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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: ambili123


well i am not a silent reader i comment atleast once in myfavourite stories and press like to each part but here some are just promoting deir closed blogs once i started to read first few parts of an old story here and d next part was in blog wen i asked d writer for a permission she gave me link of another story whose concept was something i cant digest why writers are trying to force deir all stories in a reader cant dey hav d frrdom to select a particular readers one story and avoid others


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nandz

Now ok!!

Ok i was a silent reader for long time! Not because of lack of want but simply beacuse i could not as i was travelling all over country taking exams and it was difficult from phone! But i read the stories as gave me much needed respite! The break and distraction! The moment i got free i got on a comment spree!!
So pls writers dont write like' silent reader shoo away' or silent readers get lost! Arey yaar they are not dogs or beggars!!
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Some are too shy to write, some are not very good with word!!So please encourage them to come out but dont treat them as a despicable category!! Sometimes i dont feel commenting if the writer is too harsh on readers n literally threatens not to update n all!!
-people count numbers here.. 😕

Now many writers do appreciate comment, they read, they express gratitude!n m grateful to the, but Some dont even bother to like! Some donot reply to PMs !and then i think y did i even bother to send a pm appreciating their work!!
- this happened with me.. i spent my entire day in reading the story and writing the comment (that was the second longest comment i wrote on this forum) and all that write said was thank you...!! and i never read her stories again... which was a right decision because she has discontinued her stories..😛

So though i understand writers dilemma too as they cant reply to each n every comment everytime! But once in a while just let ur reader know that she/ he is appreciated!! Else they feel their comments are not valued and they stop reading!
- if a writers take 10-12 days to write a chapter why they can't add one more day in replying the comments and delay their updates...😕

Plus some writers sometimes even fail to recognise you as your reader! So i have had mixed experience here!!

And yes i do agree with all the points put up by shruti! But i do understand writers problem too to some extent but i guess it should be a two way process!!

- i have always supported a writer pov.. have spent 2 years in that.. but in that process i forgot that i am reader and recently the kinda attitude writer's are showing towards there reader.. it's high time to speak out aloud... people here generally don't speak infront of the writers because they want to be in their good books.. i don't belong to that category...⭐️

N pls respect all the readers! Even if a single reader is reading it your purpose of taking story to the people is getting served!!
Thank you shruti for making this post!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: opsyellow

Hey you!

I was a silence reader once and I had my reason and maybe the writer will think that my reason was stupid but it was a reason for me.
First of all I was shy. I didn't know what to write or comment. I thought that the writer will think my comments are stupid and for most of the time I really didn't know what to write!
But then just like that I came across a amazing story and I just couldn't hold my self anymore so I wrote down what I wanted to say to the writer and it made me happy and the writer 😃, and why I am saying this here is because I understand some of the silence readers.
Maybe the have the same feelings like I had. Maybe they didn't come across a story which didn't touch their heart yet or maybe they are just lazy!
I lost the chance to read lots of wonderful stories because I was a silence reader and I dont what that to any other reader.
I have stop reading lots stories now day's that because of late updates and lack of response from the writers. I will happily wait for a story knowing that it will come back one day but without any news from the writer, I will feel like fool.
I nowadays wait for few updates before I read and comment for those who takes times and its not because I want to be rude but because it easy for me to understand the story. Yeah I am little bit slow.
I know that the writers have their personal life and we should respect that and the writers should do the same. It not like all the readers have nothing else to do.
I never expect any kind of response from the writers because that will make it easy for you but lots of people wants response from the writers and stops commenting because they will come to think that the writer doesn't value their comments. I will say here is that dont except anything from the writer then a regular updates because they are doing what they can. Just read and say what you think and move on.
Then there is some writer who they are close to some reader and some can take this in wrong way. Here you have to understand that there will be something they share with each other and it cant happen with everyone.
Some reader can fine some writer rude and that can also be a reason for being a silence reader. Dont like the writer but like the story. Its hard I know.
I have stop reading some stories because I felt that the writer didn't value me a reader. Stop reading but dont read and not comment.

Like we all know that the writers are giving their free time to writer story to us and that too for free.


okay i do understand this.. but why a writer don't understand this that even a reader don't get any monetary benefit..?
Maybe they have their reason but the only thing we can give back as reader is a comment so why not?

true,.. but then a writer should treat every single writer equally then.

