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Posted: 13 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: trina2010

I was thinking about it just now. Why did she look guilty?

I mean why did the storywriter made her feel guilty?
I guess she is sidelined now because of Anjali and to make ANjali most IMP person in everybodies life she has to feel guilty. After all her character should never have any self respect. Thats how the Cvs decided to portray her character.
Now no matter what we say or write Cvs are NOT ready to lend her some self respect


Khushi didn't get importance ever than Anjali in this show.. today khushi is feeling guilt for anjali despite of she innocent but anjali ever will feel guilt for khushi..accept it or not anjali is real reason of khushi's pain but as invisibly...Arnav mistreated with her only for anjali, arnav made her life unbearable only for anjali, khushi had to get forcefully marriage with arnav only for anjali's happiness, khushi had to give second chance to shyam that also only for anjali, khushi had to face raging face from RM ppl that also only for anjali..in fact in next dadi also will accuse to khushi for anjali's pain but what is about anjali?? will she be accused for betraying with her bro? was she accused for her previous lunatic behavior?? nope..why would she be?? she is crystal doll in rm n to cvs also!!😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: trina2010

I was thinking about it just now. Why did she look guilty?

I mean why did the storywriter made her feel guilty?
I guess she is sidelined now because of Anjali and to make ANjali most IMP person in everybodies life she has to feel guilty. After all her character should never have any self respect. Thats how the Cvs decided to portray her character.
Now no matter what we say or write Cvs are NOT ready to lend her some self respect

yes trina
it is all about anjali anjali and anjali
from someone who loved her i have begun to despise any scene she comes in
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Posted: 13 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: bangles

Feeling guilty is Khushi's default response to anything that goes wrong around her- no matter how remotely it is related to her.

This is an automatic reponse in her strenghtened by years of experience of feeling this way.
The flip side of this feeling is her sense of responsiblity.
Khushi believes that somehow it is her responsibilty to make others happy and make things right for everyone around her. This belief of hers expalins a lot of her ' meddling' behaviours. When she cannot make others happy, or things go wrong around her,her first response is to think ' It's me, I have done something wrong', followed by guilt feelings and then follwed by an action to make things right. Today she offered to get Anjali a glass of water- her attempt to manage her own guilt feelings and to make things right.
How many times have we heard Buaji go:' Ab sanka devi ne kya kaand kiya?' everytime something gets messed up?
It is years through years of living through situaions such as these that Khushi has learnt to react with guilt everytime things don't go the right way! People around her expect her to mess things up and Khushi has come to believe the same about herself.
It will require some effort, solid evidence to the contrary and a thorough review of herself for Khushi to start believing otherwise.

good analysis
that useless family of hers (sorry except bauji all are useless) always makes her feel guilty
and i agree it will take years to change
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Posted: 13 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi



Trina the problem has extends much beyond ipkknd. If you wat they show on tv, u will realize maximum bahu beti's r shown to bear insults abuse yet return all that with love, understanding and forgivance without apology. They seem to convey that unless a woman is ready to bear abuse, unless a woman suffers she is not worthy of love. These type of portrayal used to appeal to TRP aunties. I don't like using that word but now my patience has ended. This was the very reason I had stopped watching tv last 7 tears.. I feel like screaming at the top of voice that ikknd viewers do not fall into that category...I challenge the cvs show the old self resecting khushi and u will see TRP..

i completely agree.
the old khushi means more trps
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Posted: 13 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: bijili

YEAH KUSHI IS THE VICTIM & SOMEONE ESP.ASR SHOULD STAND ROCK SOLID BY HER SIDE.EVERYONE IN RM EXCEPT NK & NANI ACT AS IF KUSHI IS REPONSIBLE FOR ANJALI's HUSBAND's WAYWARD WAYS.

