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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: c3cilia


I completely agree .. i'm not that type of person who usually go up to people and apologize too .. and playing with words is something i like to do so often time i would hint out that i'm sorry .. however, i find that it's hard to do this at time so what ASR needs to do is take our words in mind and starts showing genuine actions without the 'ego' in mind.

I seriously think that if he can't tell her straight forward, he could WRITE her a note of apology or some sweet things .. i love all the forcing but sometimes with him forcing her like this .. it seems like it is an one side love (for new people who didn't watch their love story from the start and starts half way here lol)



If he writes to her a note of apology would Khushi be able to read it...his wrting is like 'kide makora' that's what Anjali said in one of the early episodes...😆 Kahi Khushi specs na lag jaye...😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: c3cilia


Totally with you on that .. she did forgive him and try to move on but it was him who brought up the contract and throw in her face .. what he could have done is apologize nicely to her and finds other way to deal with it than to use that as his last resort. Honestly, this was the first time i forgive him b/c i feel that he's desperate but today, that desperation seems to be throw out of the window .. like some of the girls in here had mentioned .. he did not want to REVEAL this to his family then why did he decide to do this for her .. b/c Gupta after all are not as important to him as they are to Khushi. Sure, he respect them after marriage but prior to marriage, he has no eyes for them .. if not for Khushi to make him to go and stay at the Gupta, who knows, ASR is still probably at square one with his thoughts of the Gupta ..

Another thought came to mind ... let's say, if he didn't find out that the last 13 days of the 6 months is coming to an end, would he still behave this way? I don't know but for sure whatever he's doing right now is like BUYING love from Khushi and when she refused he can't suck on his thumb and so he wine and threaten her .. which is not good at all for a relationship when it takes two to tangle.

Exactly, he gets so worried about his family especially his Di. She will breakdown, she won't be able to take this and blah blah. What about her family? Isn't her dad paralyzed? He takes her kindness for weakness. The fact is he takes up her as a challenge and he can't afford to lose. NO wonder he keeps on saying ASR never loses. One day he will realize her importance but it will be too late!
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Posted: 13 years ago
@TM. Gupta family isn't important to him as much as it is to Khushi? Please explain. Your saying as if Riazadas wouldnt find out about what he did. Remember he forced, Khushi is innocent. They will question him..


I would love to hear what you gotta say about Khushi being selfles and taking all the crap from him. Is it her family? Oh God like they won't find out.


Arnav is wrong and Khushi isn't doing anything. I so want this girl to speak for herself and think about herself.

Hope it makes sense, online from my phone.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jameelah52




Again sorry for interferring but why the hell doesnt khushi simply say NO? Why does she have to be this goody teo shoes? She is making herself vulnrrable! When she has clearly decided that she doesnt want to stay with Arnav go tell your the elders in the family about the CM and get it over with!



i'd like to see the earlier fiesty Khushi make a come back too...

https://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5896f1HCl1qer3py.gif


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don't want to see her putting up with his crap any longer !!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SaraaK

@Shastradhari To your question I can answer.
well, why should he? It's closed door contract between two people..Why it's should be out?
Don't you think if it's out question won't be raised against Khushi? Do you think that both families will let her leave without asking her any questions???
or don't you think that Payal won't ask her that why she didn't tell her when Arnav gave her this one option???
Don't you think that Raizadas will ask her again that why didn't you try to convince him? They are weird people!
that both families will again blame or lift their fingers on Khushi of lying about their marriage, hiding everything from them??? Just the way Raizada's did because of Shyam... Only difference will be this time she'll be questioned by her own family as well!

This will create the biggest mess in IPKKND? lol!

I am sure Arnav won't reply again because if he tells everyone about their CM, he has nothing else to say... He only gave her the choice the day of wedding he already told grand mother about his biggest mistake. what else can he say??? This will turn everything against Khushi.
Do you think they will blame Arnav or Khushi???
I am sure all of them will ask Khushi many questions including her sister. They all know Arnav is weird, and not Khushi.
I think everyone will blame Khushi for taking Arnav's offer. Arnav is Arnav in their eyes, but Khushi is full of morals so how can she go to that extend??? even when Arnav forced her???? They will ask her😡😡
I don't want this to out ever.


