ANJALI IS A SELFISH 'USER' & A MANIPULATOR!!! - Page 11

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jameelah52



Oh so you would throw a person out of the house because the person is emotionally weak!! Yeah right arnav is a saint!! Di shut him off he just couldn't open his mouth when he got ample of time asking Di about her health!!! Bloody speak up ALL OF YOU!!!

I didn't say anything about throwing her out! They can at least treat her in the hospital - instead of paying for her jewellery, sarees and giving her a credit card (which she ends up giving Shyam) they can pay her hospital bills. She will at least not stay at home and give everyone tension. Regarding Arnav, you know he has a soft corner for his DI and Nani asked them not to discuss any of this matter with her because it affects her health - so he didn't say anything. That doesn't mean Anjali has to deceive him - she is taking advantage of him DAMMIT!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SheetalAnshul

Anjali is not acting dumb ya may be bit selfish. We should not forget that Arnav had not explained anything to Anajli that he has seen Shyam with Khushi on terace or he has confronted Shyam after that.. he gave this explaination to Nani but not Anjali. Khushi was not able to proof any of the allegations she and NK had put on Shyam. Arnav believed Khushi despite of the absence of all proofs because he loved her and he has alreafy wronged her once. But Anjali has no reason to believe the false allegations (allegations which have no proof) against her husband. We know the complete truth thus we know that Shyam is a creep, Arshi has suffered a lot due to him, he doesnt love Anjali or thier to be born baby. But Anjali is not aware of all this. She has always seen his good side.

Not to forget she has witnessed Khushi with Shyam many times -- feeding him the kheer, going out with him while saying she is going somewhere else and also mami has told her that she has heard Khushi saying Shyam to leave her.
If someone will come and tell me tomorrow that my husband is cheating me, i wont believe that person blindly. Even if that person is someone very dear to my heart. She is 7 months pregnant, love her husband very much and just want a happy future for her and her baby. Is that so much she is asking for.
She is lying to Arnav but then she believe that Arnav and Khushi have also lied to her about Buaji's health which is true they did lie. Reason we alll know, but Anjali is not aware of why Khushi left the house and why Arnav went behind her. She know nothing about 6 months contract marraigae.
For me there is nothing wrong if she is trying to save her broken marriage. In my opinion Arnav was wrong when he outright distrust khushi after seeing her with Shyam on terrace without giving her any chance to explain. But Anjali here is giving he husband a chance to prroof himself innocent which in my opinion is not wrong. ya its her bad luck that her husband who she loved more that anyone else is a creep and not worth it.




Yes Arnav hasn't told her all the details but has SHE ever asked? If it was me, I would want all the details and then I would make a decision. When has she ever attempted to find out why her brother did what he did? What about her brother being kidnapped?

As for lying, I don't believe in lying because someone else is lying. You can't justify wrong behavior because someone else is doing it. She made such a big deal about Arnav "lying" to her yet she has no trouble doing the same. She's a hypocrite.

As for giving her husband a chance, quite honestly, what kind of a marriage did she have? He was gone most of the time. They never had a home together. She provided for him. She has no ties to his family.

just my opinion but for me the character of Annual has been ruined beyond repair. I have very little tolerance for weak women who use their family to get what they want.
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Posted: 13 years ago
And let me add, if we are speaking of TRPS!

The past three weeks before this week. We WERE STUCK on 2.5 WITH nothing but ArHi scenes and Dadi of course, but ARHI SCENES. So yeah. Your point isn't valid if you're saying this Anjali-Shyam track is the reason for the TRP.


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And general audience- aka people like my mother and my friends parents, are actually enjoying this. Drama+Romance= a happy camper :]
Edited by anitamalik - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes!I agree with each and every word of yours.There was a time when I used to adore her character..Now,all thats left for her is disgust.Even when she sabotage Khushi bday I tried to sympathise with her character..bt NOW I DONT CARE.
Just a week back my mum was so frustrated with the track..as she wasnt understanding with al this tracks(Dadi,anjali,garima) thrown at us..and yes I told her abt Db renewal of contract and she told if she had left..then we would have been better.😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
Oh my goodness!!! I forgot to say something,Many people here are asking that Arnav never clarified the matters with Anjali -Now, I want to ask you all that has Anjali ever showed any concern for Arnav since he came back from after being kidnapped? Has she ever asked him how he was feeling now? How Khushiji found him? NO! She was busy thinking about SHYAM and doubting ArHi. Another characteristic of a selfish woman!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
MrDarcy, you fall to understand, the only way for Anjali to realize the truth about her husband is to witness it with her own eyes. The world can say a billion things, her brother can too. But at the end of the day, your heart is the one that wins. If I was in the situation Anjali was in, I would still try to save my marriage too. She's naive, and that's what we are witnessing. Shyam has taken advantage of her and brainwashed her to such a extent that she can't judge right from wrong- THATS what we are seeing at the moment.

Like I said, stop blaming Daljeet. You act like you negotiated with her and were present there. This track would have happened even if a new actress came.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: anitamalik

And let me add, if we are speaking of TRPS!

The past three weeks before this week. We WERE STUCK on 2.5 WITH nothing but ArHi scenes and Dadi of course, but ARHI SCENES. So yeah. Your point isn't valid if you're saying this Anjali-Shyam track is the reason for the TRP.


=))))))))


And general audience- aka people like my mother and my friends parents, are actually enjoying this. Drama+Romance= a happy camper :]



Last weeks Monday we had trp of 2.3 ..simply becuz friday epi precap mami was inquiring abt SMS to anjali.In my house my gran,badi dadi,buaji,masi watches this show al 60+ years..and they arent happy becuz too much stuf is shown at same time..old things like shyam being thrown out of RM is nt yet revealed to Guptas..so many loose ends thats diverting viewers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Arnav did say that he married Khushi for Anjali.
Arnav did say that Anjali is the most important person in her life.
And it is Anjali's duty to find out the truth.
Any woman(weak or strong)will not allow anyone to insult her husband.
But here she is giving her husband the money from her brother who is wrong in her eyes.
Anjali is herself lying but she cries bucket when she thinks Arnav lied to her.
I don't know how some people think she is not wrong.But thanks majority find her a selfish lady.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav

Oh my goodness!!! I forgot to say something,Many people here are asking that Arnav never clarified the matters with Anjali -Now, I want to ask you all that has Anjali ever showed any concern for Arnav since he came back from after being kidnapped? Has she ever asked him how he was feeling now? How Khushiji found him? NO! She was busy thinking about SHYAM and doubting ArHi. Another characteristic of a selfish woman!!!




Her world fell apart okay. When Arnav came in from being kidnapped into RM, she was worried. BUT fans on IF, thought her reaction was OVERdramatic. Okay..and then if someone throws your husband out, gives you shocks by shock, would you be in the right mental state to ask about your brother when you're world is crumbling down, esp if you're a pregnant woman?


Anjali did say in a past episode to Nani. She doesn't know whose right. Arnav is her brother, Shyam her husband- shes confused. Anjali is just trying to save her marriage at any cost...she's willing to forget everything about Khushi-Shyam too- ANJALI is TOO brainwashed by Shyam and Shyam is a NEED in her life. She can't distinguish right from wrong atm and thats what we are seeing.


THIS is a natural progression to her character. I would have been like WHAT THEEE if they had shown her go strong after the whole Shyam fiasco, cause Anjali HAS always been weak. LOOK at what her weakness is making her too- lie to her brother, lie to her family...This is gonna make Anjalis character stronger one day by making her SEE the truth behind the mask Shyam has!

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