NK WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO STOOD WITHOUT ANY PROOF AGAINST SHYAM & A GREAT CHARACTER,LOOK AT HIM ALWAYS TRYING TO CHEER UP ARSHI.

true I adore NK for being the only true friend of khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Aahanaxx11

There's nothing wrong with her. If anything is wrong then its the creatives brain.

Khushi is too kind and selfless. So selfless that she forgets about her own happiness and only thinks about others. She blames herself when there is absolutely no fault of hers. I want a Arnav reassuring Khushi scene. Where he talks to her and makes her stop blaming herself for everything that happened in these past few days and I want the scene to be well executed, LONG and not short and RUSHED and certainly not with Shyam lurking somewhere around. If we will get such a scene only when more insults will be hurled at her by Dadi or someone else then so be it. At least she will stop feeling guilty because I think feeling guilty every now and then when there is no fault is a kind of torture. She thinks she's the main reason for Anjali's sadness and I can't even imagine how awful that feeling must be for her.

Feeling sad for whatever happened is fine but feeling guilty is a tad bit too much. It was Shyam who came in her life, It was Shyam who lied to her and pretended to be unmarried, It was Shyam who betrayed everybody, It was Shyam who was cheating on his wife and It was the great Indian dummy who was too blind to see what a cheat her husband is. It was Anjali who didn't have faint but BLIND faith in her Shyamji. So Khushi has absolutely nothing to do with it. Its high time she asserts herself now.

aahana you changed your dp
anyway tyes
the guilt thing is getting to me
wonder why the cvs make her show this
what are they achieving
if they show then also fine
but let them show hergetting out of it too
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Was it guilt or the fact she feels sorry for Anjali?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: rima


sorry
it was the most hurtful scene in recent times
who brought shyam into her life?
who stayed as PG in her house?
who forced her into the marriage without investigating?
who forced her to get engaged?
...where is Khushi's fault in this
and he is supposed to love her
how can a person in love say this even in frsutration?



Arnav sure did that but you can't blame him as well for bringing Shyam into her life!
Arnav created a situation and how people react to it is not his fault! He never told shyam to protect go fight the goons for khushi.

Khushi took the enengagement decision cause o the whole diwali incident and babuji.
I never said it's Khushi's fault but she is reason, a person connected to everything!


By an amazing scene I meant a scene that was brilliantly brought forward and with meaning. I am sorry I shoul've mentioned that!

I can't judge his love! It was a moment of heat and the words were said. Right or wrong I won't justify it!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah.. Poor khushi.. She is a gem of heart.. So others sorrows r also her responsibility.. be it payel... be it even Dadi.. obviously anjali..

fully agreed, only Our ASR can take her out of this guilt.. but still she will be feeling sorry ...

But today i loved the episode.. :).. far better than last one.. comedy was perfect, romance was perfect.. drama was perfect..

sanaya's acting was superb..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ogive_nab


Khushi didn't get importance ever than Anjali in this show.. today khushi is feeling guilt for anjali despite of she innocent but anjali ever will feel guilt for khushi..accept it or not anjali is real reason of khushi's pain but as invisibly...Arnav mistreated with her only for anjali, arnav made her life unbearable only for anjali, khushi had to get forcefully marriage with arnav only for anjali's happiness, khushi had to give second chance to shyam that also only for anjali, khushi had to face raging face from RM ppl that also only for anjali..in fact in next dadi also will accuse to khushi for anjali's pain but what is about anjali?? will she be accused for betraying with her bro? was she accused for her previous lunatic behavior?? nope..why would she be?? she is crystal doll in rm n to cvs also!!😡


Sooo agree. No doubt Anjali is the main reason for every damn problem in everyone's life. Had she kept her husband in control long back nothing would have happened. She was and still is dumb. I have never understood her. She say's this is all a big misunderstanding. Really? How? How can Shyam getting engaged with Khushi be a misunderstanding? How can this lady be good with Khushi and at the same time trust her hubby fully? Can't she understand that one of them must at fault? She believes him even after Khushi and NK screaming their lungs out in the RM hall. She will never improve.

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