Put Lipstick on,Dress it up,a Pig is still a Pig:MODP27 - Page 12

Created

Last reply

Replies

382

Views

41.9k

Users

113

Likes

2.5k

Frequent Posters

JerryTheMouse thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena



Well said 👏 I think that is the key part ^ women, young brides or even submissive wives need to understand that this is fictional in reality if this were to happen, it is downright wrong. IPKKND wasn't set out on the concept of exploring social issues but if it keeps going this rate, it will have to because right now it seems to be condoning this sort of emotional torture.


Well said you both! ⭐️👏👏

Unfortunately, for most young girls/ women/ females/ it is hard to differentiate between abuse and anger. And for most caught in the painful cycle of domestic abuse, what keeps them in the relationship is that when their man is good, he is great! He makes up for everything! And the hardest part is to help them realize that it's not ok to abuse and then make up.. No matter how they make up. Abuse is abuse!

To a practicing clinical psychologist like me, yes I am one... This is an issue I see daily. I work with women who have been in abusive relationships. They may heal but the scars never go away. NEVER! I am fuming right now... And not matter how much I read and respond, my frustration and anger just doesn't go away. 😡

Hoping using the emoticons would help me feel less angry!
And I still love Barun and drool when I see Arnav. I understand that it's the CV / LM/ SP/ PH showing and condoning this! Grrr 🤬


shaam91 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jamba111

There are so many great posts on this thread that I'd like to quote!!!


Suffice it to say that for everyone agonized over why ASR is being bashed today - CRY ME A RIVER!!! Take a step back and visualize yourself in such a situation - where your newlywed husband treats you worse than a leper.

Then tell yourself you just have to live with THIS for 6 months.

Then come back here and say - its all for love and he will repent soon.

YEAH - I didn't think so.

Most sane women would just kick his sorry ass out the door.


im quoting you here...please dont mind???
Mina_T thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
I hope the cv see this thread and think of something different, there are viewers from all over the world watching this and this is the 21st century come on!!!! Get more creative then the typical women bashing. 🤢 and its women who watch this show!!

and we are telling you we do NOT LIKE our fellow sisters being portrayed like this! It makes makes younger girls accept abuse, no prince charming abuses his princess...he wouldn't be very charming now would he?😡
JerryTheMouse thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: serialjunkie



Really?? Can you give me the link to that post? Would love to share my "thoughts" there.

Like napstermonster aptly put, young girls need to be aware that the fine line between intense passion and abuse cannot be blurred in real life.


Hahahahha.
Smriti when you done sharing your thoughts, can you please please PM me? Lol. I would love to read it!

@Pissa99:
Please please share the link and well said!
Thank you for posting this!
Rabba-Ve-Delena thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tiya229


SP makes its dough showing abuse and oppression of women. just look at any of its show.

backward/ uneducated girl- check
women abusing/ indifferent male- check
oppressing MIL/FIL/ elder- check
manipulating indian sanskaars to promote general assholery- check
strip the woman of all her dignity, rights- check

sane woman who loves her family and is loved in return and treated with respect--- NOT YET



Hence, why I stopped with these long back, curse that exam free liberating day I got into this show, it's spiralling down sadly with a few moments of hope! But trps placing the show at number 2 will only encourage the writers further. Business is business at the end of the day ..
DiamondLife thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: pixiegirl

I'll tell you what Khushi should have done today, she should have walked out of the pool area and gone and slept in the guest bedroom damning ASR's orders.


I am not sure why the CVs are showing her as such a coward, it is sooo unlike her character. Why is letting herself be abused as such?? Why is she putting up with the pretenses?? Her sister is now married, so it is not as if ASR can do anything about that why is she still listening to him, is my bigger question???

I think pool side in ASr's room has only one exit that is the main front door of his room..
The staircase pool side has exit!!
serialjunkie thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mina_T

I hope the cv see this thread and think of something different, there are viewers from all over the world watching this and this is the 21st century come on!!!! Get more creative then the typical women bashing. 🤢 and its women who watch this show!!

and we are telling you we do NOT LIKE our fellow sisters being portrayed like this! It makes makes younger girls accept abuse, no prince charming abuses his princess...he wouldn't be very charming now would he?😡



Thank you for saying this. CVs have a woman creative in the mix and the producer has a woman in the mix. And they stand by this line of story.

Is the intent to show ASR as an abuser? If so, then fine, lets not call it a love story because it wont be one.
Leah1 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
Can someone post the link of this thread to Lalit Mohan's FB page? I feel he should read and understand where all the young fans stand on this domestic abuse issue and tht we condemn such acts shown on Indian television in the name of TRP's...
Hats off to u Smriti for calling a spade a spade and all the replies given in this thread!!
frockstar thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Frocky dear

Please show any one of my posts where I have bashed shyam ? I normally even never call him snake or creep as others do .
I hardly ever make any post on any other character other than Khushi or ASR .
In fact , I think I am the only one who protested calling Anjalis baby - "baby snake" which is very unethical . A baby is never at fault .
I am always one of the first to protest and report any morphing of abbas's face in some devil , snake or other creatures body .
I do not like Abbhas acting and that i always say it directly .
If I do not make any ASR bashing posts, that is my choice and right .
I am not preaching anything here. Please do not directly try to insult me personally .

Is it that you dont understand my point or are u pretending not to.
It not about bashing Shyam Kushi or ASR
MY POINT IS ASR DOES NOT EXIST!!! HE IS A FIGMENT OF THE WRITERS IMAGINATION.
so bashing ASR= bashing creatives... they are not any different.

if you still dont understand,
If Gucci makes a dress, and i dont like it, i say its a bad dress.
will you say, dont blame the dress, blame the designer. ITS ONE AND THE SAME !!!





frockstar thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
Sorry sj for spamming ur thread...
but unavoidable.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".