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Posted: 12 years ago
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really was looking for a post highlighting this point...u r right...that's d USP of ipkknd...we all heard the phrase----opposite attracts...but what happens after that !!!! is it so easy to go on with a person who is completely different from me !!!! even if they have inward similarities, still outward differences matters a lot...and only love combined of understanding, respect and trust can fill up this huge deep gap !! and that is our ipk about !!!! its not just a love story or story of love...its the story of the journey through love...and that's y i not only love ipk, i respect IPKKND with all my heart and soul !!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shu_cal


@Eve: A philosophical message indeed... 😳

But sometimes, I feel you just need the right circumstances and you can re-create the magic both in real and reel... With or without Youtube.. There said it!!! 😆

Back to Arhi, they are bound to have differences, but a subtle understanding look, hey I fell short is good enough.. For e.g Arnav shouldn't have had to spill it to Khushi why he was angry!! A subtle understanding from Khushi could have just recreated the magic!! 😳

Khushi will get there...eventually...and maybe that is what this is all about...how gradually their understanding develops...how they adapt...they change...after all marriage is anything but a bed of roses...me thinks maybe this track will eventually lead to better understanding of dos and don't in their relationship...afterall isn't that what every marriage goes through??? ( I Know I m giving them the benefit of doubt...but can't help it...that's the way my DNA is coded...😆)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: freaky_insane

really was looking for a post highlighting this point...u r right...that's d USP of ipkknd...we all heard the phrase----opposite attracts...but what happens after that !!!! is it so easy to go on with a person who is completely different from me !!!! even if they have inward similarities, still outward differences matters a lot...and only love combined of understanding, respect and trust can fill up this huge deep gap !! and that is our ipk about !!!! its not just a love story or story of love...its the story of the journey through love...and that's y i not only love ipk, i respect IPKKND with all my heart and soul !!!!!!!!!!

any marriage...arranged or love...between two similar personalities or two opposite poles...has to go through an initial adjustment period...wherein they each learn their likes..dislikes...the lines that cannot be crossed...the things that will click...this phase is turbulent...chaotic...but a necessary evil...and for a couple like arhi...as poles apart as they are...it can be anything but a fairy tale...
Maybe...(and its a maybe)...the cvs are taking it in the direction of mutual understanding...and adjustment... and about this show...as much as we love for its uniqueness...this same trait needs a lot of understanding...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

😆...I m glad it makes sense to someone...honestly...I cannot for the life of me figure out where we are headed...but looking at the forum's expectations of a miraculous stepford wife...I thought ...yeh post to banta hai yaar...🤗


Hiral...

I too am flabbergasted at the weird sense of humor of the writers.

They could have shown Khushi fashion parading in front of Arnav in the privacy of their bedroom...public spectacles are not funny in my books
The same situation would have been romantic and sensuous if shown differently...or, if they intended to show how Khushi and Arnav are learning to adjust in their married lives together, surely there are other ways of showing, instead of showing OTT comedy?

Despite all this I am still hopeful for next week 😆
Am I in denial or being delusional like Anjali?! I still have hopes...😳





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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbk2


Hiral...

I too am flabbergasted at the weird sense of humor of the writers.

They could have shown Khushi fashion parading in front of Arnav in the privacy of their bedroom...public spectacles are not funny in my books
The same situation would have been romantic and sensuous if shown differently...or, if they intended to show how Khushi and Arnav are learning to adjust in their married lives together, surely there are other ways of showing, instead of showing OTT comedy?

Despite all this I am still hopeful for next week 😆
Am I in denial or being delusional like Anjali?! I still have hopes...😳





shwets...neither are you in denial or delusional...and if you are...then I m the same..😆..I too have hopes for next week...and m looking forward to it..especially after today's debacle...
Exactly my sentiments...what a waste...what a fantastic arhi episode gone to waste...the same thing..in a different location...and we would all be drooling away in dream land...in privacy...this whole sequence would have panned out so beautifully...so passionately...it would have been a treat...there are at least ten different ways to show case the differences between these two...like the races and the movie...English vs. hindi dialogues...why go down this route at all...more than anything else...regret is uppermost in my heart and mind today...!!
Edited by eveline - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what an awesome post.. loved it..

actually we r the fanz only want the unpractical rabba ves.. we never thought of this reality bites..now they are serious couple .. it must happen.

u beautifully said.. now both ASR and Arnav needs b in action to get the marriage work ..
The arnav's Do you of today's episode is the most turning point.. this man asked this question first time.. does she really understand him or willing to pay attention to the mature husband wife relation..

I guess we all phanka also should grow up from rabba ves and start enjoying this phase with our ARSHI..

they are gonna show us a different level once again..


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well written dear. I completely agree with you I mean who has never been OTT in reality? or done embarrassing things before? I know I have and if anyone doesn't then you must be living a boring life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A very Good Analogy of Khushi
BUT. THIS TRANSITION of her should have a learning curve form the beginning episode to now, it can't have bumps of up and down, by now she has married, consummated and lived with him , CVs can't go back to her antics before she knew ASR.
she is naughty not stupid, she would have picked up on his likes and dislikes and kept a tab on it because she loves him.now they show her not wanting to sit with him in the movie and not caring for his expression, when she can sense him come half a mile far, why can't she now?
Her basic character will not change but she changes her ways according to the person like bua, Jijai, so why ASR has to see what he sees,
We love her the way she is, but they can't go back and forth with intense love and not care about ou comedy, no sense in there.
They are telepathically connected.
Edited by prabba - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Could not agree more! In reality these things do happen between people of different socio-economics that get married!!!
It dosent even matter if you belong to similar backgrounds, sometimes the way you were bought up ALONE, can influence your behaviour and thinking and your partner may not think that way at ALL!!!
Khushi and Arnav at home are compatible, coz they both come from strong traditional families! Relegiouse and cultured! They are also from the same City originally! So these are their common points!
However... ASR in himself personally is Westernized and Highly educated! A posh guy who has traveled the world and developed expensive tastes etc! Khushi in contrast is a small town girl, who loves the simple things! She has NO pretentions! THIS is the reason ASR FELL for her in the first place! Her authenticity! In the FAKE world of fashion and business that he inhabits, this sort of trait is rare!
Unlike other women in his orbit, who were overwhlmed by his wealth and good looks etc and persued him for the same, Khushi could not care LESS! That made her even more appealing to him, and she bewitched him! (Same way Elizabeth biwitched Darcy, who was much richer and posher than her!!)
So here we have a case of "Opposites attract"!! This is the first time they BOTH have had to make this relationship work! So there WILL be struggles! That is what we are seeing! Two people with opposing views FELL in love! Now they have to STAY in love!
THIS is reality! So I think we ALL need a reality check!!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#30
Nice post
Last few months it was about Arnav transforming and next track is about may be Khushi transforming.They might be building the intensity with Khushi's comedy and may be on Arnav's birthday it will reach extremes and there starts Khushi's transforming.I am just guessing here.
I am loving the track though execution could have been better.
People who were thinking what next after marriage -I think this is the track to say how they adjust/adapt in their married life being star crossed couples.

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