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Posted: 13 years ago

#281

Comment update in previous page- Page 37. Apologies for the delay.

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CravingKhana

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Posted: 13 years ago

#282

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

I'm presuming you mean a man who once over a period of time, repeatedly stated/suggested the same, and when he wasn't being vocal about it, he was still thinking it?

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Posted: 13 years ago

#283

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

I'm presuming you mean a man who once over a period of time, repeatedly stated/suggested the same, and when he wasn't being vocal about it, he was still thinking it?

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Of course *nods head sagely*

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BlueMystique

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Posted: 13 years ago

#284

Originally posted by: minimuffin86

Of course *nods head sagely*

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Cest.la.vie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#285

Originally posted by: minimuffin86
OK so I'm pressed on time so instead of a character assessment I'm just going to pose a question instead:

Would you ever be with a man who had once threatened to rape you and then maligned your name and character on a public platform?

First reaction: I laughed, really!

For me its a definite no. And I have my family to thank for that.

I don't know about others but I'd been told as a child if anyone (now guys in particular) say/touch you inappropriately you come home and tell us. Now, If my man were to even threaten ...i've been told/exposed to the truth enough times so actually say no to the man...and walk out of there.

Women who do stay in the relationship: a lot of them do for thier kids! I think they use their kids as an excuse , eg, "Oh, my son has his HSC this year..i'll walk out of this marriage when he finishes school." It's a never ending cycle for them.

But then sometimes...the man might try to use the kids as a threat..what do you do then?

It's a tough one...but i for one will be walking out of it without a second thought.

For me...if you have kids...they should be your priority!

I believe, women should be educated more about their rights. Know themselves when a no means a no.

Its also a matter of what and how you're exposed to such truths too. If i wasn't told that if i didn't consent it would be rape..well then what am I to do, right?

Rape..its still a taboo! Need to change that.

And, about "maligned your name and character on a public platform?"...

it'll be least of my worries for I know what's happened. And, my people will know better.

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Cest.la.vie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#286

Originally posted by: minimuffin86
Hello, so these questions are basically leading up to a character so bare with me please. Question # Two

Would you marry a man who once stated that you were a gold digger after his money? And if yes, wouldn't you wonder half your life that he still might think it of you? What does it take to prove that he is wrong and you are not after his money? Would you be comfortable taking money from him for anything?

I was just thinking about it...and what came to mind: even though we do spend most of our lives with that person, why is THAT relationship given more preference? I should spent some considerable time being in that sort of a relationship to know about it? :/

If my parents/those closest to me told that i was selfish...would i hold that against them for the rest of our lives?

Ugh...i'm actually not too sure. Right now im like...meh, its money talk. But then if one isn't stopped now..then it can lead to things like what your previous question was about.

But then, i would also tell...if you think I'm after your money why are you still with me? Leave...go save some money.

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blck234

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Posted: 12 years ago

#287

Hahahaha! Munchy! Now what do I say for this? I think if I was in love with him and wanted to be with him, then i would make him bankrupt first, some lesson for calling me a gold digger. And the whole issue of me being a gold digger out to get his money ,would hold no good right?

#Am I confusing? I sound confused:P

On a serious note I would never be comfortable taking money from him ever again. The rest I am not too sure!