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Originally posted by: mommy2000
Awesome post...you girls have brought out some pertinent aspects of their relationship.
The problem lies in the story telling! We need, absolutely need (and i can't say it enough times) to know what happened in the past. We need to know why she chose a bubble and him the rubble! We need to know the circumstances in which she met Shyam (or possibly the orchestrated circumstances) to figure out her unflinching devotion to the (i hate to say it) man.
Thank you for making a thought provoking post!
wow...that was one of the best responses we have received..Originally posted by: pri_armaan
This is the best post on ipkknd forum i have ever read!!!! 👏 👏
Exactly my views! I dont need to say anything becoz when i was reading it, i felt as if i am reading my own thots!! Every single word, sentence and question answered was what i have been feeling since so many days. Alas majority here only understands Arnav-Khushi love but failed to understand and see the bond which Arnav and Anjali share which is actually the reason of Arnav's existence!!I love Arnav-Anjali to core :)I have felt for Anjali throughout these times and havent found any of her action selfish, clingy and whatever bad people have been toking about!She has reacted in the most realistic way possible.Yes she is not a strong woman but can we actually blame her for that? Her past had already left her with so many insecurities that in this case she should have become mentally disturbed forever!!I have and will always support her come what may becoz she is a great woman who love her brother to death, is mother to her and i just love her for her purity and innocence :)Love cannot be compared! I have said for like millionth time that do we compare our love for our parents with that for our Husbands or Lovers! Its the worst sort of comparison possible.Arnav loves Anjali as much as he loves Khushi and saying tht he just care for Anjali and not Khushi becoz he said to Anjali tht you are the most important person in my life is bizarre!Even when i will get married, I will say Mom Dad you are the most important people in my life. Does that mean i love myy Husband less? No!When no body was there, he had Anjali in his most dificult tyms protecting him and providing him motherly comfort. How can she not be the most important person!Okay now coming to his behavioral difference of Arnav with Anji and Khushi. yes he is diferent becoz the other two people are diferent,he love them both equally but the love is potrayed and felt in different way.He is a kid with Anjali, a best friend who irritates you to the core yet always standing by you in tyms of need to Khushi. Anji is mother so he takes all the pain in himself so tht she stays happy and shares all his sorrows and iner dark self with Khushi becoz he wants her support and knows she can take all his sorrows by her love and warmth, Khushi is equal to him.Its just like i would share all my sorrows with my husband knowing when i will share it with him it will go becoz what i am is what he is! Same is with Arnav, their souls are united.I feel sad for Arnav that people atually question his love for the two most important women in his life :(Onlt one thing i feel is that rather than going with the forcing and *trying* to get her back home, Arnav should maturely, sensibly and with full of love tell Khushi what she means to him adn what he actually feels and that he is genuinely sorry and he feels her pain too!! This is for me the most important thing needed for Arhi's relationship.Other than that i am too happy with Arnav-Anjali and Arhi and kudos to CV for showing things as much real as they could :)
wow...that was one of the best responses we have received..👏
Very well written dear and some very valid points..👏Thanks fr your valuable inputs and hope by this post..we may have cleared some doubts..Take care 😊
Thats really a mature and sensible response.👏.I agree with you on bold.Somewhere some flaws are there in execution of track which confuses people's mind... and bang on about past...Originally posted by: mommy2000
Awesome post...you girls have brought out some pertinent aspects of their relationship.
The problem lies in the story telling! We need, absolutely need (and i can't say it enough times) to know what happened in the past. We need to know why she chose a bubble and him the rubble! We need to know the circumstances in which she met Shyam (or possibly the orchestrated circumstances) to figure out her unflinching devotion to the (i hate to say it) man.
Thank you for making a thought provoking post!
🤗 thanks dear...continue with the call.Well the story is about ASRs POV, but we can not take this as an excuse of anjali being portrayed as selfish. PH itself wants to sell the the sympathy anjali card and if it is not getting sold Its high time to review the strategies. 😆
hi, sreenice to see u here...i many times appreciated ur takes in redux..thanks for the link...that is beautiful vm..loved it ...as far as ur questions of emotional support n caring side of anjali...the vm itself has the answer..she didnot say anything nor she questioned khushi , the wife of her brother or blamed her regarding shyam. she knows that arnav loves khushi...that is the proof enough that how much she cares for her brother too..- The VM shows their bonding mostly. I love it. But when it comes to emotional support and care in need its a totally different thing. Pre arhi marriage, nah i guess pre arhi engagement, there were a few moments of anjali and arnav emotional support building up scenes, remembering their parents. But ever since Anjali missed the cue altogether.
