It is not about wooing, it is about her ego

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meens80

@meens80

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Loved you post Anu👏👏 and absolutely loved the line saying his gussa has become part of her and her smile part of him.
I agree that the rent/renovation track needs to be wrapped up soon because it is beginning to gather more of a negative response than necessary but other than that this track is all about showing her "haq hai tumhara mujpe". Her "i can do it all" attitude needs to change; if she is so against going back with Arnav why won't she discuss the rent issue with the family. Surely there are other options than being blackmailed into things you absolutely do not want to do, but truth is deep down she wants to be with him as much as he her; she claims to the whole world he is her husband and accepts it in her heart; he is just trying to get her to acknowledge it to herself and him.
This is the story of 2 equally flawed individuals; people need to relax and let it play out; coz even after everything Khushi still smiles and says "LG itne bure bhi nahi hai"😉

Edited by meens80 - 13 years ago

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a.kaur

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

you just enlightened me. lol. i loved the post! everyone needs to see it!

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Manal Ali

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

haila Anu :O ! itna Chota post :O hahah lemme read <3 n thn edit <3

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mommy2000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

It takes one (with an ego) to know one, right??😉

I am loving the lighter moments that they have shown that goes towards building their relationship beyond the "soul" connection (some say attraction). They are habituated with having each other around...to fight, to comfort (in Barun's words), to share (sometimes in the most uncaring way) their lives to the point that it seems like they are trading attributes...his gussa for her smile. 😃

Baaki, gotti and I have issues *sigh*

Bang on post momma! You bring out what most of us miss and help us keep our eye on the ball...(CV's please read this...you need your eye on the ball more than anyone else!!)

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LadyLaLa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: DCgirl

HI La...🤗. its been such a long time girl... how you've been?

Don't want to jump into discussion here. I understand your points about the marriage contract and all. Did you not follow IPK over the last few months? Logic has never played an important role in IPK or any other desi soap for that matter... or so I hear.

About these two... what are your thoughts on the USP of the show? Do you think its a love story? I still do! If we keep the contract on the side for a second. Do you believe Arnav and Khushi are in love with each other? If not...my 2 cents end here.
If you do think they are in love, do you want the two to end up together? If not... I'm sorry but I think its set in stone since June 6, 2011 that they will end up together. If you do think that they should end up together... then I want to say, Khushi didn't leave RM because she felt she was ill-treated by Arnav. She left because she thought Anjali would be happy without her in RM which by default would make Arnav happy. Little did she know, not only Arnav cannot live without her and she cannot live without him. While we are comparing our check lists, they are two people who rubbed off of each other and found home in each other's company. Now, they have their reasons that justify their acts. Kh is right in her way to leave Arnav without telling him why and he is right in his way to use gupta house as a leverage to get her back to RM.
Miya Biwi raazi and if they wanna fight they can fight... in private, in public and if they want to cuddle, they can... If you ask me, being married or not isnt really the problem between them.

Anyway, I saw you and couldnt help respond,... hope you didnt mind. Remember, we can always agree to disagree 😃. This is a thread of my dead friend and I don't want to spam here.

@Momma... sorry for spamming with not so relevant stuff to your post... Lub ya.

Hey Suhasini 🤗 I am very much here on IF day in day out... I guess I should be asking you where you have been 😆 You have been very quiet lately ...

Yes, I have realised lately that the show which was touted to be different from the rut is nothing but illogical like the others out there... call it my naivety

Before delving further into your questions, could you please tell me what love is? 😃

Lub ya too

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dillidikudi

@dillidikudi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Anu I love it when you post, coz you pull it out of my mind and write it down so articulately and clearly.

He wants her back and he wants her to to do it with full haq on him...she is already jatoing haq on him without realizing like you said, I hope she realizes that soon. Ego is there in both, and I think that is the part of the package they love about each other, it has to executed well to look good. It is not about wooing either, it is about accepting the haq. He has already done that and that is why he is doing this.

There is so much potential in this track, I hope they balance it out finely. I see the dragging part...I am willing to look past some of it. I enjoyed Friday the most, Monday was not bad...and they did get some of it pretty nicely today.

Edited by dillidikudi - 13 years ago

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mommy2000

@mommy2000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

I stand corrected ... 😊 she is nearly there if the spoilers are to be beleived.. he has been constantly harassing her from the time she came into his life...

When Khushi refused ASR's help, it was out of self respect not because of her ego... if she had a bloated ego, she would not have agreed to earn the money she owed as rent... ASR too knows this... he is using his power and money to woo her.. that is not love... had he used his heart, he would have won her long ago..

*raising hands for permission to speak*😃

He has a plan...we just don't know what it is...(please know, i think the GH track is in competition with the MU for being the flimsiest track ever)

He is never going back to being what he was with her...but he is using what she knows him to be to get her to bring down her self imposed barriers that is keeping them apart. Now there could have been a 101 better ways of showing it, but looking at the track record of this creative team...we can only hope that "they" have a plan.

He cannot "win" her heart without her letting him...so I, for one, is waiting to see how his plan unfolds. And in the meantime, enjoying the lighter moments --- sleeping "habits", for instance😉

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DCgirl

@DCgirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Before delving further into your questions, could you please tell me what love is? 😃

Ahhh Good Question... A good friend once told me that they are called good questions because they don't have answers. Im sure of one thing though, we cannot find answers to that question watching Desi daily soaps😆
As per IPK... I think Arnav-Khushi have a lifetime (in fictional world) to figure what love is, I'm gonna leave it to them.

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LadyLaLa

@LadyLaLa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: mommy2000

*raising hands for permission to speak*😃

He has a plan...we just don't know what it is...(please know, i think the GH track is in competition with the MU for being the flimsiest track ever)

He is never going back to being what he was with her...but he is using what she knows him to be to get her to bring down her self imposed barriers that is keeping them apart. Now there could have been a 101 better ways of showing it, but looking at the track record of this creative team...we can only hope that "they" have a plan.

He cannot "win" her heart without her letting him...so I, for one, is waiting to see how his plan unfolds. And in the meantime, enjoying the lighter moments --- sleeping "habits", for instance😉

HIya, anyone can speak out their minds on this forum and you are most welcome to comment... 😊

Yes, agree this track is fast turning out to be the competitor of the MU track 😆 they are competing for the 1st spot

Self imposed? It was imposed by ASR... he is the writer of his fate wonder why he hadn't anticipated her reacting this way.. 😆

Fans see Khushi's act of refusing the rent as her ego rather than as an act of self respect ...I also wonder why she does not stand up for her self respect and dignity elsewhere..

while fans find ASR's ego endearing they find it offensive when displayed by Khushi... wonder why...😃

CVs may have a plan... but we can only dissect what we are shown currently...

Bottom line, you are right, they could have handled this plot differently rather than showing it as a tussle between the couple..

Edited by LadyLaLa - 13 years ago

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shivanimd

@shivanimd

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Very Well said!!! A good through analysis of the situation. I only wish that everyone else in the Gupta household develops Khushi's integrity and pride and Payal developes a bit of back bone instead of being the spineless Abala naari Sacrificial lamb all rolled into one.

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