It is not about wooing, it is about her ego - Page 3

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

If you truly beleive that they share nothing but a piece of paper between them... there is nothing at all to discuss. Then you are absolutely right...she should leave him, and in that case, he would never stop her.

Throughout her stay in RM, ASR did not treat her like his wife... Even after the Kidnap incident, he did not hesitate to shift the blame on Khushi when things between him and his Di went sour... Didn't he treat it as a mere piece of paper then?

Actions speak louder than words... I don't see any love in his actions.. its more like if you can do this, I can out do you better...

Sure the mangalsutra and the vermilion is just a show for the world... Did he mean it when he put it on her?

A person in love would not dare to make the other homeless...

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

Ya Only Khushi is at fault😭 , others all are are right and have rectified their mistakes , Khushi should redeem herself soon and understand ASR putting aside her ego , only she has it

That was not at all the point of this post 🤔

I'm just soo happy that I came across this post! I second every word you've said INCLUDING the note!

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Throughout her stay in RM, ASR did not treat her like his wife... Even after the Kidnap incident, he did not hesitate to shift the blame on Khushi when things between him and his Di went sour... Didn't he treat it as a mere piece of paper then?

Actions speak louder than words... I don't see any love in his actions.. its more like if you can do this, I can out do you better...

Sure the mangalsutra and the vermilion is just a show for the world... Did he mean it when he put it on her?

A person in love would not dare to make the other homeless...

small correction he dint make her homeless yet!!!

Does anyone think that Khushi will accept his love right now?

Its true that ASR didnt treat Khushi like his wife before he got to know truth...But after he got to know that KKG is innocent he did behave nicely to her except for once..He did want to help her genuinely by giving her the money..But Khushi didnt accept it cause she has self respect..So now ASR is trying in his ASRish way as expected. I dont understand whats so disappointing about it

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

I have one question? Is he truly her husband? A contract marriage is not legal.. plus we do not yet know if the marriage was registered in court.. if it was a ceremonial one, shouldn't we need witnesses.. so how could we call ASR her husband...?

Khushi has honoured her part of the contract because she feared ASR will ruin Payal's marriage... so legally, she is free to go... he has no hold on her.. Why would Khushi accept favours from a man to whom she was only bound by contract..

She was not treated like a wife by ASR at all during her stay in RM...

HI La...🤗. its been such a long time girl... how you've been?

Don't want to jump into discussion here. I understand your points about the marriage contract and all. Did you not follow IPK over the last few months? Logic has never played an important role in IPK or any other desi soap for that matter... or so I hear.

About these two... what are your thoughts on the USP of the show? Do you think its a love story? I still do! If we keep the contract on the side for a second. Do you believe Arnav and Khushi are in love with each other? If not...my 2 cents end here.
If you do think they are in love, do you want the two to end up together? If not... I'm sorry but I think its set in stone since June 6, 2011 that they will end up together. If you do think that they should end up together... then I want to say, Khushi didn't leave RM because she felt she was ill-treated by Arnav. She left because she thought Anjali would be happy without her in RM which by default would make Arnav happy. Little did she know, not only Arnav cannot live without her and she cannot live without him. While we are comparing our check lists, they are two people who rubbed off of each other and found home in each other's company. Now, they have their reasons that justify their acts. Kh is right in her way to leave Arnav without telling him why and he is right in his way to use gupta house as a leverage to get her back to RM.
Miya Biwi raazi and if they wanna fight they can fight... in private, in public and if they want to cuddle, they can... If you ask me, being married or not isnt really the problem between them.

Anyway, I saw you and couldnt help respond,... hope you didnt mind. Remember, we can always agree to disagree 😃. This is a thread of my dear friend and I don't want to spam here.

@Momma... sorry for spamming with not so relevant stuff to your post... Lub ya.

Arnav many times accused her that she is a gold digger, and that she can do anything for money.. even after their so called marriage ..
Khushi maybe was wrong when she scolded him for paying the rent .. but ..!
She decided to leave him, prevent him from his right as a husband, and as a result prevent her self from her right as his wife ..
If she accept to make him pay the rent as her husband, and in the same time, didn't behave with him as a wife, she will look she is exploiting his money, and take advantages of their marriage , and exploit it for her sake only ..

Arnav wants her to realize that its his duty, and its her right that her husband helps her .. but .. What Arnav is doing now , made him look like a person who wants to show Khushi that she will always follow his order, and will do what he want because of his power/ money .. that he can do anything, and he will always be the winner ..

If he really want her to realize that he is her husband and its his duty to pay his in laws rent ..
he can told her that he stopped the payment because she asked him that and he respect what she want , and told her if she want him to pay the rent just to tell him that , and he will do it as he is her husband ..
If he did that , Khushi will look at Arnav in two positive way .. the first way; that he don't want her to be angry and he respect her will.. The second way, When she will not find a way to pay the rent, she will ask him, and she will realize that her husband should help her , and he will always support her ..

But blackmailing her to back to RM is really annoying ..
Why should she back ?! to hear Mamiji nonsense every day ?! to look at Akash and Payal relationship condition and feel more bad ?! or to look at Anjali face and feel that she is a criminal !?
or to live under threaten of Arnav getting angry and say to her harsh words as he did that day when Anjali decide to miscarriage?!

If he really want her to back their as his WIFE .. he should make the environment acceptable for her .. he can do that very easily !
just by being brave, and admit in front of all of his family member about their marriage reality .. to tell him how much Khushi suffer because of his misunderstanding .. that she just as Anjali, a victim of Shyam ..
If he say that , Mami, Akash , and Anjali will sympathy with Khushi, and will treat her with some respect ..

Your post have a lot of valid points .. but still I believe that he is doing that - mainly- because of his ego, he still didn't put it aside .. he treat Khushi as a bet or a deal that he should win in any way .. he still want to be a winner .. - maybe he doing that unintentionally, but because of his wrong understanding of relationship -
He cared and love her her and no doubts in that.. but his way in expressing, and showing his love is totally wrong .. at least in my POV