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SaraJL

@SaraJL

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Posted: 13 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..
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I agree. After he blackmailed her yet once again I was like how selfish can this man get? Not even once did he think how she feels. What are her reasons for leaving. Why does she not wanna come back with him. What pain is she going through. All he can see is he needs her so she needs to come back. He used her family as a weapon to blackmail her. He knows she won't let them break down. The bottom line is he's taking advantage of her selfless love for his own selfish reasons! IN all this my heart goes out to Khushi who has to go through all this bullshit for no fault of hers!

It's your opinion, and I respect that, but that's what I hagve to say.

I think you forgot that before Arnav changed into ASR...Arnav did ask her, that what's wrong? why did you lie? you can tell me everything, you can trust me...I am with you, so tell me what's going on? why don't you need my help??? you can, it's your right! he did think about her feelings, before trying ASR style.
He tried every possible way of asking her, but the truth is she doesn't want to communicate.
Even today Arnav again asked her to come back with me nicely,why are your involving your family in this???
When she refused again, that's where ASR showed up.
He is not wrong to question her...What is she going to tell her family after wards??? She's been lying since the day she left RM in this current track which is so not Khushi.
I feel bad for her, but in this current situation Khushi is at fault.
She is lying + doesn't want to communicate.

As for Arnav he knows that she wants to remain as his wife, anyone can tell by her actions from the start of this marriage up till now. If she didn't care then why did she even bother when Arnav fooled her in to believing that he's hurt??? First he confirmed that she cares, then he asked her all these questions.. Actually, he is doing for both of them. Arnav always confirms before deciding something...Even with CM he did, but with wrong person😡😡😡 that was the wrong decision he made that day+ Arnav,Khushi even grand mother knows that.

Edited by SaraaK - 13 years ago

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kiran khurana

@.Kiran.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: SaraaK

It's your opinion, and I respect that, but that's what I hagve to say.

I think you forgot that before Arnav changed in to ASR...Arnav did ask her, that what's wrong? why did you lie? you can tell me everything, you can trust me...I am with you, so tell me what's going on? why don't you need my help??? you can, it's your right! he did think about her feelings, before trying ASR style.
He tried every possible way of asking her, but the truth is she doesn't want to communicate.
Even today Arnav again asked her to come back with me nicely,why are your involving your family in this???
When she refused again, that's where ASR showed up.
He is not wrong to question her...What is she going to tell her family after wards??? She's been lying since the day she left RM in this current track which is so not Khushi.
I feel bad for her, but in this current situation Khushi is at fault.
She is lying + doesn't want to communicate.

As for Arnav he knows that she wants to remain as his wife, anyone can tell by her actions from the start of this marriage up till now. If she didn't care then why did she even bother when Arnav fooled her in to believing that he's hurt??? First he confirmed that she cares, then he asked her all these questions.. Actually, he is doing for both of them. Arnav always confirms before deciding something...Even with CM he did, but with wrong person😡😡😡 that was the wrong decision he made that day+ Arnav,Khushi even grand mother knows that.

Why is Khushi behaving this way? What are her reasons??

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SaraJL

@SaraJL

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Posted: 13 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Why is Khushi behaving this way? What are her reasons??

why are you asking me?...I just gave you the answer of what you stated above that Arnav doesn't care about her feelings.I wanted to justify Arnav's actions.

Well, to your question because she thinks that Arnav can't be happy if his sister is upset, and she can't be happy if he is.. But she should know that she is wrong+ as for contract marriage it's her way out. Not the reason of her leaving RM. She is using this excuse+ Arnav thinks that she left RM because of CM as well!
thanks to her another MU between siblings because she lied. Same siblings she left RM for.
Although, it's none of Anjali's business, but MU is the fact.

Edited by SaraaK - 13 years ago

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Yasmin

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Posted: 13 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Abommi
Na na..he is nt selfish re...
he struggling to get her back but he goes in business mentality but its ri8 n nice one...let her realize his luv ...
anyway upcmin there will be surprise given by ARHI to anjali hope Anjali make them feel there true luv :)

Sorry but the way Arnav is going about winning her heart doesn't show how much he loves her at all - it shows how arrogant he is and how powerful he is, but doesn't show how much he loves her, so how on earth will she realise his love for her.

Yes we've seen his love for her, but has she - no not really, because every time he does something nice, the next he does something ten times worse to break her heart all over again.

Using her family as pawn - doesn't show how much he loves her.

Using her financial state to his benefit - doesn't show how much he loves her.

Making her do these degrading 'jobs' - doesn't show how much he loves her.

