What is wrong with Khushi?

Why on earth is she guilty for a crime she has not committed?

On one hand i felt terrible with Khushi's expression - i didnt like the feeling being evoked in her & at the same time angry that she always blames herself for something she never did why ??

I completely agree.

truly wish what u told happens di!!

Poor Khushi!! well i guess that is what happens when one is orphaned and left at the mercy of relatives/ foster family where every day of her life since she was an 8 year old child, she has been reminded of what a burden she is.
she has been reminded what they have done for her,
reminded her that she has to be eternally grateful to them for taking her instead of throwing her in to the streets
made her well aware of the debts to be paid AND most importantly

has taught her that she should try to make it worth for having her!

and the little girl ended up making sure she pleased everyone at the cost of her own happiness, her own welfare

and today we see this Khushi who is more than happy to accept any fault as hers, even when she has done nothing,
cz she thinks it is her fault!

cz as she always though she became a burden to others cz she was orphaned
but was it her fault that she became and orphan? NO it never was! but still she felt guilty for the way she became a burden!

this is the same situation all over again!
She was the one victim who has suffered the most at the destruction shyam created!
she paid for Shyam's faults! she paid to Arnav, Anjali, her family, his family, everyone!!

And even now just like she thought by being an orphan she became a burden, she believes being the object of Shyam's lustful desire she has done some wrong!

She doesn't know that she is more wronged to than she had ever wronged!

Arnav also added to it as u said on that day, when he hurt her all over again, broke her heart, made her cry...
but above all burdened once again to her a guilt that was never hers to carry!

why is this happening to this sweet innocent girl who happily would give up her life to see a smile on a loved one's face!
the sweet girl who had sacrificed so much to make life better for every single loved one in her life...

and yet she thinks she was the cause where she is indeed the victim!

And worst situation of all is that she is always blamed for being the victim too as if it was her own doing!

Arnav needs to rectify this and it is not going to be an easy task!!
this belief that she causes harm to others has been drilled in to her whole character! he needs to start at the beginning and with love and care and infinite patience bring her out of this!!
he owes this to her!!

resv

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Sigh!!! Finally Im here Rima😃
That is how our Khushi is. She took the blame of Payal's broken marriage on herself and also Babuji's deteriorated health on herself all thanks to buaji. So its nothing new for her to feel guilty about Di bhoot now.
As your wishful thinking, even I want Arnav to be her strength and help her to get rid of this feeling and blaming herself for every damn thing that happens in their life.He said to her so, when dadi was mad at them about marriage (as Khushi thought so). Now its on Arnav. She helped him to overcome his inner demons in many ways, now Arnav should return the favor😊

PS: I know relations are not about favors, debts. But still if it helps their relation to grow stronger, they can follow it😃 Again wishful thinking!!!!

Originally posted by: delancy

I completely agree.

I'm tired of her feeling guilty because Snake face was and still is obsessed with her. I get her feeling bad for Anjali, that Shyam is such an unworthy piece of crap, but come on now...

Arnav totally needs to be the one to tell her she has nothing to feel guilty about and should let it go.

I dont think Arnav has realized the impact his words and her own thinking has had on her as far as her guilt over shaym fiasco is concerned...otherwise he would have tried harder to apologize to her...

Originally posted by: Harshitha

On one hand i felt terrible with Khushi's expression - i didnt like the feeling being evoked in her & at the same time angry that she always blames herself for something she never did why ??

Why does she have to always do that. For once what is the harm in standing up or atleast be happy with the situation & do not bother about any one else.

I want ASR to become the desired husband Khushi always wanted to clear the wrong image created as soon as possible in front of everyone in public.

Some one needs to put some nice good solid sense into Khushi that she is not the fault for every freaking situation that goes wrong in her life.

I will never understand this specific trait in Khushi ever.

Originally posted by: -Huma-

I dont think Arnav has realized the impact his words and her own thinking has had on her as far as her guilt over shaym fiasco is concerned...otherwise he would have tried harder to apologize to her...

and I don't think he is going to understand it until Daadi blames her for breaking Anjali's marriage

Originally posted by: -Huma-

I dont think Arnav has realized the impact his words and her own thinking has had on her as far as her guilt over shaym fiasco is concerned...otherwise he would have tried harder to apologize to her...

and I don't think he is going to understand it until Daadi blames her for breaking Anjali's marriage