We can accept anika with her faults why can't we accept shivaay too???

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lalsunvid

@lalsunvid

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Love is always sacrificed in front of the family. Here both Anika and Shivay love has been sacrificed for only Shivay family.

That's the underlying test what Gul mentioned . The Imtihan will begin.
A story of lovers will always go thru hurdles and separation and togetherness for quite a period. Be it novels or English serials or Hindi...

We have to watch the Imtihan phase ... the exams and tests that SSO gives and Anika gives. Anika has started.

Atlast it will be Anika ka Shivay winning the test . Not SSO.

We don't know how long it will get dragged !! But all said and done there may be a third angle/person entering but I can't see the insults or torture that heroine should always go through... crying and fighting is different ... but not insults anymore ... they have come a long way ... if the makers try again to insult Anika in front by Shivay or others again and again then the story goes to square one...

Let's see how the Imtihan phase goes

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BilluKiBilli

@BilluKiBilli

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

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Maleka

@StayStrong

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: LordLuminous
Double standards or... maybe because Shivaay has done worse to Annika, which is why more people justify Annika when she does something wrong rather than Shivaay who has been a horrible person since he met Annika.

Note, I don't agree with this logic. I'm just saying, this might be a thought process that some are using to justify Annika and discredit Shivaay.

double standards for anika too then despite of her flaws she says character is everything to her and she behaves totally out of character but then she's shown in a good light sacrificing that character for her hubby's happiness thus redeeming all the bad things she said today to shivaay who is completely unaware of this sudden change in her?????

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pooja

@uppaas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: lalsunvid
Love is always sacrificed in front of the family. Here both Anika and Shivay love has been sacrificed for only Shivay family.

That's the underlying test what Gul mentioned . The Imtihan will begin.
A story of lovers will always go thru hurdles and separation and togetherness for quite a period. Be it novels or English serials or Hindi...

We have to watch the Imtihan phase ... the exams and tests that SSO gives and Anika gives. Anika has started.

Atlast it will be Anika ka Shivay winning the test . Not SSO.

We don't know how long it will get dragged !! But all said and done there may be a third angle/person entering but I can't see the insults or torture that heroine should always go through... crying and fighting is different ... but not insults anymore ... they have come a long way ... if the makers try again to insult Anika in front by Shivay or others again and again then the story goes to square one...

Let's see how the Imtihan phase goes

what sacrifice has anika done almost she has backstabbed n broken shivay ...after marriage shivay did wrong but redeemed himself like how..but anika has left him to his fate to deal with the mess she created for him in name of sacrifice...😕

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lalsunvid

@lalsunvid

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: uppaas

what sacrificehas anika done almost she has backstabbed n broken shivay ...after marriage shivay did wrong but redeemed himself like hoe..but anika has left him to his fate to deal with the mess she created for him in name of sacrifice...😕

She has left him in a pool of mess or not we will know it later. If it's a backstab for Shivay from Anika ... you are much correct in Ishqbaaz story . But the makers have to comply to a lot of conditions and separation is such a condition in any Indian serial . And that's how this is done.

But Shivay will tell defnly tell Anika ...you sacrificed me in your battle ... but being married for such a small time can a Son hear any words against his mom... if Anika had made Om and Ru to tell the truth and if plates turned by Pinky ... that would have been worst .
My apprehension is only that this is the phase where the black sheep Shakthi Singh Oberoi and Kamini roles to take front and start the real revelation...but we r getting a third new person here ... the real truth is with that Shakti and Kamini ...

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Pickachu

@pickachu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Hi 5!

I blame them both but from starting shivaay gets bashing left right centre.So I have soft corner for him *embarrassed*

It's ok if people finds fault in him because

he has flaws but I don't get it why same thing does not apply to anika?

I guess main problem is that in the show anika is always painted as a victim even if she is wrong they twist it in such a way that either villains attack her in many ways or they make shivaay say something that no one see it

Phir people say that harneet loves sso.Maybe she loves sso because sso sells I mean put mahi in sso place it did not work people start to ask for shivaay's comeback

They should address anika's insecurity issue instead of portraying her mahanta as good thing.

Love ur post! Sorry if i hurt someone just my pov

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vivacious_gurl

@vivacious_gurl

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+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Mallu difference is... Annika Whatever she has done is for Shivaay's family... Shivaay Whatever He does is for his family... Annika. Nvr did anything for herself and she doesn't hv any family except sahil... Annika Was forced into the marriage to save her family her brother so that Shivaay's family's reputation wudnt tarnish... He used her family to save his family honor... He did wrong... What annika did today she shud hv done this way before and not under Pinky's pressure but because of her self respect... If u see even today he said I won't take anything against my family... Dude U call her ur family... If she really is ur family then oberoi family is her family too... U dont need to tell her that it is ur family...

