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Posted: 13 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1

I disagree, respectfully.

Arnav is a man of few words. A man who holds many fears.
First when he forced khushi marry her, he feared his sisters breakdown. He felt helpless. And so, he forced the marriage.
Now he fears losing khushi. He feels helpless. He forces her. Deals with it ASR way. This is the chracter, Arnav Singh Raizada. This is what the whole 'iss pyaar ko kia naam doin' is about.

then why not he is accepting this contract marriage in front of everyone and clearing it..to release her burden and remarry her
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Posted: 13 years ago
#82
@MrDarcyfan- Anjali is insecure. I dont call that jealousy!
as for the rest you are right ,khushi cant have it both ways!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa



Sorry for the intrusion, so hasn't Anjali lied at all to her family? people in glass houses should undress in the dark 😆



See when you lie, its understandable but when others you can't take it lol ok just ignore that



Well, she's mentally disturbed/unstable and always feels insecure and this is exactly what they're trying to show here. Hmm I still think lying about someone health is not a good thing. It's not a joke!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

@MrDarcyfan- Anjali is insecure. I dont call that jealousy!
as for the rest you are right ,khushi cant have it both ways!

so dear u think khushi is secured???
poor girl is in mesh...her family emotionally burdened her to go to her sasural..she cant stay here for long..
on other hand...with arnav she has 6 months contract..where she will go after this???
u think she should shamelessly stay back in RM after 6 months ..only to get yelled again by ASR or someone in RM on her and blame her constantly
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Posted: 13 years ago
#85
You know I really loved ASR's character at one point but i feel that love slowly diminishing episode by episode by his lack of consideration shown towards Khushi.

I'm reading a lot of comments here that is justifying his crappy behaviour by calling it the 'ASR style'

Yes ASR has been ruthless, cruel and selfish from the start of the show... but these are not the qualities you would want in a lover... and he needs to realise that... so what if his feeling helpless and desperate to win Khushi back... that's no reason to behave the way he is behaving... because at the end of the day he is still harassing her in the name of his so called 'love'!!!

If Khushi gives into him now... then that's only going to prove to him that he can get away with that kind of behaviour...

Khushi deserves respect from Arnav... ASR style or not... it is not ok for a man to behave like this with the woman he loves... she's better off without that 'style' of love...


Edited by oh.petite.one - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

then why not he is accepting this contract marriage in front of everyone and clearing it..to release her burden and remarry her



Don't be confused. Him admitting his mistake in front of everyone and remarrying her is own it's way. :) probably that's why i'm a little calm!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: zeeba*



See when you lie, its understandable but when others you can't take it lol ok just ignore that



Well, she's mentally disturbed/unstable and always feels insecure and this is exactly what they're trying to show here. Hmm I still think lying about someone health is not a good thing. It's not a joke!



well didn't she pay a visit to Shaym under the pretext of going to the hospital? isn't she lying about her health then?

So what are you trying to say? In general lying is good but one should only not lie about the health of others? 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

so dear u think khushi is secured???
poor girl is in mesh...her family emotionally burdened her to go to her sasural..she cant stay here for long..
on other hand...with arnav she has 6 months contract..where she will go after this???
u think she should shamelessly stay back in RM after 6 months ..only to get yelled again by ASR or someone in RM on her and blame her constantly



Why doesn't Khushi open her mouth? It's not her fault, he forced her. Yes it is upsetting but you can't run away with it, you gotta face it. She shouldn't take all this from him! No!
Edited by zeeba* - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: oh.petite.one

You know I really loved ASR's character at one point but i feel that love slowly diminishing episode by episode by his lack of consideration shown towards Khushi.

I'm reading a lot of comments here that is justifying his crappy behaviour by calling it the 'ASR style'

Yes ASR has been ruthless, cruel and selfish from the start of the show... but these are not the qualities you would want in a lover... and he needs to realise that... so what if his feeling helpless and desperate to win Khushi back... that's no reason to behave the way he is behaving... because at the end of the day he is still harassing her in the name of his so called 'love'!!!

If Khushi gives into him now... then that's only going to prove to him that he can get away with that kind of behaviour...

Khushi deserves respect from Arnav... ASR style or not... it is not ok for a man to behave like this with the woman he loves... she's better off without that 'style' of love...




Agree... at the start of the serial both played a fair game.. both gave it as good as they got.. they never fell pray to deceit and lies.. it was fought on equal footing..

nowadays, ASR plays the underhand game.. he is definitely better positioned and misuses her vulnerabilities.. this is my grouse..
Khushi has now been reduced to a wimp.. she does not fight for her rights..

I would like to see an ASR who fights fairly ... not resort to deceit and lies..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: Shastradhari


so dear u think khushi is secured???
poor girl is in mesh...her family emotionally burdened her to go to her sasural..she cant stay here for long..
on other hand...with arnav she has 6 months contract..where she will go after this???
u think she should shamelessly stay back in RM after 6 months ..only to get yelled again by ASR or someone in RM on her and blame her constantly



khushi is not going anywhere! Arnav will make sure of that! You need to understand ke Arnav is NEVER letting her go once she is back in RM!

and I really think that for the betterment of their relationship the truth about contract marraige has to come out!

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