Fighting for the show was wrong. Really?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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So there is a section of fans out there blaming another section of fans for protesting and bringing the show to end

Accusing Sobti fan girls and their craze for ending the show

Accusing protestors for not caring about the 200 people working on the sets

I am one of the few targeted because I made the petition. Strange that I who made the petition with demands of people liked by 1700 + people, is held responsible and not the 1700 people who liked it. The petition was an audience stand and I represented their voice

Strange that many of these people never read my subsequent posts stating my personal stand asking only for the Arnav and Khushi story and not the show? So those who deliberately want to overlook it here are the links. There are many more I will find them for you

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3298107/some-things-should-be-untouched

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3309417/my-latest-call-details

Strange that those blaming others for the show closure did nothing to stop it

Didn't they have access to computers to make petitions or posts to keep the show running and get people acting?

Don't they have phones to call up and tell Star Plus to say they don't want show to end?

If they did not think it is a cause worth fighting for why is it a cause now to attack other people and forum members?

If they are too mature for immature things as petitions and show, what brings them to the forum to make personal attacks and cuss words?

Read the following comments on my post to know to what extent cuss words and sarcasm and personal attacks have gone:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show?pn=51

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show?pn=36

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show?pn=27

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show?pn=22

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3310567/can-we-not-save-the-show?pn=15

These people claim they fight real life causes

The first thing real life causes require is sensitivity under all circumstances

Sensitivity to others, their feelings and them

But these people attack a real person for a show and call themselves as fighters for causes o larger sensitive issues?

And what 'holier than thou' attitude to assume I don't just because I fought for a show and its fans? People who know me also know the causes I am associated with

There are some who say it is wrong to lead impressionable young girls for such a stupid cause

These same people make sexually explicit posts be it for fun or otherwise. I wonder who it is impressing

People say I have too much time to create petitions. Really what a joke! I have a 9 year old kid, a full time job and a house to run. When I make petitions I cut down on my entertainment and personal time like sleep. How ridiculous to assume things

Many of these people taking potshots at protestors have good fun at the expense of the show

I do not recall a single post by them for show's TRPs or betterment

So is the problem really that they have nothing now to make fun of?

Is their wanting 'fun' as important or less important than those wanting an emotional closure to the story?

Did these people not anticipate the consequences of the fight?

If they did why did they do nothing to counter it or save those 200 jobs?

Why were they watching from the sidelines to see which way things swing and then come and attack people and not the people who actually ended the show?

Why were they passive till now to save a show they loved?

If loving a show and wanting a proper closure for it and fighting for it is a crime

Then loving a show and waiting passively for negative results is an equal crime

Note : I would still apologize if the petition was in anyway responsible for closing the show.

But then it Is almost 30 days since the petition and the only result I saw of the pettion was the Gul Khan interview with Barun

If the petition was the cause then there were three more demands. Why were they not met?

So what is the problem really?

I had a stand?

I supported a stand?

I changed my stand?

I took action for my stand?

And they took did none of these?

Ps: There are some who called my petitions bull shit and others who liked it

So if the petition was bull shit why do you believe it ended the show or cause any of the other results?

At the end of the day there are people who thank me and there are those who abuse me for the petition

But I would always say petitions are demands

But to act for it or against it is a matter of the authorities decision

And I have no regret in motivating the forum to fight for the logical conclusion of the story

It never was to end the show and here my personal stand is clear

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pushpa012 thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#2
rima akka ... i like u for the way you are... u to like kushi hears ur heart... blaming the viewers is lame..
if they want to continue the story after baruns quit ... they should set the mind of people by bring the new entry before 2 month( i mean during oct as kushi old friend or something ) why they are doing it now?
they have more options guy for anjali and matured kushi with arav etc..etc... they are just getting rid of their mess by blaming on the fans for the abrupt end.

love and respect for u always ...(this my first post reply for u and that too1st on 1st page hahaa feeling proud)..
vanakkam😉

Edited by pushpa012 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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1) making petitions is not wrong
2 wanting to have a peaceful show is not wrong
3) changing ur stand at the last minute thinking this method might work as an alternative is also not wrong
4) representing others wanting the same is not wrong
5) wanting ppl to support it if they want the same is not wrong
6) ur petition is not the only aspect for the "closing of the show" during DKS track Nish was saying the amount of hate mail they receive - which means much before you start of ppl have already started of wanting change - at the most u might be confirming the changes via petition

but not giving the CV's a chance to tell their story through Viraf i feel that is not right - may be the show would do better then who knows

the entire blame is with Barun, Ph & Star plus who are very unprofessional with dealing the show & it pretty much shows up through their PR skills.