I know and understand the silence reader but I would tell them to come out and say something and trust me its more fun.
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Only my thoughts and sorry if I have hurt someones feelings!


di here i am not justifying the silent readers i am only stating some reasons which force a reader to be a silent one.. ye kaha se sahi hai if you speak for your writers than you are a sweetheart but when you speak some true fact writer won't give a damn...😕
Edited by Shruti21 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#24
agree with dis part completely
cz i dnt comment where d comment is not acknowledged
n ya once bitten twice shy
v usually stop commentn on d writer stry who hav discontinued d stry
late updates is. one of d reasns as well
being a writer i put my selves in d shors of d readers and lik d comments n rep dem too
no matter hw short dey are
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: devilindisguise

agree with dis part completely
cz i dnt comment where d comment is not acknowledged
n ya once bitten twice shy
v usually stop commentn on d writer stry who hav discontinued d stry
late updates is. one of d reasns as well
being a writer i put my selves in d shors of d readers and lik d comments n rep dem too
no matter hw short dey are



exactly it's likewise when u reply readers feel that there comment is being acknowledged..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shruti21


I have always read, writers complaining they don't get enough comment.. silent readers never comment..

True but for a reader being a silent reader is not always a choice.. sometimes they are forced to..

Why will a reader comment on your story when you don't bother to reply them??

Why will a reader comment on your story when you have gala time with your friends ignoring the comment of other just because you don't know them??

Why will a reader comment on your story when you take ages to update a chapter?? Yeah real life is more important then even a reader also have a life beyond IF.. You have one story to write they have 100 stories to comment...

Why will a reader comment on your story when you keep them waiting when you can easily post a Note?? Do you people check their patience ?? or Are you checking your fan following??

I have seen here people set rules for other keeping themselves in the exceptions..

These reasons are enough to hurt a person and then few readers are forced to turn as the silent one..

No, i am not a silent reader i was just trying to think from their POV...


WORD!!!!👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post shruti👏👏
Once i was commenting in all stories that i read,irrespective of whether the author aknowledged my comment or not,
but nowdays some authors started to discontinue their stories because they dont feel like updating .
i took nearly 2 days to complete one ff,now she discontinued.
If a author start a private blog,they make it accesible to readers who are very close to them.
Authors can atleast put a NOTE as in when they will update their story.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#28
sensible post
not all the writers are like this..but few..
i'm not silent reader..but i became silent reader for few story..

"ignoring the comment of other just because you don't know them??"


"Discontinue one story because writer has lost the "inspiration'' to write the story or simply put, writer had not planned the story beforehand. Readers may not comment on that writer's next story for this reason alone. Don't know when they will drop a seal saying 'discontinued'' or 'removed"

completely agree with the above points..

also agree that.. writers have life other than IF..they cant reply to every single comment..i felt bad when they replying to only there friends..ignoring other readers


Edited by thulasi_arshi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29
Hi, liked this post a lot! I also used to be a silent reader once, and I found it so difficult to become an active reader. But once I started commenting I realized its not so difficult. My reasons were also similar to the ones opsyellow has mentioned, by nature I happened to be an extremely reserved person so for me to even drop one word was so difficult, maybe this sounds funny😊 but when I finally did I remember that writer appending a general note telling she doesn't appreciate one sentence comment, maybe from her side it's fair but it took all the guts in the world for me to draft that particular sentence. Then I stopped commenting altogether.
But subsequently I came a cross this sweet author who appreciates readers comments and that was a first time for me. That made me realize the fact that all the people are not same. Just like in school or at office there will be different kind of people,so might as well understand this and stick to people who doesn't hurt your feelings. Also I would like to add writers do take a lot of time from their busy schedule to present stories to us, so least we can do is appreciate their work. Also be less demanding both as a writer and a reader, after all too many expectations only causes sadness😊

I have few stories I religiously follow and I read them with out PMs cauz if u really like something then you shouldn't be reminded of that or forced for that matter but you should be able to follow them, just my opinion! After all we are all humans who expects something in return so just the way a reader becomes happy after getting a response from the reader, same goes along with talented writers too. I can with out any doubt tell writers of all the stories I follow are extremely nice and they make sure they acknowledge you as a reader even though they receive dozens of comments every one hour😃
A sensible post this is, thanks for bringing this up😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you⭐️

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