His attitude makes the difference...edited - Page 4

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Posted: 13 years ago
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ok I will tell you. You are wrong. actually wrong doesnt even begin to cover it. *head desk*

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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
i have finally updated my post on the 1st page
do check it

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Posted: 13 years ago
#33
di after last thursday i think u n me are back on the same page again!!
anyway well i have one more thing to say, 'she is happy to play around after he mistreats her..so why would he even bother to give her any respect?'
and i am asking this from myself!! and di u know how much of a big khushi supporter i am! and i am having this question today?:s

i wrote the exact same thing here


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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
I skipped Anjali Arnav part JUST because I felt same . Not only today I always feel Arnav does not feel same way about Khushi like he does for Anjali.
Now why do I feel something has to happen for him to feel differenly about her . ell I hope so. BUT as of now he feels Khushi has him by her side where Anjali has none.I dont know why everybody feels that way including Arnav. Maybe something happened ithe past and so they feel this way.
I DONT like Arnav Anjali scenes like I did in the past and thats because I feel one is too much proptected , where another is not at all.
I hope things change soon .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey,

I don't know what to tell you. I am still grappling with this track. I loved the episode on Friday and I made sure I kept expectations low for Monday. In spite of that, I couldn't get today's episode.

Is it really because of the difference in attitude? After all this? My heart tells me his methods are faulty. When he was threatened with a gun, he wanted to confess his love. He didn't think of consequences because that minute, he thought he would die. But now that everything is back to normal, may be he does not want to feel vulnerable by making a direct proposal. He is not used to feeling vulnerable in such an equation- with his past girlfriends or with Khushi. But with his Di...he has been there ...done that. I want to wait and watch where this is going.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#36
Still i am not getting a proper answer is Khushi a servant or Wife to ASR. Why does he think that he can always order to her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok even I'm feeling the need for redemption now. The episode has really given me a shock.In fact im feeling very disturbed after it.

Arnav is really going the wrong away about things.I dont mind the fact that he made her do the wrapping thing anything but smehw i still feel that he has not realised how important she is for him. If he knew it he wouldn't be going this way about things.

Wasn't her near death fall enough to tell him how much she means to him?

Would he have actually talked to her, told her how scared he was, how much he loves her if the anjali-shyam issue had not come in between? I don't know.

It disturbs me that he went home this night.I think they are starting raksha bandhan track from now on.

did u see that article?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know I was thinking she should cry her heart out & just tell him what he made her go through. But now I know why she doesn't cry in front of him. All Thanks to ASR. Every time she teared up, he accuses her of using these tears to gain sympathy. Now what the hell is she supposed to do?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
Exactly my point...see the sheer contrast in the way he treats Anjie and khushi...he loves both of them and both of them has suffered a lot! But look at how differntly he treats them...he would do anything to make Anjie happy, but when it comes to khushi he is forcing her...its like khushi no longer even has her free will!
Arnav is still using money to keep her bound to him, against her wishes!
I think it was very sadistic of him to make khushi go through all those troubles while happily enjoying!
Im still clinging to the hope that Arnav is not so dense as to not realize khushi is suffering...the way I see it people who do not voice out their suffering are much more shatttered and broken than those who wail and cry(a.K.a poojie).

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Posted: 13 years ago
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As much as I love to see their cute little fights, a lot of strings have been left untied here when it comes to Khushi. She is cheerful, happy person for the world so no one understands that it's her coping technique when it comes to dealing with harsh realities.

I had hopes that Arnav will realize his mistakes and woo her with his charm (I'm sure he has some here and there). But neither the realization came in nor the care. He just wants her back because she is essential to his existence, not because she needs him. He can't breathe without her so she has to come back... It's still all about him.

But when he realizes that she needs to come back, she needs her happiness because that's what she wants from life, then he will be truly redeemed in my eyes. He needs to make her realize the extent of his love for her and true love does not require any strategy. It just requires someone to make the effort and look into the heart of the person they love.

The only time I saw the extent of his love was when he was kidnapped. The hut scene where he hides Khushi and goes with the kidnappers, when he dreams about her and talks to her in his heart. That's when the intense love he has for her showed. After that, I never saw that feelings in him.

Makes me wonder, was it all because of the danger or the adrenaline rush? If not, then where did that care and tender feelings go?


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