Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl
Mallu difference is... Annika Whatever she has done is for Shivaay's family... Shivaay Whatever He does is for his family... Annika. Nvr did anything for herself and she doesn't hv any family except sahil... Annika Was forced into the marriage to save her family her brother so that Shivaay's family's reputation wudnt tarnish... He used her family to save his family honor... He did wrong... What annika did today she shud hv done this way before and not under Pinky's pressure but because of her self respect... If u see even today he said I won't take anything against my family... Dude U call her ur family... If she really is ur family then oberoi family is her family too... U dont need to tell her that it is ur family...
Shivaay has changed... Yes He has changed a lot but that enuf dint ears the mistakes he did in past... He nvr wanted to talk about their past but not once did he say sorry for what he did to her... Sometimes Only actions rnt enuf... Words R needed... U need to vocalize what u feel... If u feel guilt u need to say so... If u r sport u need to say so though u r making amends...
Annika after changing him in her love today broke him... I won't call that backstabbing nor will I call it sacrifice really... Coz almost all in OM now know Shivaay is illegitimate so sooner or later he is gonna know about it... So sacrifice kaisa... Foolishness hua na... But She hasn't back stabbed either... She used all things that happened in their past which he is trying to mend but won't address openly as he doesn't like to think about dread full things he did to her...
She dint use any of new things or cheated him...
When Shivaay forcefully married her n then dadi convinced her to come for reception did anyone think how Annika felt when tia was announced as wife infront of all... Firstly she was forced into marriage... Then dadi forces her to keep MS and then Shivaay.. The one who force married her insults her further by announcing tia as his wife... In return to saving his family's reputation at blackmail of losing her what did she get in return... Not even respect... Dadi Today said Annika u r the bahu of this house... Everyone respects U... Really If Jhanvi can see how pinky treats Annika are others blind? Did dadi forget how pinky threw Annika out of hospital... How she was called all bad names?
When NT was got in the house and she was proven to be a fakes term did Shivaay call a press conference to clear that the lady was faking for money... His wife has nuthing to do with her? He deffo is double standards... He does anything n everything to protect his family... Even when he declared Annika as his wife he did it after she was insulted left right n center... N yeah she cudnt hv said she is his wife coz he had announced tia as his wife in media... N Who was she... A nobody... With no proofs...
Her not wanting the label of Mrs Shivaay Singh oberoi... Well ppl say it's her flaw... I say it's her self respect... She doesn't hv a father's name to use but frankly I don't use my husband's name... I do use my father's surname coz I grew with it and I made my individual mark as that... My husband's surname dint make my life what it is... I ain't gonna give credit of my life to my husband's surname... His only qualification is of being my husband... Im Not a product that needs branding change... I am me... So Annika's saying I'm Annika just Annika shows her self respect at being herself...
Anyway as per me... Annika's flaws R acceptable coz they r r about herself... Shivaay y flaws judge others n that's the problem..
Mallu this is purely my opinion... Its jot Shivaay bashing or Annika glorification... It is Shivaay and Annika analysis as per me... If ppl bash me for loving Annika more then they r right... Coz I identify a lot with Annika but can't relate to Shivaay and I wud really nvr want a Shivaay kinda guy in my life... Jo hosh se nahi Josh se kaam karta ho...
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