My answer to bold: Because they are their families. Contract marriage isn't a small thing. No matter what the conclusions are it has to be out. Families need to know she was innocent! & If everyone questions Khushi and MIGHTY ASR doesn't admit his mistakes then he is digging his own grave. The he should forget Khushi, same Khushi he's so desperate forand go back to his Di!:)
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: adorableyosh



The language of love can be read by anyone .. he can write all jibberish but end with I LOVE YOU AND I'M SORRY and she'll be okay with that b/c it's sincerely feeling .. he INVESTED his time and thought about her 😉



When someone threaten you .. what do you do? You fall for them and do as they ask b/c you had made the same mistake once .. and if refuse to do this one .. it'll be the 2nd time around and that will be FOREVER sad in Payal's life ..

It's her fault for making the deal but what can the poor girl do when she feel helpless .. just as much as ASR love protect Anjali .. i find it is equally right that Khushi do the same for Payal too. For this, i let it go b/c both are doing for their own good cause ... but i blame him later b/c he BROUGHT it up on her face after she has forgotten it ..


Realize that he ask her this after he HURT her deeply with his blame .. so if i'm Khushi - even if i want to tell him everything, this incident will still linger behind my thoughts and eventually, i would just coward back and shut it off b/c 13 days of suffering is better than a life time with mr.big ego lol (ooh, i love him and i hate him .. cant' decide .. blame it on today episode)




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Posted: 13 years ago
He loves her at gunpoint (emotional blackmail)😡
I cannot accept his way of wooing her . 😕😲😭
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mariam_Sultan

He loves her at gunpoint (emotional blackmail)😡
I cannot accept his way of wooing her . 😕😲😭


Yes, buying me love with money is not the go thing for me either ..

Originally posted by: zeeba*

@TM. Gupta family isn't important to him as much as it is to Khushi? Please explain. Your saying as if Riazadas wouldnt find out about what he did. Remember he forced, Khushi is innocent. They will question him..


I would love to hear what you gotta say about Khushi being selfles and taking all the crap from him. Is it her family? Oh God like they won't find out.


Arnav is wrong and Khushi isn't doing anything. I so want this girl to speak for herself and think about herself.

Hope it makes sense, online from my phone.


If he was considerate enough .. he would wait and let their argument calm down before he gave out this statement .. I'm okay with revealing the truth when both agree - but when one wants to do it and the other doesn't .. it's a BIG STAB in the back kind of action .. This is a close deal between the two - both needs to agree to reveal it

As for him not being considerate of the family .. i just take it that way b/c he bluntly take actions without considering them .. never once has KHUSHI use Di to justify her action beside the whole leaving RM .. All i can hear from ASR is .. if you don't do this .. i'll do that .. if you don't do this .. i'll make PAYAL's marriage fail b/c Akash is a brother boy lol blah .. blah .. but you know, i forgive him b/c he's bluffing most of the time .. but today .. for him to ask her 'IS OUR MARRIAGE MEANS NOTHING to you' and the sacrifice he plan to take on the Gupta family ends everything for me. Even i feel helpless as a viewer .. how is Khushi handling this when she's facing the actual problem herself?

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Posted: 13 years ago
@TM. Sorry I gotta reply like this. The problem is Khushi thinks she can handle everything on her own and she decided not to tell her family anything about the rent. I would have told my mum and come up with a solution.

The contract isn't over, 12 days are left and you left the house. Reason? Bua is ill. 12days are a lot, wouldn't they call or visit bua? What was she thinking ? It's better to open your mouth than let someone control you.

Khushi being selfless is costing her a lot sigh
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Posted: 13 years ago
I feel sorry for Khushi...

if i were at Khushi's place and he would threatened me to reveal the truth about contract marriage...I would have told him that why only my family, just go to terrace and make a public announcement of CM for once and all...



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