How wrong is Arnav - Page 11

Originally posted by: Krani

Thanks for putting forward Arnav's POV. I think in this all, I don't believe Arnav is doing anything intentionally to show Khushi that he has "feelings" for Sheetal. I believe he has a clear conscience, which is why he does not second-guess any of his actions around Sheetal or Aarav.

I am not saying that Khushi feeling insecure is wrong, however I believe that the way Khushi is handling her insecurities by not voicing them out to Arnav and going behind his back is wrong.

And kinda disgusted with how Sheetal knows that Khushi has her doubts on Arnav being teh father - yet she is not really bothering to come forward and make things clearer, rather she continues to confuse and make Khushi more suspicious than before.

~K

Originally posted by: trina2010

Great post Rima. I agree to what you said. I don't think he is cheating on Khushi, I did not see him staring at Shit-all during the match unlike NK, I don't think he considers her more than just a friend . BUT I DO feel he is a bit insensitive as far as Khushis feelings are concerned.
See what you said are true . But somehow his actions are contradicting his own words
He said he did not even remember about Shit- all and just after he saw her he remembered her.
He remembers the stuffs they used to do together, about her nut allergy, it's consequences and even how long she was sick because of that.
He assured Khushi that she meant nothing
He himself confessed that he used to loose BB match and let Shit-all win.Now ASR won't do anything like that to JUST anybody and Khushi knows that very well.
He knows how insecure Khushi is about Shit-all and his past relationship. He saw her asking about it in different ways. Being sleepless and worried about it. He saw her going to the extent of doing a DNA test . Like you said DNA tests are NO JOKE. Given their past record he UNDERSTANDS Khushi and vice versa. Now Khushi is insecure because what she is seeing in front of her eyes are quite contradictory to what she assumed or heard before. I hate her way of dealing with these issues but her insecurities are REAL. Any woman in her place would feel insecure and OUT OF PLACE. It's very much REAL.
Anyway coming to ASR , no matter whether he assured her or not, since he knows about her insecurities he should have acted differently with Shit- all . He who never let his near ones suffer because of him or any other , is hurting Khushi big time. I know not intentionally but it is happening and the worst part is he is YET to realize even after getting so many clues and even the DNA report.
If it was any other man we would have realized . But here we are talking about ASR. He is never so careless, insensitive towards the people he loves. He puts them above everything. Especially Khushi who is his soulmate.
Sorry but I feel he is being careless about her feelings and that makes him insensitive. Though things are going to change hopefully real soon but for now this is the truth.
Just my POV

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

Arnav should not have known about the DNA test.
CVs have messed it.
How can a man be so calm after knowing that his wife went for a DNA test.
Arnav did not even say his famous dialogue,"How Dare You..."
And Khushi should have felt guilty to do so and try to talk with Arnav.
But she was busy reading Sheetal's diary.
The emotions were not appropriate.
This is not the Arnav and Khushi I know.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Great post Rima. I agree to what you said. I don't think he is cheating on Khushi, I did not see him staring at Shit-all during the match unlike NK, I don't think he considers her more than just a friend . BUT I DO feel he is a bit insensitive as far as Khushis feelings are concerned.
See what you said are true . But somehow his actions are contradicting his own words
He said he did not even remember about Shit- all and just after he saw her he remembered her.
He remembers the stuffs they used to do together, about her nut allergy, it's consequences and even how long she was sick because of that.
He assured Khushi that she meant nothing
He himself confessed that he used to loose BB match and let Shit-all win.Now ASR won't do anything like that to JUST anybody and Khushi knows that very well.
He knows how insecure Khushi is about Shit-all and his past relationship. He saw her asking about it in different ways. Being sleepless and worried about it. He saw her going to the extent of doing a DNA test . Like you said DNA tests are NO JOKE. Given their past record he UNDERSTANDS Khushi and vice versa. Now Khushi is insecure because what she is seeing in front of her eyes are quite contradictory to what she assumed or heard before. I hate her way of dealing with these issues but her insecurities are REAL. Any woman in her place would feel insecure and OUT OF PLACE. It's very much REAL.
Anyway coming to ASR , no matter whether he assured her or not, since he knows about her insecurities he should have acted differently with Shit- all . He who never let his near ones suffer because of him or any other , is hurting Khushi big time. I know not intentionally but it is happening and the worst part is he is YET to realize even after getting so many clues and even the DNA report.
If it was any other man we would have realized . But here we are talking about ASR. He is never so careless, insensitive towards the people he loves. He puts them above everything. Especially Khushi who is his soulmate.
Sorry but I feel he is being careless about her feelings and that makes him insensitive. Though things are going to change hopefully real soon but for now this is the truth.
Just my POV

Originally posted by: naddiya26

dear i will say one thing

if you have a husband , or a boy friend you can answer me only then

if your husband or your boyfriend finds out you are feeling insecure with his past friend , he will at once avoid that person rather than he will welcome him in his home , Delhi is too big , ASR had sources he should have asked them to say some where else .

he should never talk to a kid about his wife , even in joke , he should have said stop him , he is disgracing him self in front of us . IF khushi has gone for DNA , he should have talk to her rather then she should play match with Sheetal . as DNA means some thing . so much to say but will stop here as Arnav has disappointed us , he very well know ,Khushi use to get jealous of LA , as when he hug her he saw her crying , when he got necklace for her he felt he had hurt her . etc