Why cant we criticize Daljeet/Anjali? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Who defines it???

Have MODs ever defined it???

They cannot even state the difference between bashing and criticism...

So if they decide it is in appropriate they will directrly raise your warning level...

I am pretty sure, comments hitting below the belt are considered above the line of decency! Now, I certainly am not defining it, not my place to do that!

And I too wish, that the MODs would state their reasons other than saying - closed. Thread to be reviewed!

Originally posted by: farheen75

I guess it's got to do with the actor's wishes as well... The other day I was reading somebody's post that Barun Sobti got upset that whenever he comes on the forum there is post on how he can't act comfortably in romantic scenes and I found it a bit absurd bcz he is an actor and he will be criticised or admired for his acting I don't know if he actually said this or not but just giving an example so may be Daljeet has complained as well and that's why they r doing this but whatever the reason is its not justified if they the actors accept all the praises and adulation so whole heartedly then they should accept the criticism as well provided the criticism is in the limits of decency and not calling them names or cursing them in real life.

I don't think I am bashing Daljeet if I say that I will never watch any show in which she will be in the star cast bcz of her antics as an actor in this show... It was her unfair demand for more screen space which completely ruins a show which I have invested my time in and as a viewer I feel irritated when they r not showing what they promised in the promos when this show started... To tell u the truth I didn't even like Barun so to in the promos or in the initial episodes but got hooked to it bcz of the storyline and the characters... The storyline appealed to me and not the actors but at the same time my daughter absolutely despise this show bcz for her the idea of a girl getting insulted by the hero first and and his family still is purely abhorring,she hates the heroine as well for having no self respect at all and I can't force her to change her views... All I am trying to say is how can they force us to like anjilli when we r unable to tolerate her on screen.

Will this forum now become Its All About Loving My Sister My Hindi is bad so if any one else can do the honors of translating please be my guest

If she willing to share some of her spoils I am willing to sing out her paeans in every single post of mine every single day

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Will this forum now become Its All About Loving My Sister My Hindi is bad so if any one else can do the honors of translating please be my guest

If she willing to share some of her spoils I am willing to sing out her paeans in every single post of mine every single day

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

Swathi JI, I bow down to your wisdom and your love for She -who-must-not-be-named and IPKKND.

You area true fan here.

I just have one thing to quote by this man-

"Because if you don't stand up for the stuff you don't like, when they come for the stuff you do like, you've already lost."
? Neil Gaiman.

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

I am pretty sure, comments hitting below the belt are considered above the line of decency! Now, I certainly am not defining it, not my place to do that!And I too wish, that the MODs would state their reasons other than saying - closed. Thread to be reviewed!

Every body knows how the way MODs act in this forum...

I still have 2 pm which are yet to be opened... sent 10 days ago..forget about replying...

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Will this forum now become Its All About Loving My Sister My Hindi is bad so if any one else can do the honors of translating please be my guest

If she willing to share some of her spoils I am willing to sing out her paeans in every single post of mine every single day

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

I love she who cannot be named❤️ I love Anjali ❤️I love IPKKNDi ❤️

Swathi JI, I bow down to your wisdom and your love for She -who-must-not-be-named and IPKKND.

You area true fan here.

I just have one thing to quote by this man-

"Because if you don't stand up for the stuff you don't like, when they come for the stuff you do like, you've already lost."
- Neil Gaiman.👏

Sure why not, we can comment. The only thing that we need to keep in mind is not to attack any actors personally. The constitution itself has given the right to opine. It is our fundamental right, but the number of negative posts in the forum was too much that they were left with no other option than this to stop negativity. Certain ppl just started bashing and bashing and bashing. This is not good. I don't even agree with all the points that has been put forwarded by the mods regarding this. We cannot take names of characters, actors or anything, then why to be a part of this forum. we are here to talk abt our show, to know other ppl's opinion and their view abt it, so... I don't know what more to say. For making an honest opinion, I don't get any capital punishment.

sometimes it does feel like back to school

Originally posted by: dkatmala

Sure why not, we can comment. The only thing that we need to keep in mind is not to attack any actors personally. The constitution itself has given the right to opine. It is our fundamental right, but the number of negative posts in the forum was too much that they were left no other option than this to stop negativity. Certain ppl just started bashing and bashing and bashing. This is not good. I don't even agree with all the points that has been put forwarded by the mods regarding this. We cannot take names of characters, actors or anything. Then why to be a part of this forum. we are here to talk abt our show, to know other ppl's opinion and their view abt it, so... I don't know what more to say. For making an honest opinion, I don't get any capital punishment.

The anonymity gives at least some of them a lot of freedom to write or speak recklessly, every time it is not good.

Above all SHOW IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

Originally posted by: Maverick29

Alright, there is still some "educating" that needs to be done!

Sorry Jameelah -- I will sound like I am teaching. Here is the problem with "CURBS" like what you said "decency" -- who decides what is decent? Is there a book, a code, a program that we can implement?

I say Shit -- that is indecent for my Mom and Dad, they slap me upside my head when I use that word. But I also say F*, M* ... the whole vocabulary from the Def Comedy Jam on HBO when they are not looking. But none of my buds complain!

So, when you start setting these ARBITRARY standards like "criticism has to be constructive" or "language has to be decent" you are automatically curbing people's right of expression.

That is FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG. I think you live in the UK -- look for something that is parallel to the 1st Amendment in the US -- we have the right to say what we want. If someone has a problem with what we say -- they can directly take us to court -- no intermediary medium has the right to impose such curbs.

On the Web -- it is the right to expression -- look it up.

Cheers/

Hey it's cool.

I agree, there isn't a book for this kind of stuff but we've got to understand that things here turn from a discussion to 'i hope you die, b*tch! Like I read somewhere in your comment that kids usually say that, now that is wrong!

We are the ones that should know what is right and what is not acceptable! But I also know that what will be your tolerance level will not be mine! It's never the same!

I live in UAE, by the way, but I do know the amendment act! I have a pretty good knowledge about the laws of various countries and I do understand 'Freedom of speech'. It is the people should know where to draw that line! Sometimes it does go over board here, Maverick.