Put Lipstick on,Dress it up,a Pig is still a Pig:MODP27 - Page 8

Originally posted by: pixiegirl

But Khushi should have stood up to him when he proposed this ridiculous marriage in the first place. Since when did she cower down to him? True, he threatened her with stopping her sister's marriage but shouldn't she have questioned why was he holding HER ransom?? Why was she being threatened?? Why did she let her be used like that? IMO, that's where the CVs butchered this story.

Sorry, I'll shut up now :)

I agree with the above part. A girl who has decided to be a doormat cannot complaint when she is treaded up on.

Edit - At the same time, it does not justify anyone to abuse her.

i really don't understand why on earth if he could not breath did he walk out of the room ..he could have spent the night on the PS ..if he wanted to make his point on how much he hates her ...

I personally believe that Khushi should call ASr's bluff ...dare him to break her sister's marriage ...there is no way ASR can do that without upsetting the applecart ...and making his perennially leaking sister ..leak some more ...and what reason will he give ...without getting Shyam in the picture ...

Ur posts r always a treat n u nailed it once again!!! Gosh i was fuming. Thank God Khushi refused the quilt. The guy needs a slap n pronto to shake his brain up. I want Khushi to ignore him royally as from now n if he dares ask her to stay in the bedroom shr shud just throw him out n let him n his hormones freeze outside!! CVs better show Khushi getting a hold on herself n tackle him as she herself can!!! Anji n Nani r just useless!!

Originally posted by: aa123.80

The problem is that the CVs wanted to show us their idea of how intense and EXTREME the hatred can be, so the love phase later on will seem a complete contrast and have the viewers swooning and ooh-aahing. Twisted and retarded.

i completely agree wid u

Originally posted by: napstermonster

But I just want to tell the young girls reading this-please, ladies, when you find yourselves a man, may he be as hot as ASR is, but may he NEVER treat you the way ASR treats his "love". Please dont equate passion with torture, or assume that its ever okay to be treated with anything less than dignity and please, maintain your self worth by waking away from anyone who abuses you the way our "hero" just did his "heroine".

Exactly! The popularity of the show/actors blah blah makes it WORSE! the whole "they did it, so it cant be that bad" nonsense crops up! its bad enough that so many people go through abuse every single day in their lives without this show ADDING to the fuel.

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

And as a FF writer I have to add that I sadly witness a lot of what Napmonster touched on. And before any of you jump on the "its fiction" bandwagon, pay attention.

The appeals for "passion" and "romance", the cries for "repentance" and all that, based off what is shown on TV, without any real understanding for what is being demanded is very real. It's scary as hell to know that girls ARE being influenced by this kind of rubbish portrayed. And to all you young girls out there... there is forgiveness, and then there is something called self respect. If a man abuses you, and controls you both emotionally and physically, then he is not a man, nor one worth being with. He can cloak it up in declarations of love and regret, but a pig is still a pig, like Smriti said.

A real man does not dominate

A real woman is not submissive

A real man does not ever need to use brute force

A real woman never needs to accept that as his "love" cloaked in anger

A real man will not allow the world to hurt his woman, and try never to hurt her himself

A real woman does NOT need a man to dry her tears and make the world OK for her.

God I'm fuming today.

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This is Incineration Central, all fuming, raging made like hell are welcome!!!

If it is domestic abuse , the creatives with a lady sittin right in the centre of that group who are leveraging on the display of domestic abuse to gain pity for Khushi and subsequently raise the TRP, are to be blamed . [/QUOTE

Originally posted by: sunaina02

If it is domestic abuse , the creatives with a lady sittin right in the centre of that group who are leveraging on the display of domestic abuse to gain pity for Khushi and subsequently raise the TRP, are to be blamed .

ASR has no will of his own . He does what is asked to do . So hurling abuses at him will not gain anything . Hurl your abuses at the makers and ask them to be different.

I havent watched the episode yet , so put an if at the beginning .

Originally posted by: tiya229

Exactly! The popularity of the show/actors blah blah makes it WORSE! the whole "they did it, so it cant be that bad" nonsense crops up! its bad enough that so many people go through abuse every single day in their lives without this show ADDING to the fuel.

all else withstanding, this is a TV show watched by MILLIONS around the world.. please take some responsiblity in WHAT and HOW you show the story.

just because ASR did it, its not cool and just because khushi tolerated it doesnt make it acceptable.

Yes, yes yes yes, I could not have said it better.

When I read about the new promo ASR blackmailing with breaking sister's marriage , Khushi should say either of the twio things