What it does show is that he seems to have no respect for Khushi at all.

I love Arnav just as much as the next girl but I am not blind to his flaws and neither am I going to sugar up all his actions - Arnav has to get his act together and that to fast.

@ Topicmaker - I agree with you, I have also been thinking the same. Arnav to me seems selfish as well, and not just from today's episode but right from the whole 'repentance' track if you can even call it that. All he seems to be doing is all for him, he wants to win Khushi back by hook or crook and in all that he hasn't once thought what Khushi wanted - does Khushi even want to get back with him or not? no he just thought I love Khushi, Khushi stays with me. I am not saying he should just leave Khushi and not win her back, but surely there's a much better way of doing that?

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Jammy-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1
I disagree, respectfully.
Arnav is a man of few words. A man who holds many fears.
First when he forced khushi marry her, he feared his sisters breakdown. He felt helpless. And so, he forced the marriage.
Now he fears losing khushi. He feels helpless. He forces her. Deals with it ASR way. This is the chracter, Arnav Singh Raizada. This is what the whole 'iss pyaar ko kia naam doin' is about.

I second you.
There is nothing else left to say! You've said it all.

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Mandy

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Posted: 13 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Abommi
Na na..he is nt selfish re...
he struggling to get her back but he goes in business mentality but its ri8 n nice one...let her realize his luv ...
anyway upcmin there will be surprise given by ARHI to anjali hope Anjali make them feel there true luv :)

Are you SERIOUSE? Anjali is jelouse of their relationship AGAIN! She again said "Chote lied to me, he is NOT MY Chote anymore" etc etc...Anjali is SO selfish! It is NON of her business what Arnav does with his wife! The women is nauseating!😡

So how will SHE bring them closer? Are we all even watching the same show?? Khushi will go back to RM again, coz she has no choice! Then Anjali will have her "Two wishes" for Rakhi!

Wish 1 will be to have her "Snake" back!!

Wish 2 will be to send Khushi HOME!

The ONLY way that anything can come right is if ASR comes clean and tells EVERYONE (The Gupta's and the Raizada's) the whole truth, RE the contract marriage etc everything! And THEN in a DECENT way, ask for their daughter's hand in marriage! THAT is the only way to rectify this!

But I DO agree with 1 point he made! IF Khushi intends to continue to stay with the Gupta's, she HAS to tell them the truth! She will have to tell them about what happened with Shyam, the contract marriage and WHY she did it as well!

She cant have it BOTH ways! On THAT point I agree with ASR!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 13 years ago

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Emerald-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#77

@MrDarcyfan - She thinks they both "lied" to about Bua health. Now lying about someone's health isn't good :\ I don't blame her here.

Edited by zeeba* - 13 years ago

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LadyLaLa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1
I disagree, respectfully.
Arnav is a man of few words. A man who holds many fears.
First when he forced khushi marry her, he feared his sisters breakdown. He felt helpless. And so, he forced the marriage.
Now he fears losing khushi. He feels helpless. He forces her. Deals with it ASR way. This is the chracter, Arnav Singh Raizada. This is what the whole 'iss pyaar ko kia naam doin' is about.

I love your response dear 😆

Yep Arnav is a man of few words ... the only time he speaks is when he needs to pamper his ego by saying what he can do to his opponent or to hurl abuses at his lady love or threaten her...

Yep, he forced Khushi into a contract marriage because he feared his sister's breakdown which only displays his helplessness and not his selfishness.. did he even for one moment pause to think what will happen to Khsuhi after 6 months? what a great man !! I am impressed...

Now he fears losing Khushi and the poor soul is helpless so what does he do? He forces her again and blackmails her again... what a selfless act.. Wah... what a commendable deed...

Now, I am beginning to fall head over heels in love with this great Arnav Singh Raizada..

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Jammy-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#79

You've mentioned about what will her parents go through when the truth comes out let me ask you something did khushi think even twice as to what she will tell her parents that why she isnt with Arnav anymore?
Arnav knew this fact and he is using very tactic he knows to get her back! And dude do you NOT know this man? he has always been like this so what was different today?

For Arnav right now its important to bring khushi back in RM by any means and if this means he has to be ASR even that is fine. Now once that insecurity of losing her is calmed down, Arnav can work his way through their relationship! be it admitting his love or realizing his mistakes!

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LadyLaLa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: zeeba*
@MrDarcyfan - She thinks they both "lied" to about Bua health. Now lying about someone's health isn't good :\ I don't blame her here.

Sorry for the intrusion, so hasn't Anjali lied at all to her family? people in glass houses should undress in the dark 😆