Fighting for the show was wrong. Really? - Page 28

Originally posted by: Angels11

Bang On Rima.

I ve had many difference of opinions with u. I remember our v 1st encounter which was a bitter slug fest. Soon v coexisted peacefully though v ve had verbal battles. I am an ASR fan & u r a KKG fan who also likes ASR in his saner avatar. We had a live & let live policy.

I never supported any of the prev petitions coz frankly any PH/creatives who can b arm twisted into changing their plot/story dont deserve any respect since they basically dont trust their creative capabilities. I feel constant clamour for change in the tracks confused the CVs into dishing out crap, OTT tracks. But having said that it was my personal stand & i never supported nor bashed the ppl who made/signed the petitions. Ppl ve the right to make/submit petitions. Its up to the PH/creatives/channel to act on it.

I dint like the changes made to the track based on demands of the fans. But i dint abuse the fans. Instead i simply used the remote & switched channels.

Same here as well. If ppl dint want the show 2 end they c'd ve very well made another petition asking the PH/channel 2 continue the show. First they choose 2 b passive & now they pounce on the fans abusing them.

I ve already posted my response to 1 such thread bashing ppl. Even i was bashed & they used phrases like Bite my ass, selfish, insensitive, ignorant, Ms Reality blah blah blah. I simply replied in a polite manner & asked them 2 go take a hike.

Just copy pasting the last part of my post:

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Taking the moral high ground must b backed with solid action. Have seen lots of ppl who weep when they watch the plight of refugees in war torn Africa or women who ve been raped or abused here in India. But at the end of the day after all the preaching & lectures are done what ve these so called sensitive ppl done to help those victims. Ppl here r calling me insensitive coz i said i dont care bt these 200 ppl. Now what did ppl like you who apparently care for these 200 ppl do to help them. So actions speak better than words. Just writing few lines claiming 2 sympathize with those ppl doesnt take us anywhere. Thats wat US presidents do after every bombing in some hapless III world country. I choose 2 b insensitive rather than preach loads & loads to ppl & then at the end of the day carry on with my life. Ppl who really make a difference dont speak or sympathize. They prove thru their actions. Like Theresa or Aung San Suu Kyi or the girl in Pakistan who was shot by the extremists. I prefer to b insensitive & do my work rather than preach & do nothing!

At the end of the day u & i may disagree. All i ask is disagree respectfully w/o swearing or abusing.

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Dont worry. Ppl ll always ve something 2 complain but rarely do they do anything to help others. Just shrug ur shoulders & ignore the bashing!

Originally posted by: Yash141

Did u even read my post before commenting dear? Read the first post that u quoted. I have clearly stated it. Even I don't think that SP would play puppet puppet to a tune played by 1700 fans. And I don't represent anyone. I'm an individual who's stating my opinion. As an individual I was against every petition which was sent to change the show. Coz it's like interfering in someone else's life, to me. How would I feel if some one comes and tells me I hate your voice..but I love the music..so change your voice, lyrics... It's my song for God's sake. People can choose not to listen to it if they don't want but simply cannot demand me to change my voice quality, the way I sing or change the lyrics MY song or demand me to stop singing just because they paid to buy the radio, i pod, internet connection...bla bla. That is exactly what I think people are doing when demanding PH to change their story line. And I DO NOT agree. It's unethical and very wrong. And I don't think SP is a 5 year old bachcha to end their show only because some people wanted it to. But I dnt deny that it may have contributed. The simple fact is the ones who represented this should stand by their opinion.

Originally posted by: rima

There are people who don't go on demanding script changes, retaining actors and closing down the show Shruti. There are people who are satisfied with what they see on tv because for them it's purely entertainment and recreation. And when the petition was signed there were people who were against that, I saw the comments. But this request went down as 'what the fans want'.

When a certain person represents a group of people, he/she should be ready to face the consequences. Like, if Rima's petition gets a response from SP or PH, they would send it to her and not to all the people who signed it. She, is the one who is supposed to pass down the message to you. Likewise, if certain people are against the petition they tell that to Rima. Not to the whole bunch.

I'm not saying that Rima committed a crime or something. It's what she and as you say a group of fans wanted. But then, please stand by your opinion. If u have the right to send petitions to a well-established tv channel and a PH...blaming, demanding and forcing for script changes, closing down the show...etc etc you have to have the courage to face the same from another group of fans.

Originally posted by: Shruti21

she never backout.. and one thing in india if our PM do anything wrong we say things referring CONGRESS and not alone Mr PM..

i don't know you know about satyam scam or not.. but we entirely blame SATYAM and not the auditor or the owner..

darling i only know is if you have to blame then blame everyone and not rima di alone..

its a request..

Originally posted by: Yash141

I can do without lectures on courage

If I did not have it I wud have not taken on asr bashers for khushi

or wrath of fans for changes

I do what I believe in

unlike you and many others who just question others

and do not translate it into action

but are quick to give judgements

Originally posted by: Yash141

I can do without lectures on courage

If I did not have it I wud have not taken on asr bashers for khushi

or wrath of fans for changes

I do what I believe in

unlike you and many others who just question others

and do not translate it into action

but are quick to give judgements

See? Now you call it a lecture. You can't tell others not to be harsh when u yourself is harsh at people who are just pointing out facts. And you did not answer to my initial question of whether you accept that u wanted the show to end. That's what you did in the petition too. You simply ignored the different povs. And I'm not giving you or anyone else the credit of having influence over a mega tv channel. The people who are celebrating thinking that it's their victory are just day dreaming. And by that I didn't mean u, before u take it all wrong again. Read your thread and see how many of your friends have misunderstood and harshly attacked the members who expressed their views politely. I'm honest and I stand by what I say. Petitioning against a creation (if it does not cross the moral limits) is ethically wrong. It's like trying to manipulate other people's property. I have stated this before in one of your earlier petitions which u simply ignored. And this is not attacking. It's my opinion. I'm stating it.

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-

I respect that, however,

stating and demanding for things to go your way - two very different things.

Originally posted by: rima

she said so much about me standing for things

whereas she never stood for anything

not even to stop petitions or say she wants show to go on

coming and commenting on a post is far easier you see

Originally posted by: whatthe123

Hats off to you rima, whenever you make post defending kk/si the so called C.C. people support you and when you change ur side according to their pov they are backfiring u.

I m with u.