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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: godhuli12
Yeah.. Poor khushi.. She is a gem of heart.. So others sorrows r also her responsibility.. be it payel... be it even Dadi.. obviously anjali..

fully agreed, only Our ASR can take her out of this guilt.. but still she will be feeling sorry ...

But today i loved the episode.. :).. far better than last one.. comedy was perfect, romance was perfect.. drama was perfect..

sanaya's acting was superb..

yes today was good

but you and i will agree to disagree on yest😊

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

Arnav sure did that but you can't blame him as well for bringing Shyam into her life!
Arnav created a situation and how people react to it is not his fault! He never told shyam to protect go fight the goons for khushi.

Khushi took the enengagement decision cause o the whole diwali incident and babuji.
I never said it's Khushi's fault but she is reason, a person connected to everything!

By an amazing scene I meant a scene that was brilliantly brought forward and with meaning. I am sorry I shoul've mentioned that!

I can't judge his love! It was a moment of heat and the words were said. Right or wrong I won't justify it!

you know why i hate that scene

he never took back his words after cooling down

being connected to things does not make the person responsible

but i know where you are coming from and understand your POV

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Flame.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: rima

aahana you changed your dp

anyway tyes
the guilt thing is getting to me
wonder why the cvs make her show this
what are they achieving
if they show then also fine
but let them show hergetting out of it too

Yeah! Remember my stupid cousin? He surprised me by editing my picture nicely 😕 so just changed it. 😳

Exactly. Show her getting out of this hell. What do they achieve by torturing Khushi so much? Such sadists. I'm still seeking for a redemption track but that's not happening so hoping to see a scene where Arnav reassures her. Though I doubt it will happen.

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: Aahanaxx11

Yeah! Remember my stupid cousin? He surprised me by editing my picture nicely 😕 so just changed it. 😳

Exactly. Show her getting out of this hell. What do they achieve by torturing Khushi so much? Such sadists. I'm still seeking for a redemption track but that's not happening so hoping to see a scene where Arnav reassures her. Though I doubt it will happen.

your cousin seems to be your nemesis😃😃

anyway nothing we want ever happens in IPK except once in a blue moon that too was before feb

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bangles

@bangles

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: Aahanaxx11
There's nothing wrong with her. If anything is wrong then its the creatives brain.
Khushi is too kind and selfless. So selfless that she forgets about her own happiness and only thinks about others. She blames herself when there is absolutely no fault of hers. I want a Arnav reassuring Khushi scene. Where he talks to her and makes her stop blaming herself for everything that happened in these past few days and I want the scene to be well executed, LONG and not short and RUSHED and certainly not with Shyam lurking somewhere around. If we will get such a scene only when more insults will be hurled at her by Dadi or someone else then so be it. At least she will stop feeling guilty because I think feeling guilty every now and then when there is no fault is a kind of torture. She thinks she's the main reason for Anjali's sadness and I can't even imagine how awful that feeling must be for her.

Feeling sad for whatever happened is fine but feeling guilty is a tad bit too much. It was Shyam who came in her life, It was Shyam who lied to her and pretended to be unmarried, It was Shyam who betrayed everybody, It was Shyam who was cheating on his wife and It was the great Indian dummy who was too blind to see what a cheat her husband is. It was Anjali who didn't have faint but BLIND faith in her Shyamji. So Khushi has absolutely nothing to do with it. Its high time she asserts herself now.

Agree with everything you have said. These are things that we know and understnd, but Khushi does not see things this way.

For those who are prone to feeling guilty, it is not at all easy to get rid of this feeling. She needs to begin to believe slowly but surely that she does not always goof up, and that on several occasions she has been the most helpful person around ( e.g.,on Anjali's birthday last year, she comforted her with her wise and reassuring words). She needs to see herself in a balanced manner. So do others around her. Nani is one person who sees Khushi's strengths babuji is another. We need more people showing faith in Khushi for her to start feeling less guilty. This is a process and the change is unlikely to happen overnight. With Arnav by her side, this process should become easier.

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Sunara

@princessunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: rima

sunnara for someone soyoung I find your insight into things very wise and beautiful

stay this way!

yes arnav owes her this

and i agree to every reason you gave about her guilt complex

thanks di as always!!😳

and aww i truly hope for her sake he does it for her and releases her of this way of thinking about things...i would make her life decidedly easier!!