Rima i really do not know what went wrong where but all i can say is this was going to happen at some point of time.

I do not want to support or negate you for now as I myself I am lost as to what i want i need time sink in what ever is going on for now.
I m not attached to the show any longer which is why im sounding so indifferent - my attachment died during DKS track when they ruined Anjali's character but tried saying she is the best sister !
after the DKS track i m not completely following the show but when i found out about Viraf entering i wanted to give the show a chance thats all.
Barun is not the ultimate actor in telly land ppl can surpass too, Sanaya can make chemistry with others too. Show must go on.

Edited by Arhi-Did-IT - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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one thing i think rima...if they wanted the show to run for longer time, they could have called SP and said not to end it instead of ranting here and blaming us ... i give a damn to them...

I couldnt get up in the morning early today because i slept like i am the happiest person on earth last night...

Those who r bashing us were seriously in IPKKND forum previously???????????????????

I doubt what they liked in IPKKND... i think definitely NOT SARUN as ARSHI...otherwise they would have understood our sentiments...
Edited by subha_rath2004 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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rima agreed
i am really pissed off,don't know what these people want?
we have every right to raise our voice if something goes wrong, rather than replacements and a tragic end ending the show makes sense

don't think that its bcz of u rima ,i need to applaud for what u have done
u stood as a support ,motivated all of us when we lost hope ,created positivity and a brought a ray of hope that barun will come back and will get a proper ending ,so don't think like that
hatts off to u

i don't know why suddenly people are talking about 200 people working on sets? its all ph fault
since feb nothing seems to be in right place,we tolerated comedy,kidnap, DKS,and most recent one sheetal track ,its almost from feb there is no proper storyline,they themselves are confused,they messed up everything,sidelined other actors,if original actors have quit ,its not bcz of us it bcz of the crap ph ,they are at fault

after this how can we tolerate that to the lead death and a new man to the female lead,don't we deserve answers as consumers atleast ?
now why didn't the ph think about 200 people who are working there? gul played very well ,she knew the consequences in this process only we are losers ...
but i am happy that the show will end in a happy note rather than tragedy


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel we were heard wrongly..we fought this for e story n Sarun together...ppl r thinkn its for barun alone...im hurt wif this fact...also..Sanaya should knw fans love her as well n started watchn this show jus for her...i hope season 2. starts or a new show for e team...jus cos of sm dirty politics many ppl's job gt affected...fans meant no harm nor it was a fans responsibility to think abt the 200 ppl..fans care abt e story n actors tats e truth...

Bt we Nv asked for this kinda closure...its too abrupt..n if I remember fans also said they don't wan an abrupt ending like Geet...well 4 lions history u can Nv change e Fate...

Accept it n move on stp pointing fingers...Nv love any shows or actors like this...sit bck watch a drama n go to slp...

Tats it..this whole thingy may be messy..bt glad to.meet many frens who fought n stayed united..glad to join e ipk forum..ill Nv regret this guys...
Edited by Liya88 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rima,
You followed ur heart. There is nothing wrong with that.. You never forced us to sign any of the petitions. It was our own decision.. We read each single line in the post and then signed it ( hit the like button in this case).. Same goes 4 phone calls and emails and tweets..

You need not justify ur action... 😊..

Thank you for all ur efforts.. I am happy the story is ending with our Arshi love story unadulterated..

👏❤️

radha

PS:

If it is destined we will soon get to watch sarun yet again in another mind blowing show or ipk season 2
😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The show sucks- the PH couldn't keep the team together - so the show ended! It is as simple as that. Blaming fans and others for the show ending is just ridiculous!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have left the show last week and also made my last post but I have been silently following many people who protested and it was really heart warming to see all people uniting to save love story of arnav-khushi, was it just about barun sobti , I dont think so it was about a love story that people fell in love with for 1.5 years..only fault viewers did was to love the show too much... well I am glad that they did...coz you loved someone's else creation while one who created it lost interest in it ...we may have different views on most of matters, but I respect your and everyone's love for the show...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree with ur pov...I was never in favor of show's ending but Show is not ending because of fans or because of ur petition...Its only ending because of PH and somewhat because of Channel as Channel has not acted upon in tym...PH has completely ruined the show and dese were all cheap tactics being played by PH...

If channel or PH is blaming fans, its only to suppress their weaknesses...If PH was so much concerned bout the families of 200 people, they must have tried their level best to retain Barun...

If Actors were so much concerned about 200 people, they haven't taken such hasty decision...

If channel was so much concerned, they should hv taken timely actions...

So don't think much n spoil ur mental peace...

Everything happens for a gud n take dat in the same spirit...

👍🏼
Edited by rsood86 - 12 years ago

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