Why girls defend ASR (ASR not BS).. - Page 10

Originally posted by: bestarshi

You put my thoughts down so well!

I wanted to but did not!

Felt so good reading this!!

Good looks & hotness doesnt give you ticket to be rude arrogant and disrespectful.
I cant tolerate my BF or spouse treating me like that, just because he is hot & sexy.

(This is about ASR, not BS)

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

Interesting question...

tho i have to say...it may be already answered in your disclaimer...the u have to say its not about Sobti...and that he is really nice off screen...(who the hell knows ...again we know much more about ASR than we will ever know for reall about SObti)...he is however the face of ASR...the package that has been sold to us...

the physical is defiintely part of the enamour of a love story...

why defend...may be because they feel for him and feel a kindred ship...now you can form them along gender lines or just by experience or understanding one charactor more than the other...

the funny part is that these charactors and their story boards are so all over the place that it is actually hard to defend one or the other given their basic charactor...the writng is definitely poor and needs to be critisised...but saying so...one cannot say that this is what a situation is and there for you you and you should feel this way...cos you are a woman ...or man ...or what ever your image dictates...

Originally posted by: sonapari

Yes as a person who has faced many health issues over years & still achieved my goal...

I am very proud to say that I am a strong willed ,determined person...

But for me I won't feel brain dead in anyone's company...even Sarah pAlin...

So Khushi appeals to me not only because she is selfless,sweet...

She appeals to me because rather than being a timid,defeated person like payal ,Khushi finds out a way to help out her adopted parents...

Khushi appeals to me because she is smarter than what some people think...

That Harvard educated guy couldn't figure out who kidnapped him,,what was camera company's bill about,where anji is secretly meeting & with whom she is in touch with ...

So common sense is not so common...as with ASR...

I also admire never say die attitude of Khushi...

Whereas in ASR's case he looked defeated when anji miscarriage happened...

A strong brother wouldn't have needed wife's shoulder to get strength to face anji...

So may be I don't connect to people who are so full of themselves...

I don't connect to ASR because I don't find him that smart as some other people think...

In this world there are so many ASR s...

Trust me I have found some traits of ASR in many people...

But my self experience tells me Khushi like people are a rare thing...

Because of people like ASR this world is such a not so nice place...

Thinking abilities separate us humans from animals...

Being brainy is great...

But beng brainy doesn't mean you can't be compassionate???

In contrast I would say compassionate ,sweet,selfless people are more evolved...

An evolution or god's magic...whatever you wan to call it...

Human beings are there to make this world a better place...

To help each other,to care for each other...

At least that's what I think...

But ASR is neither compassionate nor that smart...( anji & shyamu fooled him so...how smart is shyamu then??)

I didn't go to Harvard ...but being compassionate doesn't mean you are not brainy ,smart...

You can be a great human being & still you can be smart unlike ASR...

Originally posted by: -sanika-

Oh Honey !
You seem to be very idealistic!
Life is live and let live for you
Where as , being a biologist, life is survival of the fittest for me
I am a realist
Our thoughts are never going to have a common intersection 😆
I don't like sweet, I Like spicy
I am never going to like Khushi
Just like you are never going to like ASR
Let us just agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: simran04

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Originally posted by: sonapari

Yep you got it...

I am too idealistic...That's what my frds call me...😆

For some frds I am dumb...but they still love me anyway...😳

And for that i have played my share of price...

But i have no regrets about it...

I don't compramise on my values...I am not that flexible...I am not that practical...

My ideals ,principles guide my life...

My mantra is live & let live...

HOW DID YOU GUESS IT ?😲

Tat's exactly my motto ...I was stunned you nailed it...😲

I Treat fellow human as a human being...I expect it from everyone else...

I have trust in concept of karma...

Whatever you are doing today or done it in past...will be counted...

According to VEDA & according to law of physics...

So yep in MAHABHARATA "karna "is my most fav character...

IN a novel called MRUTYUNJAYA THEME IS"PARISTTHITI MANASALA GHADWAAT ASATE"...

BUT IN MOST UNFORTUNATE CONDITIONS KARNA WAS AS SELFLESS AS YOU CAN GET...

Ultimately he got what he deserved...

He was above all that "selfless,brave & loyal warrior "...

He is real hero for me in "MAHABHARATA"...

Anyways ...we can agree that we are very different people...

We are from different planets you can say may be...

Selfless,sweet ,innocent people are so rare ...they make this world a beautiful place...in my book atleast...

So point is we will never agree on anything...

But it's okk...

Thanks yaar for respectful discussion...

"MANASIK TRAAS HOTO MHANUNACH MEE ETHE YEUN MAZA URALA SURALA DOKE KHARAAB KARUN GHETE...PAN KARNAAR KAYY...SWABHAWALA AUSHADH NAHI"...😉

Originally posted by: -sanika-

Are waah ! Marathi mulgi! Namaskar!
Aga naahi ga... Pratyek Jan vegla asato
Teech tar Life chi khari majja aahe!
Main and most important thing is
You should love who you are
Because if you don't love yourself, nobody else will either!
Doosri lokaa kaay boltat , hey important naahi
tula tu avadtes nah...mag baas ki!

Jaasi tu ekdum Idealist aahes...
Tasheech me lahaan panaa paasoon ekdum practical aahe.
atta ha genetic factor aahe ki environmental, hey nakki maahit nahi 😆
Malaa science and math khup khup avadatat
Saarkhe saarkhe prashna vichaaraaychi malaa lahaan panaa pasoon savay aahe.
me full world science ani math chya bhaashet observe karte as U have already found out :D
For me the most facsinating thing is life, its origin, its functioning.
Aapan kuthoon aalo, kaa aalo, apan vichar ka karto , kasaa karto, hey prasna nehmi dokyaat bhinbhinat asatat.
Mhanoon aata Epigenetics madhye Phd kartey : D

Prashna vichaarlya nantar ekda situation che parameters kalle,
ki mag situation manipulate karta yete
I love this control chi feeling
It doesn't have to be harmful
Maajhya prashnan aikoon, loka kantaaloon jaatat😆
Most of my posts in IF are questions...

Doosari loka kasaa vichaar kartaat,
kon kasaa kaa behave karto ,
hey determine karaay la malaa solid majja yete
Mhanoon , ji lokaa complicated asatat, ti malaa phaar aavadtat.
Because ti jaasta vel malaa interested thevtat.
kaaran ekda konaala figure out kela , tar me bore hote.

Mazha recent favourite character aahe Havelock Vetinari and Nara Shikamaru
my dil n dimaag full dhak dhak mode madhye jaatat...
Ji lokaa mind games khelo shaktat, ti malaa khop intriguing waatat
Next kaay vichar karel, next kaay action gheil, hey figure out karala me solid excite hote
Hey vichar karoon ki me tyanna beat karu shakate ka ... tyanna control karu shakte ka ...

Me nastik aahe
Mhanoon Karma kivva devaawar majha kadheech vishwas nhavta
All I know that aata maazhya kade 1 life aahe
ani tyaat me full on dhamaal karnaar aahe
Khoop abhyaas karnaar
Khuup paise kamavnar
khoop phirnaar and aai babana phiravnar
khup lokaana bhetnar
itki majja , ki when I die,
I should look back and say
My life was EPIC!

Ek mast video aahe, the Last lecture By Randy Paush.
Kadhi vel milaala tar bagh :)

Also, bhadaas kaadhaaya ,
aamcha ek Marathi thread aahe CC madhye
Tithe both Arnav and Khushi supporters aahet,
But we all respect each others views
Amchi constant kaahi na kaahi tari chugli chalooch asatey :)
You can drop by anytime :)