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Posted: 9 years ago
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Perceptions differ. I am not asking for anyone to accept my words as Gospel, merely encouraging one to think.

Om man handled Swetlana today and he has been named a male chauvinist pig. Understandable since it was Om, an able man roughening up an unarmed helpless woman Swetlana. But is he really a male chauvinist pig? I think not. Don't misunderstand me. I have perfectly come to terms with the fact that Om has every chance of becoming a male chauvinist pig. He was shown today as perfectly capable. But does Om man handling Swetlana make him a male chauvinist pig? Or does he calling her a "bikau maal" or asking her to name a price for herself makes him a male chauvinist pig when she herself names a price for her?

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Now the man handling. This is very interesting because, if Swetlana was a guy and had done some pretty shitty things to Janvi, taunted her son Om about her and if Om reacted the same way, no one would have even cared to make a comment on this scene just because they were two guys fighting. The man handling is only brought up because Swetlana is a woman, a snake of a woman who tortured his mother to suicide, who broke his home and blamed him of rape but hey who cares, she is a woman. Well I thought that was the most fitting thing Omkara has ever done in the course of the show and should have done that way before. Being a woman shouldn't grand such a vile person the advantage to get away with whatever she does and punishments shouldn't be gender biased. She is a woman, so what? She destroyed that guy's family and to her luck she didn't get killed by him. I am sorry but if Swetlana shouldn't be beaten up for what she does I have lost all my faith in Karma.

There is a fine line between a feminist and a feminazi and there is a hell lot of difference between misogyny and retribution. ****

PS- Feel free to call me a hypocrite and blind.

PPS- Omkara died. So yeah it's pointless to think of him as some righteous saint who wouldn't lift a finger if he is messed with.


Note: Edited by VB to avoid fights in the forum.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said!

I hope Om only behaves like this with women who deserve it like Svetlana. Just hoping though I don't see the point of doing so
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lachu thanks for this post I am badly in need to put my views on a neutral post. I am just copy pasting my comments from AT. I have seen many calling Om MCP blah blah so I just want to know
so what should have Om done to the woman who made his mother commit suicide, made the MMS of his sister, accused him of rape and going to marry his father just to rule on OM and directly mocking him saying how much she is enjoying seeing his mom suffering who is on bed with burns yes he could have said oh Svetlana don't talk about that sweetie. I wish he slapped her when she told she is enjoying seeing his suffering.

There's a difference I don't know why is this gender biased what if it's Om in place of Svetlana who is talking all these things to Svetlana and she is innocent like Om and Svetlana slapped him I think all will say wow Om deserved it but here she is a woman sath khoon maaf LOL

I support gender equality I supported Anika when she took the tiff with that police officer because officer was supporting wrong side, that day too I wished Anika slapped that officer and I loved when Anika slapped Shivay when he called her with something he shouldn't because both parties deserved it.

And today I support Om for scaring the shit out of Svetlana that guy was calm still Svetlana mocked his mom , she did everything to break his family but he never said anything but today she said I am enjoying your mother's pain who is on bed with burns and the woman responsible is in front of him. I wished instead of twisting her arm slapped that woman

PS: yes I am a feminist not a feminazi and I will be the first person to call Om MCP if he do it with Gauri or innocent ones

PSS:Feel free to call me hypocrite as well
Edited by abhiya_12 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello
I never get into this manhandling because I am tired of Gul shows and she showing men to be man handling assuming it makes them look hot.Om was my favorite character in this circus but he has been lowered in viewers eyes.
Point is man stays gentlemen and dignified when he presents himself in worst situation,here svetlana is bad but he stooped low by manhandling her,she being good or bad deserving will never be a point.She is plain bad but he has lost respect from viewers eyes.
You have a good point about 2 men fighting but they are equals and at the same time if it was anika woman handling then there will be no name calling,this is not about gender equality but about men exerting their physical power over women when they get helpless over situations.
Edited by nebuna - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I second you on this.
Everytime as woman we need equality and representation. If it is so then why can't we take the price of our actions, then we need the perks of being a woman. How is it right then, where did equality go. Everybody wanted Daksh to be thrashed badly, then why not Swetlana. She has sold herself, hasn't she. I'm waiting to see Shivaay physically hurting Tia & Mrs. Kapoor atleast once!!
Take a look at the word manhandling itself, it's a single word isn't it.
If we need equal rights, then we should stop asking for favours of being a woman too.
Edited by MariaRebecca - 9 years ago
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verrryyy welll writttennn 👏👍🏼👏👍🏼👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No I completely agree with you. She deserved everything she got. And She started it by poking the bear. She should have thought twice before touching the Jahnvi topic...At the end of the day, she is doing all this for her father's death.. so she should clearly understand not to target a wound that is already so raw..
And she's the one who wants to sell herself. Om is just stating facts. Not insulting her..She is lucky she is not dead yet...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all is svetkara being compared to a lead couple wats wrong with people ya ROFLMAO just to justify someone else's action's comparing them with svetkara d " incest " couple as they r referred LOL joke of dis month


D points u made r completely true anika and Svetlana have no comparison whatever shiv said or did with anika was wrong as she was innocent / didn't sell herself contrary to dat Svetlana here even if its for revenge on her dead father has crossed all barriers so ya d behavior she was met with isnt wrong ...Yea it was manhandling wouldn't support it but d opposite person had it coming LOL

Now I love svetkara as most know here and today they were hot AF and as Om d decent guy is dead I don't have any expectations on how he'll be with his lead but today whatever he did was right and bang on d way he brought terror in Svetlana's eyes now we haven't seen dat anytime right ?


PS : And there's dis famous saying when in Rome u behave like a roman ...
Edited by Toota_ShiSha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Perfectly said...Svetalana had it coming to her...and she shouldn't be allowed to get away with all she has down just in the name of being a woman. There is a colossal difference in how Om is behaving with Svetlana vs. how Shivvay behaved with Annika in the initial days.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MariaRebecca

I second you on this.
Everytime as women we need rights and representation. If it is so then why can't we take the price of our actions, then we need the perks of being a woman. How is it right then, where did equality go. Everybody wanted Daksh to be thrashed badly, then why not Swetlana. She has sold herself, hasn't she. I'm waiting to see Shivaay physically hurting Tia & Mrs. Kapoor atleast once!!




you said it all girl give her a cookie someone

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