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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#211

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

yes spoilers are as good as Govt classified information...they have a lot of value...

There is no need to glorify it...but I am no one to preach..it is upto the individuals to decide...

She is not wrong in disclosing Barun's absence during film shoots as it affected the show...it is a different scenario altogether...it cannot be clubbed with him taking leaves which will hardly inpact the show...

absolutely agree

that was a different situation

and this is different

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#212

Originally posted by: Dinarochka

Why are we having this multipage discussion, pray tell?

Yes it is. Like it was 2 months ago.

It is about Barun and his schedule...

Spoilers are related to the show and concerns plot..not actors personal schedule...

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Ashi

@TheThoughtCrime

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Posted: 13 years ago

#213

I have to reiterate there's feedback which is given with the correct tone.

I found the replies to her spoiler about Barun's schedule not polite and bordering on the rude & being judgmental. Hence, my replies in this thread. I tell it the way I see it.

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molten_lava

@molten_lava

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#214

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Did anyone stop her or prevented her from posting stuff???

Now asking or requesting the reasoning for posting schedules is wrong???

One may like/unlike her spoilers it is upto her to decide but I had request her a few months ago to stop revealing the entire plot and may be she agreed as she hardly posts the entire plots now...

Requesting or questioning doesnt tantamount to bashing or being rude...

Yes I am jobless folk working in a MNC for more than 10 hrs 6 days a week...happy...

reposting

@bold: DKS! See now you are jumping to conclusions. I never said you are jobless. I know you are not. But that's the impression you and your friends are creating in the minds of people who view your posts on Mishti's thread.

Requesting is different. But questioning that too in a particular tone, yes, it does seem rude. Afterall, it differs from one person to another. It may not be rude for you but it is rude for me. Everyone doesn't have the same standard right? For example, If I make a post tomorrow and you start questioning me about it's purpose, I will feel that you are rude because you clearly had a choice to ignore my post if you didn't like it and yet you butted in and began to question me.

Now you might say, this is a forum and you have every right to question anyone as and when we like. But do we really need to?

if you really want to send out a message to her, you could be polite. Afterall, she did listen your requests once right? If people start showing attitude towards her, she will definitely respond back in the same tone. Is it wrong then? Afterall, even she has the right to make posts just like you do.

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prettypri

@prettypri

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#215

@ainimonaya...good to know you discovered you are immature through our exchange...happy to see tha it helped you to that extent...highlighting my points in different colours and using "cool" words. Wow,..u seem a really busy person alright!

just one thing...u don't know me obviously and I am glad I don't know you..but refrain from saying others ar less knowledgeable than you..do u even know how that makes u sound?? This is a discussion...keep it tha way..I know. Wll use emoticons and LOLs and dudes and other "cool and with it" words now since you obviously have nothing better to say...

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#216

Originally posted by: Dinarochka
I have to reiterate there's feedback which is given with the correct tone.

I found the replies to her spoiler about Barun's schedule not polite and bordering on the rude & being judgmental. Hence, my replies in this thread. I tell it the way I see it.

and we tell the way we see it. And we are not any parties as u mentioned earlier

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#217

Originally posted by: Afya
Disagree! Although I personally am not interested in Barun's schedule or anyone else's, but she did refer to his leave or absence from the show. She did not give details about personal holidays of his. The very same info was much awaited when he worked in the movie. Why didn't people have a problem then?

Ok..so barun going to Delhi for Raksha bandhan is not a personal holiday...😲

I am curious what is bloody official about it...

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molten_lava

@molten_lava

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#218

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

This is what is called as feedback...
If i tell 4 lions I dont wanna see Anjali drama then it is for them to decide...

Telling and forcing are two different things..hope you are clear...

You can give your feedback to 4 lions because you pay to watch their shows. You are investing your time and money on it and hence you have a right to complain if you are not satisfied.

But you are not paying for Mishti's spoilers. She doesn't require your feedback actually.

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#219

Originally posted by: molten_lava

@bold: DKS! See now you are jumping to conclusions. I never said you are jobless. I know you are not. But that's the impression you and your friends are creating in the minds of people who view your posts on Mishti's thread.

Requesting is different. But questioning that too in a particular tone, yes, it does seem rude. Afterall, it differs from one person to another. It may not be rude for you but it is rude for me. Everyone doesn't have the same standard right? For example, If I make a post tomorrow and you start questioning me about it's purpose, I will feel that you are rude because you clearly had a choice to ignore my post if you didn't like it and yet you butted in and began to question me.

Now you might say, this is a forum and you have every right to question anyone as and when we like. But do we really need to?

if you really want to send out a message to her, you could be polite. Afterall, she did listen your requests once right? If people start showing attitude towards her, she will definitely respond back in the same tone. Is it wrong then? Afterall, even she has the right to make posts just like you do.

Ya everyone has the Rights and so the peoples who demanded answer to her are right

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#220

Originally posted by: Dinarochka
I have to reiterate there's feedback which is given with the correct tone.

I found the replies to her spoiler about Barun's schedule not polite and bordering on the rude & being judgmental. Hence, my replies in this thread. I tell it the way I see it.

ok i was not part of the thread

but let me tell you

in a public forum people are often rude to me too

i take it in my stride

i never go around crying foul

wihen one is a public persona one needs to be tolerant

believe me i went through the thread

some comments in my threads which are anti ASR have people being much more rude to me

do I care?

because i say what i want to say if it is the right thing to say

or i answer them patiently