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I am quite sure that I would be called a feminazi after typing this but I feel there is no need of physical intimidation when Om played a well thought brain game with Svetlana. He did something the self proclaimed 'I choose brain over heart every single time' Shivaay Singh Oberoi who wouldn't have thought himself. He background checked his ex girlfriend/ future wife now not even after he doubted the baby she is calling his is not his.
Your point is valid, if Svetlana was a guy, he getting beaten up by Om would not have been called being a MCP. I totally agree to it that she is not the best of the human beings & she deserves a far worse treatment then she is getting.
You are absolutely right that this whole situation was a huge blow to Om & anybody would snap under such pressure.
But the hand twisting could have been Omitted. One big difference between Om & Shivaay I felt till now was Om valued women. He cared to treat them nicely no matter what. He did treat Svetlana nicely before. And I did not have any problem with him asking her price bcoz she was willing to sell herself. I am just saying that the invasion of physical space could have been kept aside.
Now whether to call him a Male Chavunistic pig or not. Well I would say no. He is not a MCP. Bcoz he didn't think of her as inferior or nullify her to a thing. She did that to herself. But needless to say the arm twisting was unacceptable.
Coming to Shivaay. He is a MCP. He is a classist & a sexist both( gonna get a lot of hate for this too) & he himself have proved it many times. I am a ShivIka Shipper but I don't feel any shame in saying this that Anika stood strong against him & she has fallen weak but both the times he had been wrong to manhandle her. And the fact that she suffers more is bcoz she has seized to fight.
And please I would like to request this that bcoz of the pseudofeminsts you see around yourself, don't disgust the word feminist. It supports a far bigger cause than any one of us.
Lastly like I said in the other post too No woman deserves to be manhandle, good or bad, priestess or prostitute.
Lastly Karma is a bitch, everyone says that & that's why we have to let karma do the punishing.

@poemssyndrome, I don't think we will ever see each other's point of views on "manhandling a woman". Lol Because I despise the very concept that it is "manhandling a woman" and not "manhandling a human being" . I am just saying that I feel what Om did ti Swetlana was fitting as it was fitting how Shivaay was slapped by Anika. No one complained then because Shivaay was completely wrong then, I just believe that there isn't even a question of complaining when Swetlana is wrong. It's as simple as that for me.

Originally posted by: victorias

what is the meaning of feminazi? .i never heard that word.could some one tell the meaning?

I don't know what's been said else where but the definition of manhandling in terms of Indian soaps is not quite like it is suppose to be. To make it easier to understand here is a nonsense logic

Manhandling in ShivIka's case:
Shivaay twists her, Corners her or whatever
Anika 's reaction however is mostly the same "Meine kya kiya hai aap mujhe bataein gay. Meri galati kya hai?"

Did Svetlana say anything in defence or protested? No, because she got to know that she was wrong.

I am not liking it at all since 2-3 days that people have started calling Om a second Shivaay. Just by twisting a 'twisted woman' doesn't make him Shivaay. Shivaay has an aggressive personality since the beginning as he said "Mein aesa he tha, hoon aur rahunga". On the other hand the 'negative' change in Om is because of a very big reason. He was never like this and I believe he will never be like this again.

Comparing Anika with Svetlana is again a silly thing. Anika never did wrong but has been a victim of Shivaay's aggressiveness. On the other hand that 'woman' Svetlana has caused a massive destruction to Om's family. She played with Jhanvi's emotions, toyed a married man and broke a family apart. Did Anika ever do anything close to this?

Om never even touched Svetlana before even when she accused him with a really disgusting thing but today she was teasing him with his mother's 'half dead' condition of which he considers himself responsible. She did it for her own satisfaction and her satisfaction is "money" as the sisters are after Oberoi Empire. Did Anika ever do a thing for money? Ofcourse it was unacceptable when Shivaay named her 'Bikau Maal'.

Svetlana provoked him and he lost control over his emotions and if someone provokes him he has a temper. He clearly said "Don't you dare". Svetlana was clearly scared of Om's never seen before avatar. She will think before hurting him now.He didn't owe her his due and rightful respect because Svetlana doesn't deserve respect even if she is a woman. Did she respect for Jhanvi's rights who is also a woman?

I don't know if I made any sense here. One more thing a few days back my brother twisted my arm real bad when I was teasing him. Was it also manhandling?? He did because I was asking for it. 🤣

for me the question is why can't om be his own person?why become like SSO and all the other manhandling heroes?...gul has disappointed me in a way,somewhere I always disagreed with her critics when they said "she can only handle one type of lovestory"...I used to think that no,if need arises she can do good with other kind of love stories and characters too...but the fact that she did this to om when he is about to become a main lead in a show of his proves her critics and their opinion of her ability to handle only one kind of love story right.

Originally posted by: -Ila-

@poemssyndrome, I don't think we will ever see each other's point of views on "manhandling a woman". Lol Because I despise the very concept that it is "manhandling a woman" and not "manhandling a human being" . I am just saying that I feel what Om did ti Swetlana was fitting as it was fitting how Shivaay was slapped by Anika. No one complained then because Shivaay was completely wrong then, I just believe that there isn't even a question of complaining when Swetlana is wrong. It's as simple as that for me.

But at least younsee that manhandling Swetlana doesn't make Omkara an MCP, simply because he isn't a person who would use his sex to dominate someone

I get your point. What you mean to say is ' if it is okay for a woman to slap a man just bcoz she thinks what he said or did was wrong then why is it not okay for a man to slap a woman when he thinks what she said or did is wrong'. What you are putting forward here is equality in treatment & I would like to make it clear that is exactly what I want to put forward. With a additional point that why is slapping needed in the first place?
We can't punish someone just bcoz they did us wrong. We can definitely bring them to punishment. I said it too that Anika should fight. She can prove her marriage to be void. She can file a case against Shivaay for mental & physical torture & she can definitely sue him for attacking on her character. Similarly Om can right now sue his father & Svetlana for Adultry for which his father would be punished (here our law favours women). Similarly he can sue Svetlana for mentally torturing him & his entire family & for ruining his sister's image. And he being an Oberoi will definitely get justice. But the thing is he is similar to Anika, he chooses not to. They have different reasons to do that. Where Anika completely seizes to fight.He took things into his hands. Fine he doesn't have proof. He can lead Svetlana to commit a crime &get her punished for that or just find proof.
But any kind of physical abuse against anyone is not right. That is what I wanna say.
People should not take law in their hands.
Lastly we live in a world were the scale is a little heavier towards the male sex. And that is why may be the word feminist got coined(even though it means equality as u pointed out). And that's why I say 'manhandling a woman is wrong' bcoz most of the time women are the ones who are abused. Doesn't mean I support abuse against men. Wrong is wrong. No matter what.

I don't agree that Om behaved as a MCP, he had responded in a similar way to ACP too when he was harassing Prinku, his anger was completely justified as he was with a girl who had charged him for r**e

I respectfully disagree, I feel Om is the kind of person who is not thinking but simply acting out of all the repressed emotions he has had for the woman who has destroyed his life and he is kinda wrong in expressing it in this manner that is unlike him no matter how much he claims he has changed but I love the analysis 👏👏👏

Ohoo I m so late for discussion. Well all I going to say my own perspective.

He was abusive and it was wrong, but I hate Svetlana so I will admit I enjoyed someone finally took that stupid smirk off her face 😆 Jokes aside, being good or bad woman doesn't really change the fact it's still wrong. Resorting to violence is never okay no matter the reason.