid, the pati may after a long while (strong men, men who take the lead who go out there and get it done, like our asr, do not drop all their ways and convictions in too much of a hurry... they have succeeded with certain ideas and attitudes and they consider themselves smart enough to get most things... they do not run helter skelter to do things your way even if they love you beyond themselves... this i am pretty sure of... empirically tested fact 😆)... and as the years pass, there is a growth in his appreciation of your pov... and often the other way round too.

i don't think khushi wanted a smiling sweet "right" sounding man in her life at all... she is totally gone on his hothead gussa... her kick possibly comes from knowing she can give it back to him... see how she is raging? haha she definitely loves laad governor with all his takniki kharabi and given a chance she'd love to pour some mango juice in his shoes... that friction and fury, that getting after each other... all of that makes their thing for each other what ot is. if he becomes sweet... poor kkgsr.

that line about him calling anyone mother and giving her that status, yes yes yes... means much too him. won't come about in about of being sweet husband...

and frankly there is no need to... i agree with you, real relationships don't get hung up on who calls whom what.

these are just social norms and one doesn't need to follow them blindly. garima's take on relationship being imp and not whom you address as what, just said so much.

that was ipk... which is why i fell for it... a simple tv soap... so much in it.

especially the guts to be different... unique.

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Posted: 9 years ago
Actually I may be wrong but did he mention amma in epi 2 when he spoke about buaji and bauji's sweet shop?

I think they just want to point out that he has embraced all her r'ships.

maybe has shed couple of tears on her lap when he mourned his ma's death..

at least that's what I would like to think of.

some IPK folks, clear my confusion. did he call mamiji as mami during IPK or did he use both? And did he ever refer to his own ma as mother in IPK before? I have a feeling he may have done the 1st but not so sure about the 2nd.

Do investigation and tells me! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
Relieved to see some people here who aren't crazy about the aunty to amma progression(?). I, for one don't particularly like it. It is very unlike Arnav Singh Raizada. And, it sort of takes away from the subtle nuances of the original IPK, that it doesn't matter what you call a person as long as you feel right for them. The sort of difference that they established that way between sweet talking Shyam & diabetic Arnav. To him, actions truly meant more than words. That is only my opinion, of course.P.S: I love your takes. I follow it on FB.
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Posted: 9 years ago


Hi All 🤗


Indi ..

Many happy returns of the day and best wishes to both of you
You be blessed with health, wealth, happiness and abundance of joy 😊

I hope aap ki Pati did not forgetiya this day like ASR😉


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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: archana.mh17

Relieved to see some people here who aren't crazy about the aunty to amma progression(?). I, for one don't particularly like it. It is very unlike Arnav Singh Raizada. And, it sort of takes away from the subtle nuances of the original IPK, that it doesn't matter what you call a person as long as you feel right for them. The sort of difference that they established that way between sweet talking Shyam & diabetic Arnav. To him, actions truly meant more than words. That is only my opinion, of course.P.S: I love your takes. I follow it on FB.



hi archana,

ah, the original ipk... i just posted about a hundred caps of epi 64 on our other thread... reblast. the pristine, essentially challenging the norms ipk. intelligent writing, fine acting, reading beyond the obvious, getting relationships, totally on the trail of that elusive thing: attraction and its growth to faraq.. main tumhare bina...

brill that bold line in pink... yeah sweet talker and diabetic... metaphors themselves.

this whole mom and amma thing, why this desperation to be what you're not? ordinary? anyway.

thanks for reading my takes... it's always nice to chat with you. and great to see you here.



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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: dev25



Hi All 🤗


Indi ..

Many happy returns of the day and best wishes to both of you
You be blessed with health, wealth, happiness and abundance of joy 😊

I hope aap ki Pati did not forgetiya this day like ASR😉




mani, 🤗

thank you so much.

haha, he didn't forget, but i made the beginning of the day very successful, exactly past 12 midnight... by asking why and when did marriage begin at all and what's the reason behind celebrating anniversaries, who started it and why... then i argued incessantly about marriage and its norms, how it has evolved constantly and how it is a social construct, human made, etc., etc., etc.,

my husband drank the whisky he found for me here in singapore though it's not easily available... very very slowly.

he asked me, why i love to argue so much.

we managed not to fight.

felt like we'd gotten somewhere in these years. the whisky was great. we sort of thoroughly enjoyed our anniversary.

maybe asr (after what they've gone and done to him) needs my help. 😆

so sweet of you to wish me... 🤗 thank you.
Edited by indi52 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
Dont know wheter posted or is duplicate



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Posted: 9 years ago
Indi and Wiwy

Indi after 30 fight is equivalent to love😉😃 I have also completed 32 years of marriage






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Posted: 9 years ago
Happy Wedding Anniversary to the happy couple that are celebrating their special day! 🥳
Hope your laad Governor did not forget the day😛

However after so many years we tend to remind them weeks before or even better just buy the present for ourselves 😛 😆 instead of hearing yeh sab tumhara hi to hain😲 (All of mine is yours only)

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