Reality Bites... - Page 4

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Could not agree more! In reality these things do happen between people of different socio-economics that get married!!!

It dosent even matter if you belong to similar backgrounds, sometimes the way you were bought up ALONE, can influence your behaviour and thinking and your partner may not think that way at ALL!!!

Khushi and Arnav at home are compatible, coz they both come from strong traditional families! Relegiouse and cultured! They are also from the same City originally! So these are their common points!

However... ASR in himself personally is Westernized and Highly educated! A posh guy who has traveled the world and developed expensive tastes etc! Khushi in contrast is a small town girl, who loves the simple things! She has NO pretentions! THIS is the reason ASR FELL for her in the first place! Her authenticity! In the FAKE world of fashion and business that he inhabits, this sort of trait is rare!

Unlike other women in his orbit, who were overwhlmed by his wealth and good looks etc and persued him for the same, Khushi could not care LESS! That made her even more appealing to him, and she bewitched him! (Same way Elizabeth biwitched Darcy, who was much richer and posher than her!!)

So here we have a case of "Opposites attract"!! This is the first time they BOTH have had to make this relationship work! So there WILL be struggles! That is what we are seeing! Two people with opposing views FELL in love! Now they have to STAY in love!

THIS is reality! So I think we ALL need a reality check!!

Originally posted by: premparbat

Hi DArcyfan,

Very well written and this this the phase where most fairy tales end with And. They lived happily ever after.

Adjusting to his world and he to her is a learning ALL couples go thru even if they do come from the same background and this is where love is tested. Agree with all that.

What seems an aberration is that till yesterday Khushi was able to read his mind and understand himbu today she could it for a second understand that he wanted to be alone with her. If she indeed wanted to cheer up Di did she do anything abou it . For a well mannered girl she is does she not know that a bedroom is different froman office. The complain here is the HUGE liberty the script writers take with her. Make her look like a buffoon and they simply don learn.

The date episode was a joke, the recent wallop poori making was a joke an the fancy dress today was ridiculous. I would rather see real life challenges these two have because of their background difference like the start when he had a girl friend and she questioned it.

Right now it is very flimsy and contrived with a purpose to distort her characterization in the name of Sanka Devi.

I f you observe carefully... at the end of the office hug...khushi again finishes off his sentence for him...reading his mind again...what exists between them emotionally and mentally is a very strong bond...that actually brought them together...but that emotional bond necessarily does not translate into worldly tastes or styles or likes and dislikes...that is a different matter altogether...i am not happy with this either...as i have already indicated...but in Khushi's defense...she did not realize that they were alone...and anyways...me thinks they are just paving the way for something different...like a bigger fight sequence...a blow up...and then a honey moon track...it is kind of work in progress...and its in too early a stages to pass a final verdict...lets give them some rope...and hope they dont hang themselves...😆

Originally posted by: prabba

A very Good Analogy of Khushi

BUT. THIS TRANSITION of her should have a learning curve form the beginning episode to now, it can't have bumps of up and down, by now she has married, consummated and lived with him , CVs can't go back to her antics before she knew ASR.

she is naughty not stupid, she would have picked up on his likes and dislikes and kept a tab on it because she loves him.now they show her not wanting to sit with him in the movie and not caring for his expression, when she can sense him come half a mile far, why can't she now?

Her basic character will not change but she changes her ways according to the person like bua, Jijai, so why ASR has to see what he sees,

We love her the way she is, but they can't go back and forth with intense love and not care about ou comedy, no sense in there.

They are telepathically connected.

somewhere...she is still a small town innocent...as much as i have read her character...her avoiding physical intimacy...her shyness...her prohibitons are very typical small town...homely girl mentality...and i applaud the cvs for that...if u think carefully a girl from khushi's background...will always be naive and even conservative in such circumstance..

Originally posted by: godhuli12

what an awesome post.. loved it..

actually we r the fanz only want the unpractical rabba ves.. we never thought of this reality bites..now they are serious couple .. it must happen.

u beautifully said.. now both ASR and Arnav needs b in action to get the marriage work ..
The arnav's Do you of today's episode is the most turning point.. this man asked this question first time.. does she really understand him or willing to pay attention to the mature husband wife relation..

I guess we all phanka also should grow up from rabba ves and start enjoying this phase with our ARSHI..

they are gonna show us a different level once again..

and if they are heading towards the difference between two level and how their love overcomes it track...then i am all for it...coz this was never a fairy tale...and neither do we want one...coz they are predicatable and cliche to say the least...so if we wanted a mature love story...let all be mature audiences ...

Originally posted by: monsi08

cant agree more 😊

glad you do 😛