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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SaraaK


it's your opinion I respect that, but this is what I have to say.
Families need to know everything??? why? Then why we care so much if Anjali comes in between Arhi?she is family she has all the right!
Ok, but why exactly the mention of contract marriage? why can't he just tell them that it's not Khushi's fault that we are married I forced her, why 6 months contract should be out? Isn't telling everyone that I forced her into marriage is enough+ the reason behind? This way she is innocent as well!
I never said ASR not admitting his fault, but what else can he say? Yes, I forced her+ it's not Khushi's fault... then what? People will fire Khushi after this because from the day one Khushi is full of morals in the eyes of both families. What about her? nobody will respect her. I don't want that.
If this comes out in open if not RM, Gupta family will definitely ask Khushi+ I doubt they would want to listen to Arnav. Khushi would loose respect in Gupta house more because that aunt likes to play blame game when it comes to Khushi.


Anjali doesn't need to know everything about their romance or whatever they do but contract marriage is something BIG! It was a forced marriage and that too for six months. Girl deserves to get her dream wedding! Exactly ASR should tell everyone the reason and tell him he's responsible. Well, even if people question Khushi its not their fault. If they have done something they have to bear consequences as well. Well, he's ASR as he says and he can fix anything since he's GOD! So why wouldn't he fix that? If he can ruin her reputation its his responsibility to fix everything. Why should always ASR's faults be hidden? He needs to bear the consequences and realize he's not GOD! He needs to realize his mistakes!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..



I totally agree with you
I hope that she can to get out from this mess
I feel sorry for poor Khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago


It doesn't change anything, but if someone is saying he didn't mean at least listen. I would understand if she was angry, but here she is blaming herself lol!

Yes, he didn't say sorry here, and I agree he is wrong for not apologizing, but saying that he didn't mean is his way of reassuring her that he was wrong. He did say that I said all that in anger.

I meant emotionally way with feelings and all... Khushi always asked him to convince people through emotions. He did, she refused.

No, you stated he doesn't let her work...I don't agree... He did let her work, even when he was angry before kidnapping track.

I know you didn't, I thought of adding in my post what if you want to add that later lol. So I already gave my view point regarding that part lol...Sorry, I didn't mean to be rude.

Yes, Shukla the lunch service person, He works for ASR! lol! she called him for help WEIRD!
LOL! actually, both of them can. This is bigger matter can't be readable through eyes.

I would understand if that's the case here, but honestly it's not. He realised that how much he hurt her, that's why he was in his mind saying sorry for hurting her. I know he is stupid for not saying sorry in front of her, but you can't say that he didn't realise because he did.

The latest episode where Arnav asked her to be TV lol!
He is a child when it comes to sorry, he is akind of person who couldn't say sorry, now he is learning...At times he did say sorry to Khushi. I am sure he will say sorry to her.

LOL! really? so seriously, you think that Khushi doesn't care about her marriage? Go back to that episode where Arnav thinks the reason of Khushi leaving is CM... You can clearly see tears in her eyes when she was counting days. Why are we even discussing when I believe that Arnav cares about her feelings, and you think he doesn't.
You know why she is not talking??? because she doesn't want to tell Arnav the reason behind her leaving RM is his sister. This will hurt him, your opinion is totally different from the person you are defending.
It has not even about her feelings, she cares about her marriage, but she is doing nothing because of his sister... annoys me too much🤢😡. They don't want her in their life, it's he wants her in his life, same goes with Khushi, but Anjali is the reason not Arnav.. There is no they. You were saying it for both Arnav/Anjali???



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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SaraaK



Your opinion respecting, now my opinion.
Khushi is not coward she is a fighter. She loves challenges...That's what Lavanya does, not Khushi, If I am Khushi I would ask him one on one. I wouldn't want to suffer for 13 days, when I can spend all my life with the person I love by talking it all out with him? I would communicate.


