How we should behave with spoiler givers - Page 23

Originally posted by: molten_lava

You can give your feedback to 4 lions because you pay to watch their shows. You are investing your time and money on it and hence you have a right to complain if you are not satisfied.

But you are not paying for Mishti's spoilers. She doesn't require your feedback actually.

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

It is about Barun and his schedule...

Spoilers are related to the show and concerns plot..not actors personal schedule...

well said Rima, I had made a similar post to another topic last nite. Those who give spoilers need to be respected but they are not gods, so they can't expect an VIP treatment from us.. When they can't take constructive criticism its their fault, people were not going for a personal bash all they gave was a constructive criticism (at least what I noted).

Why should we kneel before them for spoilers ? I didn't do that for my exams itself when I was still in school/university, why would I do that now for a show ? This show is not feeding me or educating me, we all watch this show for entertainment purpose, this is not our personal life that we should kneel ourselves before some XYZ for "spoilers".
We can for sure watch a show with out spoilers, we may be tense about what might be happening but that's alrite, actually that's the real thrill in watching a show. Just because some one has connections with in the PH, it doesn't give them a celebrity status.

I will respect anyone, I mean anyone until they maintain their dignity.

Originally posted by: prettypri

@ainimonaya...good to know you discovered you are immature through our exchange...happy to see tha it helped you to that extent...highlighting my points in different colours and using "cool" words. Wow,..u seem a really busy person alright!

just one thing...u don't know me obviously and I am glad I don't know you..but refrain from saying others ar less knowledgeable than you..do u even know how that makes u sound?? This is a discussion...keep it tha way..I know. Wll use emoticons and LOLs and dudes and other "cool and with it" words now since you obviously have nothing better to say...

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

Ya everyone has the Rights and so the peoples who demanded answer to her are right

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

and we tell the way we see it. And we are not any parties as u mentioned earlier

Originally posted by: Dinarochka

Isn't he taking a leave from the show? How is that giving out personal information? If I see no Barun in a few episodes, I'd know the reason for his absence, instead of second guessing & wondering why body doubles were used.

Unless, we have a danger of phan gurls invading his privacy in Delhi.😉

why do u need to know where Barun or Sanaya are going ? Are you going to stalk them ? Its their personal lives for god's sake. They are humans like us too & we need to respect their privacy. Its not that Barun was going for a week or month long leave, that we need to know when he/she is going to be back, its just for couple of days he was on leave & he was going to his home town.
Barun will be absent if he is on leave but his BD will working around for his scenes. So, we will not miss the character "Arnav" we will miss only the actor "Barun" when he is on leave.

Totally agree with u dear.a much needed post

Originally posted by: molten_lava

@bold: DKS! See now you are jumping to conclusions. I never said you are jobless. I know you are not. But that's the impression you and your friends are creating in the minds of people who view your posts on Mishti's thread.

Requesting is different. But questioning that too in a particular tone, yes, it does seem rude. Afterall, it differs from one person to another. It may not be rude for you but it is rude for me. Everyone doesn't have the same standard right? For example, If I make a post tomorrow and you start questioning me about it's purpose, I will feel that you are rude because you clearly had a choice to ignore my post if you didn't like it and yet you butted in and began to question me.

Now you might say, this is a forum and you have every right to question anyone as and when we like. But do we really need to?

if you really want to send out a message to her, you could be polite. Afterall, she did listen your requests once right? If people start showing attitude towards her, she will definitely respond back in the same tone. Is it wrong then? Afterall, even she has the right to make posts just like you do.

Originally posted by: molten_lava

So that means even she has the right to call your friends as bashers, isn't it? Then why make so much of fuss about it? Your friends have a right, she has a right, everyone has a right. Then why complain?