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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I'm going out on a limb here and saying the cv's are showing us exactly what they want to show us ...

Which is ...

ALL the traits they have shown us of Aarav are the nurture traits, not the nature ones ... i.e. not inherited traits, but those that come from training or upbringing. Be it his dressing style and 'what the - the most obvious ones and the ones most definitely inculcated, not inherited ... or his interest in gardening, his disbelief in rituals, his dislike of girls (btw, all boys that age dislike girls, it's mandatory!) So Sheetal has obviously reared her son to be a carbon copy of Arnav.

I did note that none of the R ladies who had known Arnav since childhood, said even once that Aarav looked like Arnav at that age ... by that age, most kids show some resemblance to their parents ... it was only his attitude they remarked on.

Why has Sheetal reared her son to be like Arnav is the question that will be answered in this track. Steering clear of spoilers, my theories - well, there are actually only two possibilities here ... 😆

Aarav is indeed Arnav's son, maybe from a one night stand with Sheetal, or a drunken night he doesn't even remember ... hence Sheetal has reared him like his son. Arnav didn't appear like a man who had anything to hide when he told Khushi about his affair with Sheetal. So the question of Aarav being his son has obviously not entered his head.
Of course that could also be because Arnav's dimaag being the myth it is, he doesn't do simple Maths, even after knowing Sheetal is a single mother. 😆

However, if Aarav was indeed Arnav's son, why would Sheetal go to so much trouble to rear him with all Arnav's traits? The fact that he was Arnav's son would be enough, she wouldn't need to remind herself of the fact by giving him all of Arnav's habits also.

So the second possibility becomes stronger - Aarav is not Arnav's son ... and Sheetal has reared him to be like Arnav ... for one of two reasons ...
either she loved Arnav desperately, knew it was one-sided, she had a fling on the rebound after she broke up with Arnav, and Aarav is the result of that fling. Or she had a short marriage which broke because she couldn't forget Arnav, and Aarav is a result of that broken marriage.
Or she's doing this to try and get Arnav back, now that she knows he's not anti-marriage like he was in the past when she knew him.
Or the first already happened, and now the second will happen ...

For the doubt to rise in Arnav's mind, he has to have slept with Sheetal at least once.

Arnav's expressions during Rabba ve ... again, I will assume that we saw what we were meant to see ... BS is a good enough actor for me not to doubt that ...

Khushi was lost in the hug, relieved, happy ...
Arnav was lost too, but not with Khushi, somewhere else ... wondering? memories? doubts? the first thought about Sheetal being a single mom, Aarav's age ... did he have any memory of sleeping with her?


Diya 🤗

What a fab post!!

I really like how you brought the whole "nature vs. nurture" argument in here. One that can go on forever with anything. A huge Locke fan here!

Honestly, like you said, "showing us what they want to show us", if after all this he was indeed 100% his son after a 100 DNA tests that were not botched, I think it would screw up ASR to quite an extent. Because he unintentionally walked away from his own, and he'll go into a peetal bartan... and we'll have Bankeylal's ex- girlfriend going all self-sacrificial and the fandom ripping each other's hair out.

But, I do like the second possibility, it can be twisted a lot. Either way, what will come out is that they did sleep with each other, I think that is the bigger of the issue here, because it comes out to everyone and then there's the awkward turtle in the room. Aarav won't be his son. It will be the damage his past relationships have the potential of doing..
Like you I think he was born from a fling, maybe she even married him and could never love him, or he's dead, or he was abusive. In fact, who knows, after being caught she may just say her husband was abusive and blah blah so she wanted an escape from him.
I just want her to leave once the truth is out.. any of the other jargon comes along and this story will get boring..
Edited by sugar_babe - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Wonderful posts ladies. These posts are what keeps me watch IPK regularly. I guess TRP system has been abandoned after Sari has stopped posting.

Portrayal of feminism in most of the TV soaps are almost same. Can't relate these on-screen female characters to real Indian women.

Ignoring the logic behind the relation between genetics and habits, yesterday's episode was needed for setting the story.

This track is bit tricky. Everyone has different perspectives and no is wrong.

For me, it is not about morals or values. Because given Arnav's character, along with Khushi, we all know that he has had a past and that past includes physical relations. But what irks me is not about the past. But when the past comes in-front of Arnav, the way he is handling it (at least till yesterday's episode).

Arnav doesn't even think for a while about Sheetal even after meeting her in the market. He completely forgot to tell Khushi about the relation he had with her and was lost in Khushi's nautanki. Till here, it was ok (though I feel bit strange that he didn't tell Khushi about Sheetal on that very night). Later, he offered her a job in his company. This is where I have problems with Arnav though he has given this job seeing Sheetal's credentials. To me, yesterday, he was shown to be a man who doesn't understand women's sentiments much. Because any wife (Sita/Vaidehi and Khushi) though can bury the past, can not see the past in-front of her.

Why just wife? Will any husband can tolerate wife's ex-past in-front of him? Given male ego, it is absolutely impossible. Hence, I really want Khushi to make him understand this instead of acting childish. This is a major issue. CVs may not show the child as Arnav's but Arnav need to realise that past has to be buried and it can not come in-front of the couple.