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Flame.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: bangles

Agree with everything you have said. These are things that we know and understnd, but Khushi does not see things this way.

For those who are prone to feeling guilty, it is not at all easy to get rid of this feeling. She needs to begin to believe slowly but surely that she does not always goof up, and that on several occasions she has been the most helpful person around ( e.g.,on Anjali's birthday last year, she comforted her with her wise and reassuring words). She needs to see herself in a balanced manner. So do others around her. Nani is one person who sees Khushi's strengths babuji is another. We need more people showing faith in Khushi for her to start feeling less guilty. This is a process and the change is unlikely to happen overnight. With Arnav by her side, this process should become easier.

Yes I agree but the process needs to at least start right? I mean how long will we see her suffering? Today was her mehndi. She will be married in few day's yet she feel's guilty and blames herself for everything that's been happening in Anjali's life. Nani is the only sane and sensible person in the Raizada family. She's calm, understanding and thinks with her brain. Sadly Khushi doesn't have her babuji who understands her best to assure her. Arnav has apologized but the pain is too deep to fade away with just an apology. Perhaps as you said, With Arnav by her side, it might just become easier for her. HOPEFULLY.

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GodhuliLogon

@GodhuliLogon

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

Arnav sure did that but you can't blame him as well for bringing Shyam into her life!
Arnav created a situation and how people react to it is not his fault! He never told shyam to protect go fight the goons for khushi.

Khushi took the enengagement decision cause o the whole diwali incident and babuji.
I never said it's Khushi's fault but she is reason, a person connected to everything!

By an amazing scene I meant a scene that was brilliantly brought forward and with meaning. I am sorry I shoul've mentioned that!

I can't judge his love! It was a moment of heat and the words were said. Right or wrong I won't justify it!

Gul is super woman.. she is reaching out there..

no offense jameela.. but I wish u never said whatever u just said here.. about 12th july outburst..

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Aishwarya

@Aish_21

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: rima

So who is going to put an end to this complex?

Who is going to make her understand she is the victim and not the one who is going to feel guilty?

Dadi for sure ... she's such a compassionate soul, sweetest nd fairest of them all, esp to khushi ... oh, nd mami too ... cmon yar ... evry1 s doing such a wonderful job of making khushi feel it's all on her, nd u want them to botch it up😆 ... vaise bhi SP heroines will 4evr b guilty of evry damn thing ... aint that the tradition ... Atlas nd the burden of the Earth kind...

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Priyanka

@AmazingAmy

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: rima

sorry
it was the most hurtful scene in recent times
who brought shyam into her life?
who stayed as PG in her house?
who forced her into the marriage without investigating?
who forced her to get engaged?
...where is Khushi's fault in this
and he is supposed to love her
how can a person in love say this even in frsutration?

I agree with you Rima...that was actually one of the WORST scenes in recent memory. I remember how furious everyone was after that episode. I could look past all the times Arnav lashed out at Khushi in the past because at least he didn't know the truth and was under the misunderstanding that she's a home-wrecker.

However, AFTER knowing she was completely innocent and put her life on line to save him, when he did everything to ruin hers...there is no way I could look past his cruel outburst this time. The worst part is that they didn't even make him take those words back. As usual, he gets away with everything while Khushi feels guilty for some inexplicable reason. They actually made her agree with him, first time I lost respect for her character. Its because this show likes to see women being submissive.

Anyways, I think that outburst scene was one of the big reasons why many of us couldn't connect with the show anymore...and it was reflected by the fact that many viewers stopped watching as TRPs dropped every week, despite the romance. I couldn't enjoy any wooing in ASR style because that scene was at the back of my mind. I wasn't interested in seeing any romance until we saw redemption from him.

I think that even now, he hasn't done enough to earn her full forgiveness for all the pain and abuse he put her through. However, the CVs will insist on rushing through the redemption track...in fact, we didn't even get one. It was simply a forced 5 minute apology from him, which Khuhsi accepted and BAM, its over. One whole year worth of misunderstanding and hurt and that was the closure we got.

I guess now they can focus on their real interest...Anjali. This whole suspense surrounding Anjali and her cheating husband has been dragging on for weeks now that it has gotten beyond stale and boring. We can't even call this suspense anymore...its called dragging. Most of us couldn't care less about Anjali's drama yet she will continue to be shoved down our throats. I wish they had devoted this time to dragging the guilt/redemption track. That would work out much better.

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