What i mean is .. if i'm in Khushi shoe .. i would quietly shut it off .. not in a coward way.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: c3cilia


What i mean is .. if i'm in Khushi shoe .. i would quietly shut it off .. not in a coward way.



You would not communicate? so you would rather end your marriage, you care about so much???
Khushi cares about her marriage. She believes it's real... CM is her way out of RM not the reason.
No, I would do anything to make it work.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Anjali doesn't need to know everything about their romance or whatever they do but contract marriage is something BIG! It was a forced marriage and that too for six months. Girl deserves to get her dream wedding! Exactly ASR should tell everyone the reason and tell him he's responsible. Well, even if people question Khushi its not their fault. If they have done something they have to bear consequences as well. Well, he's ASR as he says and he can fix anything since he's GOD! So why wouldn't he fix that? If he can ruin her reputation its his responsibility to fix everything. Why should always ASR's faults be hidden? He needs to bear the consequences and realize he's not GOD! He needs to realize his mistakes!



If I was Khushi, and forced into marrying someone like that...I would never tell lol. Even if that person who forced me wants to I would ask him not to lol.
Who said that ASR faults should be hidden??? I post that because of Khushi.
I don't care about ASR in this matter, but Khushi. She will be blamed again that's what I think.
I agree she deservs dream Wedding!
I didn't think in that way, you've got a point. Agree with you at some level.

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Posted: 13 years ago
@ Sara: Im not gunna quote that, just gunna reply here. I have been replying in so many posts from last 4-5 days Im absolutely tired. SO just gunna write a small paragraph here. ASR has hurt Khushi badly. Only his apology, words, love and care can heal her wounds. His forcing, manipulations, blackmailing ain't working. if she doesn't listen keep on trying. If she didn't accept his love first time, just open ur heart to her, try to make her understand just like he does with his Di. Why hurt her even more? He doesn't mean to hurt her but he does. the thing is he does the damage and can't say a simple sorry. He says he didn't mean to. Y don't just tell her im sorry. Sometimes a person just wants to hear exact words for relief. BY freedom, I don't mean job. I meant she can't do what she wants to. He leaves her with no options. & Hun this is not care yet. If he cares, he wouldn't hurt her. he wouldn't say things he know would break her. He wouldn't try to prove her that he never loses and he's ASR! If you truly love someone and care for 'em you would make sure you don't hurt 'em. She does care about marriage. She loves him DAMMIT! She is still wearing sindoor and mangalsutra. The thing is its not easy to forget the pain and torture especially when its by someone you love. & NO she has been through hell cuz of both arnav and anjali not just anjali. Lets not overlook his faults. He's at fault in so many ways. He has hurt her a LOT and he still is by one way or other.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SaraaK


You would not communicate? so you would rather end your marriage, you care about so much???
Khushi cares about her marriage. She believes it's real... CM is her way out of RM not the reason.
No, I would do anything to make it work.


She cares about her marriage until he brought it up to her face that it's just a piece of paper .. obviously, if i'm Khushi, no matter how much i care about someone, if they constantly comes up to me and tell me that what we have is nothing then yes, i rather just give up after so many months of hinting and let it go .. why put up with someone who doesn't learn their lesson, right? (of course, we the audience knows that he learned his lesson) but there was NEVER ONCE did he show her he genuinely care for her. He always have something back up to taunt her that it was an act done by him purposely.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Forget arnav being selfish for a bit
what the heck is wrong with poojali?
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Posted: 13 years ago
i see where your coming from and i thought that for a moment but i think i now disagree. They cant sort things out nor can he attempt to understand khushi and her feelings if she insists on staying away from him. This is just his way of getting her home so they can talk over there relationship or he can attempt to understand her better..?..get things in the open and more importantly he can tell her he loves her and always will. i think hes planning to reestablish his feelings and sort there relationship out in the next 10 days...good luck to him because khushi is going to put up a fight!

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