Originally posted by: napstermonster
Going forward, he is going to grovel and Khushi is going to take him back. such is the serial story. But I just want to tell the young girls reading this-please, ladies, when you find yourselves a man, may he be as hot as ASR is, but may he NEVER treat you the way ASR treats his "love". Please dont equate passion with torture, or assume that its ever okay to be treated with anything less than dignity and please, maintain your self worth by waking away from anyone who abuses you the way our "hero" just did his "heroine".
Im sickened.
I totally agree with dat...sometimes dese soaps put strange notions of heroism, passion n love in ur head.
Scenes like d one showed today sometimes give an idea dat Extreme possessivness or abrupt bursts of temper and agression and a hint of violence (in dis case...ASR keeps bruising her hands & wrists)...are signs of undying passion...d larger dan life alpha male.
sometimes we get so caught up in d story dat we start making excuses for d man and believe dat its okay for men to treat women like doormats as long as dey repent for it later on. Dat kinda attitude should never be encouraged. there r some lines which a man shud never cross, no matter however angry he is wit u...Its not OK for a man to treat his lady like shit one moment, den repent later on and den apologize. its just not done. and dats never true love.
Dat having been said, I believe dat it is important to maintain a line between fiction and reality. I love d character of ASR portrayed by BS and would expect nothing less from his character at dis point of time..Hes bin shown as a cold ruthless guy from d very beginning, of course he has strted mellowin down a lot but it takes a lot to thaw a man like dat. D tortured male lead wit inner demons is a pleasure to watch combined wit d brilliant acting skills of Barun Sobti, who brings out d small nuances wit such perfection.
But i dont entertain any foolish notions dat i could ever be happy with someone like ASR, or dat i cud take d attitude dat he is dishing out to Khushi.
What am trying to say is dat..Its important to draw a line between fiction and reality. Certain scenes and sometimes d storyline has put me off quite a lot. but somehow I keep on wtchin d show, cant seem to wean myself away from it and neither do i want to.
I have finally accepted dat try as i might I will never quit d show...I wtch it for d pure brilliance brought in by Barun Sobti and Sanaya Irani. As long as dat remains intact, i will continue to watch it. which is why dese days am not overtly bothered by d rona dhona, all d family drama and d cold hearted attitude dished out by ASR. its all fiction at d end f d day.
Edited by uber_arch - 13 years ago
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