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Posted: 13 years ago
#31
I farak your post rima and in total agreement with each and every point you have stated..

Respect is earned and not commanded...one should always remember it...conduct is everything

just a excerpt from my comment on a thread related to spoilers...

Tomorrow if we criticise Barun or Sanaya and he/she says I am quitting because of the criticism them who will be termed a weakling..plz do think about it...

No one has attacked her personally, just the point that BS is on leave irritates and irks more than a few members...

We know she takes time off from things and provides the spoilers and it doesn't by any way benefit her commercially but still no point taking things to the heart...the world is not a rosy place it is filled with thorns accept it or not is upto the individual to decide...


Behaving like a celebrity and using the spoiler as a bait to silence critics is sheer stupidity one can stand to lose respect..bas
Edited by Didikisaut - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Ni1234

Awesome and much needed post..!!



I agree..!!


There has to be a limit to everything.


I appreciate two people who genuinely share the information. They take out their time and post the info here. We all respect them for that.


But they are not gods first of all. Yesterday no one bashed any body. It was just a request that spoiler giver should not reveal the personal info of the actor. which is absolutely right.


How come you can consider that request as a bashing ?


Ok to give spoiler and not to give spoiler is totally depends upon the spoiler giver.


If that person doesn't want to give then leave it. Why to beg ??


No one has hurt that person personally then why to say sorry ?


I was shocked when I saw that sorry posts..


I was like what exactly is happening ??


Few people give Hints. The moment I start decoding, episode gets aired..LOL


If you have the information, directly share it or else don't share it simple.


Why so much tam jham ?? To get the attention ?? LOL literally ???


A week back I saw the post by one spoiler giver that Mr.Sobti visits IF and read the posts.


I was like what on earth made you think that and you made a post also on that ?? 🤣 Mr. Sobti is upset because of Bashing..🤣 That BS spoiler was one hilarious I have ever read on IF till date..🤣


So make it a place where you share a spoiler related to the story and not the actors personal information.


Dear God ..!! Save IF..!!


Cheers Rima Di..!!



Nish I know that spoiler abut sobti visiting this forum
that was just so weird because an actor does not look for praise alone
he looks for comments to improve
the hints kill me
so much so i wud rather not try taxing my pea brains over them
also hate all the 'air's' which these people have
they should either say it or not say it
why the fuss?
Edited by rima - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33
These r my thoughts:
There are a few members who give us genuine spoilers in the forum. I feel it's up to them, what they want to share or how they want to share it. We can either take it or leave it.
Why do some here demand spoilers or tell them off for giving etc? What right do we have on these members who come here to share the spoilers? What right do we have to tell them what to do or how to do?

I know lately Mishti has been upset as some crticized her for giving info on Barun's leave. Seriously, If you don't want the info, don't open the thread. But you have no right to tell that person what to share or what not to share. Many others might want to know that info.

This forum has many members from various backgrounds and different personalities. At some points, we have to agree to disagree respectfully.


The news that she gave on Barun was not about his personal life. It was about his absence from the show. That's not invasion of his privacy. The info that he has taken leave does not automatically mean they use BD's. They could record his scenes beforehand too. I have so far not spotted BD on my own. I only noticed in the hut scene, as this forum was pointing it out left, right and centre with no warning in the title.

She is not GOD. You are right. For that matter, No one is. But whyshouldshe be criticized if you don't like the content of her post ? She didn't break forum rules. For eg, If you don't like some other member's opinion or post, what do you do? Do you criticize that person or do you just not bother reading or replying? Why can't the same be applied to her? Just because she gives spoilers to the forum, it doesn't mean we have a right on her. We can choose to read or not to read, believe or notbelieve. No one is forcing us.

Whether spoilers make us enjoy a show less or more depends on everyone's perception. The wayyouor I feel may not apply to anyone. As long as spoilers come out with a warning in the title, people can decidewhetherthey want to read it or not. If I feel that I enjoy the show less with spoilers, then I personallywouldn'tread such threads. Simple. Why control everyone and decide what's good for everyone?
Edited by Afya - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
Nice post..those who give spoilers are not cv's and we cannot hold them responsible for nything.infact we should feel happy that they r joining forums and giving us info.i hope it never happens again.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
Rima jee,
🤗
I Farak your post bhery bhery much.
I will just repeat my dear Gautijee's words- Spoilers dena hai to do.
BAS.
Now, I WANT 1000 LIKES ON FACEBOOK TOO and Dont forget to follow Gautijee on Twitter.


Harshu, Nisha, DKS, Chaitra, Manalwa and many others I farak your comments too.
Hooligans I farak you all.
BAS.
Edited by kookie2020 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36
If ur Gna blast at the person who gives the spoilers coz it came out wrong then just don't read any spoilers buh anova thing is I do not like the fact that they think that theyre superior coz hey know more about the show n all.

Everyone shud be equal
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Posted: 13 years ago
#37
well said rima honey !!🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
I m gald u make post sooo many ppl missundersstand her and sooo many time i write whts her fault that she gv us spoiler and here sooo many ppl,ab tu mi bahi yahi kaho gaii acha ha she will not gv us spoiler bcoz hum wo desverd nahi karte,,, we should respeT her,,and her acha she will not come bcoz we r not desverd her,,
Its really sad here soo many ppl behv like,,,,! But yaar if i,m mishtii,s place me also do thz same bcoz basherz crosss all limits,,,
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
Nice post Rima!!

I also read most spoilers.. And of course it's in our hand if we want to believe in the spoilers or not..

but these people who kindly gives us spoilers they come to the forum by their own will, it's their wish what they want to share or not.. so, it should be their wish if they want to leave the forum as well.. I think it's unfair to bash/PM them in that context..

Also I think Mishti is mature enough to know there are mixed number of people in the forum and they will have their mixed opinions!! And I think WE SHOULD RESPECT HIR DECISION, rather than demanding her to change it!! Mishti may have her personal reason to leave as well..
So, I am unable to understand why people are making a HUGE issue on that...

because I read the post where it said that "Barun's leave info might affect TRP"... Frankly speaking I didn't find it offensive.. It's someone's opinion again and everyone has the RIGHT to share her/his opinion here.. DAMN IT!!

Edited by hi50 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#40
Well said👍🏼..What a post..you just poured my heart out..I think it's the voice of majority of the forum members.love you for making this post.

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