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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont know i loved it. Its fiction and seeing it that way just spoils the fun. I do used to think like you but hey arnav khushi are diff from other couples. They love through their nok-jhoks. That shows love. Arnav loves khushi alot he just doesnt know how to show it and he does what he can. What fun would there be if he goes, say sorry and proposes. No fun. In real life one would want this surely but as a drama, as a serial, we need emtertainment along with drama. So in order to make it less typical. It has to happen. I for one am loving it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi

Rima u read my mind...i. could not bring myself to njoy the episode after arnav anjali scene. In normal course of events I may have watched it but today I forwarded it after watching for a few seconds. The shear hypocrisy og attitude just left me speechless. Usually I wud have been happy to see khushi giving it back to ASR, I say ASR cos arnav has been missing wer khushi is concerned, but today I cud not get the distatefully callous attitude he has been showing khushi time and again out of my mind. After khushi suffering so much at his hands he has no recognition of her pain, suffering.


The episode today again reminded me of what i had commented once on your post "Squeaky wheel does get all the attention". Where khushi's resilience shud be admired it is going against her...what a sad thing to see. No I am not saying he shud not be concerned for his Di but thats all he has been caring about so long...high time he see's his wife's pain. He will never win her till his heart is able to see her pain... thats love for me.

Now I feel stupid tat I was happy khushi left bcos inspite if that her humiliation is not ending. Now i question myself that after everything that has happnd after Feb, m I even sane to expect to see khushi get her due...



A totally distasteful script...I feel so let down again.

true. her resilience her strength and her spirit is ridiculed and anjali's weakness is rewarded. good obseration by you. i am sick tot he core of this
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I will wait for the day when he acknowledges Khushi's suffering and fully values her worth.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think a tiny bit of more patience is needed honestly. This is all going to lead to seriousness...ASR will realize that he's given her pain and lots of it through this comedy, light-hearted track =]

As for the differences in ASR between his Di and Khushi. You've nailed that bit. Anjali is more like a mother to him and he is protective of her,...whereas with Khushi he thinks it's a game..that he will conquer her love through a cat and mouse game!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#25
redemption k liye phle usse pass to ane do...agar vo chali ho jayegi or vo koshish hi nhi karega usse lane ki...to uske guilt ka bhi koi fyada nhi...
i mean these are happening to bring her near him as he wants it...
and when she will not agree or make him realise that things are nott as simple as he thinks..then might his proper guilt start...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's because Khushi has never shown her pain and suffering to him. The moment she starts throwing her painful stories (all because of him) he will start taking her seriously. When she reminded him about the Birthday fiasco, he immediately apologized. So it has to come from Khushi, the more she lets him in her world, more he will understand the beauty of the selfless soul that is Khushi. She has a habit of covering her pain with her smile... remember when she was about jump off the terrace... "hum thik hain..yeh dekhiye(smiles big)"... the girl was about kill herself so that HE could live happily ever after with Lavanya... on top of that she had strength to smile so as to ease his pain?! What is this girl? What is Khushi? People like her don't exist who hide and forget their pain so easily.

Anjali on the other hand.. Arnav has been a witness of her pain and sorrow.. they are partners so to speak in that case.. He is aware about everything in her life.. he sees her as his mother.. so he is different with her.

With Khushi.. he is the child, friend, teenager, lover, husband.. everything. If only they start to understand each others feelings and stop running away from it... they might be the perfect soul mates 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1

I dont know i loved it. Its fiction and seeing it that way just spoils the fun. I do used to think like you but hey arnav khushi are diff from other couples. They love through their nok-jhoks. That shows love. Arnav loves khushi alot he just doesnt know how to show it and he does what he can. What fun would there be if he goes, say sorry and proposes. No fun. In real life one would want this surely but as a drama, as a serial, we need emtertainment along with drama. So in order to make it less typical. It has to happen. I for one am loving it.

was that entertainment? i am sorry it was not my idea of it. it was downright ssadistic to make her unwrap gifts she had packed and make her pack it again. and she called him all night too. but that is after he told her to stay up. not my idea sorry. but perspectives differ
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I bet CVs just show comedy n khushi LOSING the bet n gng bk to RM
PITY we cnt expect khushi to get d respect she deserves
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29
exactly what i am thinking too after today episode...
some sense must be there out of all this lovey dovey comedy...
this comedy looks good now but like earlier it irritates after some extent...
i hope CVs keep some sense in arnavs character and this is not the way to woo a girl who given her all happiness for his n his family sake... i really want he understands khushi too the way he understands anjali... letz see...

one thing is i stopped expecting some sense n anything from IPK n CVs...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vijji12




i hope khushi goes back to Lucknow this time.he has to runafter her.this black mailing with money is irritating


Exactly! They still have their house in Lucknow right?!

So when Arnav threatens to demolish the house she should threaten him back saying that she has decided to move to Lucknow! Maybe at least then Mr. Smart Pants gets a reality check?!

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