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rima

@rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: rainaluvBS
I just think arnav should have been shown more aware of the situation after the DNA test. He should have been shown angry with khushi rather they made him say its all right. He now knows her insecurities so a little bit of caution he should take when he is with either Sheetal or Araav.

his reaction to the DNA test is a CV blooper😊

I mean for God's sake IT IS A DNA TEST NOT BLOOD TEST😊

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: rima

we agree to disagree

smiling at a friend

teasing her is not flirting

as for the game he goaded her

but ide of participation was hers

and idea of the match was his wife's

not his

plus he was utterly caring when he said she will be hurt

it is a differing POV

But Rima, didn't you see that Sheetal refused to play and was about to leave when Arnav goaded her and then Aarav forced her to participate. If he had kept his mouth shut at that time, Sheetal would have left. Besides, it was a family outing planned by his wife to spend time with him. How much time did he spent with his wife?

Smiling at a friend or teasing her is not wrong, but is Sheetal his friend? Then why shout at Khushi for letting her stay? Khushi also thought Sheetal was his friend. And if he thinks that the situation will be awkward with his ex, then he should have maintained his polite host courtesy.

Secondly, he showed his caring when he said that she will be hurt, but that was after goading Sheetal into joining the game.

Now you may say that he is oblivious and clueless, but that doesn't excuse the fact that he, in spite of knowing Khushi's insecurities regarding Sheetal, is purposefully ignoring them.

If he had hugged Khushi or just tenderly touched her face or just looked into her eyes, it would have made her insecurity much much less. But he ignored her completely the entire time.

Any woman will feel insecure if her husband goads his ex into joining and spends the entire time teasing and bantering with her and completely ignores or throws irritated/embarrassed glances at his wife. Forget even saying thank you for arranging this outing for him. So I agree, we will have to agree to disagree on that.

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife
I have watched the episodes two times to see Arnav's attitudes towards Sheetal.
I did not find him flirting with her.
The thing NK is doing is called flirting.
If Arnav was so interested in Sheetal then he would have search for opportunities to meet her.
He only talks to her when hey meet.
And no sane man will flirt with his ex in front of his wife.
Arnav's conscience is clear.
that's why he does not hesitate to be friendly with Sheetal.
It is not flirting at all.

Aisha I too am thinking when did he flirt

scratches hed

he teased

since he flirts with khushi as he teases

forum has assumed the same

but with khushi he literally also seduces her with his eyes

while teasing

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preethi.saseeda

@preethi.saseeda

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Posted: 12 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: rima

his reaction to the DNA test isa CV blooper😊
I mean for God's sake IT IS A DNA TEST NOT BLOOD TEST😊

I felt the same too... They should have shown more here... No guy would feel alright about this... The cv's shouldn't have handled it this simply

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: rima

his reaction to the DNA test is a CV blooper😊

I mean for God's sake IT IS A DNA TEST NOT BLOOD TEST😊

Arnav should not have known about the DNA test.
CVs have messed it.
How can a man be so calm after knowing that his wife went for a DNA test.
Arnav did not even say his famous dialogue,"How Dare You..."
And Khushi should have felt guilty to do so and try to talk with Arnav.
But she was busy reading Sheetal's diary.
The emotions were not appropriate.
This is not the Arnav and Khushi I know.

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Gayathri

@GayuArnav

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Posted: 12 years ago

#86

I was upset with arnav and i still am.But your post has reduced my anger to quite some extent di.I was not able to drool over his hotness yesterday.I was not at all able to look at him! But after seeing this post i hope i drool over him today 😳

But still i feel arnav is not good enough.I mean no man can be calm after his wife doing DNA reports.That is really making me wonder that is ASR that forgiving? No! I mean he is not giving much importance to khushi's insecure feeling and pain and you too have mentioned this in your post! So unless arnav sees khushi's pain and reassure her once more with the same love in his eyes, he is never going to be the same arnav for me!

And above all the main reason is the CVs.They messed it Big time! They ruined the characters de.They ruined Arnav and Khushi! :(

Edited by GayuArnav - 12 years ago

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nafisa

@NAFISA09

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: subha_rath2004
agree with u...actually noone is wrong i guess...

but Cvs just ruined the characters...thats what i think... when the ex-gf of the husband comes back, doubting ur husband n all really happen in real life too to some extent in some cases how much and however the couple loves eack other...

but Cvs are nt able to handle the matter properly...thats where i am angry with IPKKND...otherwise track wise i was ok with it on the first day when i heard about Sheetal track!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i agree wid ur post...

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coolnisha_fun87

@coolnisha_fun87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#88

One more thing how can people say ASR flirting with Sheetal.I don't understand why will he feel uncomfortable.As far as I have understand ASR and sheetal was seeing each other(not going around or committed) and they have a normal break up not that Arnav ditched her.And what I have understand that its not they broke up and they departed.They were still friends even after they broke up.And this is very very common in colleges.I have seen people having same experience not once but many a times.And I still have friends who were once seeing each other but today they are just friends.And even I have seen the one sided love turning into a good friendship. That is what happens in real life.

So I do not find anywhere Arnav is neglecting or hurting Khushi .Khushi herself is getting hurt because she is in dilema.She is stuck between her mind and heart.She do want to share her agony with Arnav.She has already assured Arnav many a times that she is fine and she looks to be fine in front of Arnav.

I still believe the biggest blunder of CV is to neglect DNA reports reactions.

Edited by coolnisha_fun87 - 12 years ago

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Swati

@Swati_

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#89

Rima di much needed post..
I too did not find anything wrong in his behaviour...
I am apalled how some people find it wrong if he is friendly with his ex...
Similarly i know this cant be compared but if Khushi can be friendly with NK why cant Arnav have a friend...
Also he has told everything to Khushi...he did nt even get worried when she started coughing on the breakfast table agter the nut alleergy fiasco...
He is being accused of being double faced for no mistake of his...:(