ASR is so selfish!!! - Page 12

Originally posted by: zeeba*

@TM. Sorry I gotta reply like this. The problem is Khushi thinks she can handle everything on her own and she decided not to tell her family anything about the rent. I would have told my mum and come up with a solution.

The contract isn't over, 12 days are left and you left the house. Reason? Bua is ill. 12days are a lot, wouldn't they call or visit bua? What was she thinking ? It's better to open your mouth than let someone control you.

Khushi being selfless is costing her a lot sigh

Originally posted by: adorableyosh

I feel sorry for Khushi...

if i were at Khushi's place and he would threatened me to reveal the truth about contract marriage...I would have told him that why only my family, just go to terrace and make a public announcement of CM for once and all...

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

If Arnav really cared about her, he wouldn't have accused her of Shyam's actions and all other bullshit he said and then brought contract up. She was already moving on with him forgetting about the contract marriage. He brought it up, so now she's just using the same excuse he uses on her. About what you said first that he cares about her and asked her so many times about what happened to her, well here's my answer. he has made her the way she is right now. He doesn't let her do anything on her own. She has no freedom . If he really cared, he should for once listen to her or at least apologize for his actions instead of forcing her in his "ASR style." Where does his care go when he has to apologize? Where does his care go when he accuses her and questions her characters? Every time she tries to trust him, he again blasts her off. When did he ever give her a chance to completely trust him without breaking her? & Then he tells her she can trust him, he's with her, she can tell him everything. The fact he just says stuff but never does it. Exactly he knows she cares and that's her weakness. He uses it for his own reasons. He never lets her know his vulnerable side, hence she gets helpless.

My reply to the statement in bold. Thanks to these siblings she suffered hell and still is and gets nothing in return but accusations.

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

Again sorry for interferring but why the hell doesnt khushi simply say NO? Why does she have to be this goody two shoes? She is making herself vulnerable! When she has clearly decided that she doesnt want to stay with Arnav go tell the elders in the family about the CM and get it over with!

Originally posted by: c3cilia

Yes, that's her problem but when someone point it out .. she stop lmao and as for the rent go .. i have no issue, if my parent are going through financial crisis (Buaji did tell her that they have no money) then she has the right to not reveal it .. She did work for him after all .. so whatever she earned .. she has to right like she's about to enjoy it with ASR on the phone ..

Again, the contract is shared by two .. it's better to tell everyone if both agree at the right time and right place .. and yes, her excuses of BUAJI being sick is childish -- for ASR to figure out .. In fact, i like her idea of fracturing her leg better (actually fracture it to get away from all these mess) lol

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Originally posted by: zeeba*

Lol I thought she was in the hospital, they showed her in the hospital right? Did I miss something? LOL No I didn't mean that lol I mean it's serious.Wait, what was Khushi thinking? They could call or visit Bua yono!

Originally posted by: zeeba*

Before I go, I don't like when they say their full names. "Main Arnav Singh Raizada hoon" aur "main Khushi Kumari Singh Raizada hoon" - just cut that! Doesn't always sound good lol

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

My answer to bold: Because they are their families. Contract marriage isn't a small thing. No matter what the conclusions are it has to be out. Families need to know she was innocent! & If everyone questions Khushi and MIGHTY ASR doesn't admit his mistakes then he is digging his own grave. The he should forget Khushi, same Khushi he's so desperate forand go back to his Di!:)

Originally posted by: SaraaK

Not defending bold letters because I hated what he did😡😡😡
although, I am going to say that he did realise what he did was wrong + went back to Khushi, and said he didn't mean it.

Does that change anything? He didn't mean it but he did say it. Didn't he now?
As for CM it's because of Khushi. Arnav was trying to convince her nicely,emotionally before he brought up CM. Did he say SORRY? I don't think so. Sorry would've made a great difference. But his big ego wouldn't let him!

Isn't this the way Khushi always asked him to use??? I'm sorry but didn't get your question here. She asked him to use this way. What way?

she proved him right by not listening to him, then you know what he did. He did what he always told Khushi.
when did he??? Starting from Lunch service to children class+ at that time he was angry with her still he did let her work. I'm sorry but I honestly didn't get what you are talking about here. Do you mind clarifying?
He is not stopping her now either, it's just that she couldn't find any job. Don't give me Happy and Shukla... Happy has garage ,what possible can she do there when she herself said she doesn't know about cars???I think she mentioned somewhere. She needs to be realistic just by saying that she can work in garage she can??? That I never mentioned and I agree she wouldn't have earned anything there. Sometimes CVs show her way too dumb!
Shukla works for ASR why would she ask his help when ASR is paying him???? isn't it better to ask ASR than going to Shukla person??? That's just so weird of her really. Shukla works for ASR? I swear I didn't know that.
Didn't listen to her when??? now or before??? as for now he tried to ask, but she refused. Ask what? What's wrong with her? He said he can read her eyes what happened now?
He never did all of those you mentioned above verbally, but his speaks that he cares. He cares about her she knows that... He never asked to trust him, but now he is. He never said he is with her, but now he is, same goes for the rest. How can she trust him when the same man broke her so many times? Forget about the past, he accused her few days ago and then he tells her she can tell him anything without even apologizing. Tell me how? He doesn't even realize how much he has hurt her. Just goes on about what he thinks.
As for saying sorry, he is, lately! As for the past he won't until Khushi points out. He is lately sorry? When ? What episode? Did I miss anything here? Why won't he? Why does she have to point out? Who put her through so much? HIM! So why doesn't he know? Why does she have to point out?
Arnav either realises his mistakes soon, or Khushi needs to tell him... That's the pattern from the start. Its high time he realizes them on his own. He's not a grade 1 kid who needs to be told about everything. He has put her through so much so he should realize it and apologize!

I agree with your last bold statement, but she still cares about them both specially Arnav. She has a big heart and still cares for the same people who made her go through hell. But those people are so selfish that don't even realize what she has gone through. Just want her in their life by hook or crook! Who gives a damn about her emotions?