- She missed the muddiness of arnav's mind about la
- She missed the trauma in her brothers eyes after the road side breakdown of arnav
- She missed the intense turbulence in her brothers marriage life (see how garima picked it up. She asked khushi why there is akashish arnav and khushi's eyes. That was bloody brilliant) The lady was still inside the glass world.
- She missed out arnav's troubles during kidnapping (but thats fine. she herself had an issue to handle)
- Last and final when arnav confessed the truth about arhi marriage, Agree she should be happy that chotey has fallen in love. but don't you think she could have been a little more sympathetic towards a chotey who sacrificed his life for his Di? Who ditched a ceremonious wedding for Di? Who took all the brickbats for Di? She was a happy bunny instead without acknowledging the sadness arnav has gone through.
as far as sacrifycing, that part of the story is not yet begun/ or shown..i will not comment on thatthis much i wud like to say at one stage of ones life, it becomes difficult to decide what is right or what is wrong for the two persons u loved in your life. . the one which is right for one person may be wrong for the other person. i think future track will be on the same ...but that doesnt mean she cares less for the other...when u love both persons n believe both are not wrong, wen u need to choose, one is bound to be hurt, at the same time hurting u too...thanks for reading the post sree..ur comments are appreciated..
Some very valid points being raised about Anjali's side of the bond, I would say, we are yet to witness many things from her side and to top it all up we need to be shown their past, a vital aspect for the relation, for the storyline and also for ASR. The guy has been portrayed to be mentally stronger than his sister, but what kept him going and living was that very sister.
Now, lets check out what we have seen from Anjali's side.
She has been portrayed as a soulmate to ASR, the one in front of whom he can let go of himself and still go back becoming that 15 yr old kid.
The same has been shown from her side also, 'humare liye sabse barkar, humare khud ki zindagi se bhi barkar chote tum ho', the words speaks a lot. Similarly, 'ek pal k liye hume laga ki hum hamare chote ko, humare parivaar ko aur humare pati ko phir nahi dekh payenge' speaks something about her priority list (we have to rely on the dialogue writer here coz none of us r writing the dialogues).
As far as the emotional support to ASR is concerned well 'aap meri jaan le lena par maa ki tarah mujhe chodke mat jana', one can see what it means. Her very existence is the reason of his existence. One rejection symptom from her side caused havoc to his soul ( Shyam's kicking out episode). Different people have different ways of projecting emotion, every body doesn't have to be give a monologue before doing anything for somebody else or for some greater good, emotions can be subtle also.
Why her selfsacrificing is not pronounced in the way ASR's had been. Well, just like the way Payal's side of compromises or sacrifices that had been made to adjust with an adopted kid in her house was never projected. One can surely call it the story tellers take.
Now coming to the point of getting selfish about her brother's love. Well there comes the perspective, for some it may appear to be selfish, for other's in may appear to be insecurity.
For me it is the second one given the present circumstances. Her dear husband was kicked out of the house and she doesn't have an inkling to the whole story except for the fact that somebody claims him to be a creep and somebody else chose to believe her in the name of love. So till she doesn't come to know about the truth she has the right to believe Shyam in the name of love, just like the way ASR believed his wife without any proof or what so ever.
The next day she tries to practically kill herself in the name of abortion, before I start calling the lady a witch or banshee I have to look into the circumstances which lead her to such a decision when we have seen her happiness and craving for that very kid !
Her brother saved her and her kid, she found the solace that he is still there for her, but the very next day she watches him celebrating with his wife, the very wife who unwittingly or otherwise had been the reason of her now tormented phase of life. The first thing that should come in her mind is that the other most important person of her life is drifting away from her at a time when she needs him the most. The other incidents which followed were just follow ups of this incident and resulted in a cumulative effect.
I won't say that the celebrations were wrong, coz they were not. However, I could surely say that the circumstances and thus the venue was wrong !! And so her reaction does appear to be humane!!
But all said and done I definitely agree that at the end of the day it is everybody's decision about how they feel about a certain fictional character or how far one can relate to them!😊
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