Shivaay has changed... Yes He has changed a lot but that enuf dint ears the mistakes he did in past... He nvr wanted to talk about their past but not once did he say sorry for what he did to her... Sometimes Only actions rnt enuf... Words R needed... U need to vocalize what u feel... If u feel guilt u need to say so... If u r sport u need to say so though u r making amends...

Annika after changing him in her love today broke him... I won't call that backstabbing nor will I call it sacrifice really... Coz almost all in OM now know Shivaay is illegitimate so sooner or later he is gonna know about it... So sacrifice kaisa... Foolishness hua na... But She hasn't back stabbed either... She used all things that happened in their past which he is trying to mend but won't address openly as he doesn't like to think about dread full things he did to her...

She dint use any of new things or cheated him...

When Shivaay forcefully married her n then dadi convinced her to come for reception did anyone think how Annika felt when tia was announced as wife infront of all... Firstly she was forced into marriage... Then dadi forces her to keep MS and then Shivaay.. The one who force married her insults her further by announcing tia as his wife... In return to saving his family's reputation at blackmail of losing her what did she get in return... Not even respect... Dadi Today said Annika u r the bahu of this house... Everyone respects U... Really If Jhanvi can see how pinky treats Annika are others blind? Did dadi forget how pinky threw Annika out of hospital... How she was called all bad names?

When NT was got in the house and she was proven to be a fakes term did Shivaay call a press conference to clear that the lady was faking for money... His wife has nuthing to do with her? He deffo is double standards... He does anything n everything to protect his family... Even when he declared Annika as his wife he did it after she was insulted left right n center... N yeah she cudnt hv said she is his wife coz he had announced tia as his wife in media... N Who was she... A nobody... With no proofs...

Her not wanting the label of Mrs Shivaay Singh oberoi... Well ppl say it's her flaw... I say it's her self respect... She doesn't hv a father's name to use but frankly I don't use my husband's name... I do use my father's surname coz I grew with it and I made my individual mark as that... My husband's surname dint make my life what it is... I ain't gonna give credit of my life to my husband's surname... His only qualification is of being my husband... Im Not a product that needs branding change... I am me... So Annika's saying I'm Annika just Annika shows her self respect at being herself...

Anyway as per me... Annika's flaws R acceptable coz they r r about herself... Shivaay y flaws judge others n that's the problem..

Mallu this is purely my opinion... Its jot Shivaay bashing or Annika glorification... It is Shivaay and Annika analysis as per me... If ppl bash me for loving Annika more then they r right... Coz I identify a lot with Annika but can't relate to Shivaay and I wud really nvr want a Shivaay kinda guy in my life... Jo hosh se nahi Josh se kaam karta ho...

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Shanaya (shona)

@Shonasyl

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: uppaas

what sacrificehas anika done almost she has backstabbed n broken shivay ...after marriage shivay did wrong but redeemed himself like hoe..but anika has left him to his fate to deal with the mess she created for him in name of sacrifice...😕

maybe this time it will be Annika's turn to redeem herself😳 we used to think that Shivaay was perfect and after wedding FIASCO we got to know that he isn't PERFECT BUT HE WAS JUST HUMAN and NOW we got to know that Annika is not perfect but HUMAN too. she is not perfect. BOTH ARE HUMAN 😳 they make mistake and will learn from their mistakes.

After all Accepting each other's flaws is the foundation of a strong relationship. Right?😳

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TR19

@TR_19

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+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Bang on post awesome.

Completely agree with you...Shivaay is not at fault at all as you said he has been like this always...his first priority was NKK and his brothers...anika has targetted his idology his family that means the whole world for him...I think shivaay is completely justified...even I think of his brothers were saying something about the family he would he react the same way. Because NKK means shivaay and shivaay means NKK. And ofcrouse anika was rude to dadi anyone in shivaay's place would get mad if anyone talks to the olders like this.

Well to me no one is at fault shivaay was always like this I would say he was even more loud before but he has tone down...when anika get rude to pinky still was quite as he thought it's just a tantrum of anika which would go but once she start getting rude to dadi that when he got crazy.

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pooja

@uppaas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

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Let's see how the Imtihan phase goes

what sacrificehas anika done almost she has backstabbed n broken shivay ...after marriage shivay did wrong but redeemed himself like hoe..but anika has left him to his fate to deal with the mess she created for him in name of sacrifice...😕

After all Accepting each other's flaws is the foundation of a strong relationship. Right?😳

bingo shona yes shivay is not perfect so when the wedding happened he was bashed we crticized him too..but he grew..

so when anika is wrong why make her mahan n say her sacrifice..and alll..😕