Anyhow, Khushi is smart and not Anji. Hoping that she will be shown mature and knock some sense in Arnav first. Sheetal, Shyam or any other evils can be handled later.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

Diya, that's the thing there was nothing holding Arnav back from telling Khushi if he was intimate with Sheetal or perhaps he feels that was implied. Nevertheless, it never dawned on him that Aarav could be his. For Khushi it was obvious because seeds of doubts were planted in the poor girl's head and sooner or later Arnav must catch onto this, Khushi can't hide anything from Arnav even in the precap he suspected her mind was on Sheetal. Khushi acting weird will surely be picked up on by Arnav.



Mandy, I don't know .. would he tell Khushi straight off that he actually slept with Sheetal? Maybe he felt that just telling her he was in a relationship with Sheetal was enough, and she would connect the dots? Or maybe he didn't think she would feel he could have gone that far ... So it could still be either way ...

But yes, Arnav had no qualms about telling Khushi that he did have a fling ... which he actually didn't need to do, considering that Sheetal was obviously not going to spill the beans on that one. So he was just being honest as he always is ... and till now, he hasn't had a hint of suspicion that Aarav could be his.

Khushi - well, the entire family was going on and on about how similar they both were ... she already knew the name is ASR, which I don't think the family still know, because Sheetal was never actually introduced formally ... so the poor girl's mind is working overtime! And now with this news that Arnav Sheetal had a fling in college, she won't rest till she finds out exactly how far they went. I think the Baankelal scene is going to be about that ... she can't ask Arnav outright if he slept with Sheetal!

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DiyaS



Mandy, I don't know .. would he tell Khushi straight off that he actually slept with Sheetal? Maybe he felt that just telling her he was in a relationship with Sheetal was enough, and she would connect the dots? Or maybe he didn't think she would feel he could have gone that far ... So it could still be either way ...

But yes, Arnav had no qualms about telling Khushi that he did have a fling ... which he actually didn't need to do, considering that Sheetal was obviously not going to spill the beans on that one. So he was just being honest as he always is ... and till now, he hasn't had a hint of suspicion that Aarav could be his.

Khushi - well, the entire family was going on and on about how similar they both were ... she already knew the name is ASR, which I don't think the family still know, because Sheetal was never actually introduced formally ... so the poor girl's mind is working overtime! And now with this news that Arnav Sheetal had a fling in college, she won't rest till she finds out exactly how far they went. I think the Baankelal scene is going to be about that ... she can't ask Arnav outright if he slept with Sheetal!


How will that fit in though? Are they going to discuss bases.. more than Khushi getting the deets out I see Arnav going all red on this one then!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Other than the SBS video we still dont know Aarav's last name completely yet...Waise bi Singh Raizada apparently seems like a common name...the guy on an ekta show on Sony has the same last name...maybe Piglet is his son 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sugar_babe


How will that fit in though? Are they going to discuss bases.. more than Khushi getting the deets out I see Arnav going all red on this one then!


Arnav will have more than just a fit on this one...it hasnt clicked to him it wont click till after the DNA result of what is really going on...He knows something is bothering Khushi but Mr.Harvard MBA hasnt figured out that him and Aarav have a lot in common.

All of this is so debatable but the difference is a thin invisible line between making or breaking ASR's character and how they display this will make or break it all...Part of me says nononono they cant ruin ASR but part of me is curious to see what if he is Arnav's son...and what difference does a past fling and son he never knew of make to this equation?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DiyaS



Mandy, I don't know .. would he tell Khushi straight off that he actually slept with Sheetal? Maybe he felt that just telling her he was in a relationship with Sheetal was enough, and she would connect the dots? Or maybe he didn't think she would feel he could have gone that far ... So it could still be either way ...

But yes, Arnav had no qualms about telling Khushi that he did have a fling ... which he actually didn't need to do, considering that Sheetal was obviously not going to spill the beans on that one. So he was just being honest as he always is ... and till now, he hasn't had a hint of suspicion that Aarav could be his.

Khushi - well, the entire family was going on and on about how similar they both were ... she already knew the name is ASR, which I don't think the family still know, because Sheetal was never actually introduced formally ... so the poor girl's mind is working overtime! And now with this news that Arnav Sheetal had a fling in college, she won't rest till she finds out exactly how far they went. I think the Baankelal scene is going to be about that ... she can't ask Arnav outright if he slept with Sheetal!


Well, yesterday he gave a hint to Khushi that he and Sheetal were BF-GF and then later realized that they don't have love and hence broke up. What does that mean? It means that they had a physical relation right?

Thats why Khushi asked him how many more girls you had before La.


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Posted: 12 years ago
The physical relationship has been beaten to death and weather he did or not is not the question...the question remains if this child is his or not...I dont think his sex life or how many women has he hooked up with is up for debate its just debatable if in the end he's got some random najayaz aulad floating around.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -Vee05-

The physical relationship has been beaten to death and weather he did or not is not the question...the question remains if this child is his or not...I dont think his sex life or how many women has he hooked up with is up for debate its just debatable if in the end he's got some random najayaz aulad floating around.


😆

A major worry for Khushi is not the past but the phools from the past
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Posted: 12 years ago
Just a kostin😆What does the SR of chota packet stand for...is it Singh Raizada?If it is then the audacity of that woman😡

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