About SSO and OUR Double Standars- Lets Flip our Thoughts - Page 12

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Posted: 8 years ago
Gul khan aur cvcs ne shivika ki shaddi ka mazaak banake rakh diya hai hmmm...๐Ÿคช
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: misspinkun

Gul khan aur cvcs ne shivika ki shaddi ka mazaak banake rakh diya hai hmmm...๐Ÿคช


bilkul nai bhai... Mazak to bilkul bhi nai.. you have to patiently sit and watch how ShivIka brings about the meaningful relationship out and how they do it together... sab kuch 30mins me to nai hosakta naaa. you have to wait and watch .. and till then enjoy the drama๐Ÿฅฑ
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: geet.a

I NEED TO ADD THOUGHTS but my love, thank you for this post!

You have said it all that we have been discussing.
And iM NEVER going to be tired of repeating how LITTLE i enjoy violence, ideological or physical, but there are violences of many kinds according to individual flaws. I will NEVER be okay with any one hitting anyone else, and anyone else romanticising that violence.

But throwing around extremely sensitive words like rape, bipolar, psycho, people need to educate themselves a bit more for these words are offensive to those who HAVE been on the receiving end of all this.
I'm sorry but rape-culture is a hugely problematic and sensitive concept and i refuse to believe that that is what was being portrayed OR that is what came across in yday's epi.

On through phone so cannot write more right now, but i will.
Till then, so long

Love
Geet


iss baat ko u have elaborated in your post- but hum lkh likh ke samja samja ke bhi - nai samjha sakte ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† isiliye short me bol dete hai.. bhai popcorn leke drama enjoy karo.. Shivaay or Anika ka matter hai menu ki ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: swetha2010

Awesome post @pritz...

Agree to all of the points...well written


thank you girl๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

I agree with what u said bcoz I am looking at this as Shivaay's story & not Anika's. This is meant to be him getting over his eternal fantasy of NKK. For this he has to succumb to his lowest & burn & get up from it.


I agree with u about the Rape thing too. Rape is a huge term & people don't understand the intensity of that word bcoz our legal system has made a joke out of it. Raping someone is not just invading their private space mentally but physically too. Rape puts the victim through such mental & physical trauma that no one can even think of it who has not gone through it. Also what the society puts that victim through making their being as the reason for their suffering is the worst part of it.
But him doing what he did was him going dark. There is no justification for his actions. When he says he can do anything for his family, he himself is saying that what he is doing, he understands he is not supposed to & is morally wrong.
But the only problem I will have in this is if Anika will not giving him a hard time. Becoz she is not at all like other Heroines on TV. She gave him a hard time last time & she needs to do that now too.
SSO needs to stop thinking that becoz he can, it is ok to be selfish enough to hurt anyone to protect his family & even if he does that, he can justify it.
In Anika's words If he can go Bawla Khargosh on Anika when it comes to his family, He needs to understand that Anika too can go Bawli Khargosh on him for threatening her with Sahil.
Dadi's words 'Jo ho Takkar ka ho'. I just want to her wipe her tears kick some ass!


#bold yes exactly, that's what gul has said right from the start

# bold 2 obviously there is not - I have never said that his actions were justified - NO, but his reaction to the situation was.

#bold 3 Girl I completely agree with you on this, I am so against the ACCHAI ki DEVI FL's who just like that in a snap of a second just forget the problems she had to go through due to the hero and without any nautanki and nakhre they just melt and forgive and start dancing around with them and romancing... if I see this happening I am so coming back here bashing Gul and ANika next time..coz that's the ultimate destruction to a story which had a wonderful baseline and also the character Anika being what ever she is all becomes useless.. theres no other sense to show her strong independent and powerfull in her own ways - coz if all this was used to ONLY woo the hero - then Dude there is nothing else that is left to even go back and watch the initial episodes of anika ... ๐Ÿคข

#bold 4 Agreed ๐Ÿฅฑ

#bold 5 Gosh, I am loving you,, same to same girl same to same feels *waves have like anika* bhai expectation to itna sa hi hai.. ki Anika ke shades bhi dikhao, jab you are saying "Takkar KA" show the takkar in equal senses,, if he is a Mad Lion , she has to be a Mad lioness.. only then can the two survive , otherwise Anika will be nothing but "pair ki jhooti" coz any which ways " Anika was a LEFT OUT" option for Shivaay for marriage , she was not his choice

#bold 5 BINGO ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

hi-fi girl we hope to have some crazy shit coming from ANika's side ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†
*fingerscrossed



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Posted: 8 years ago
Sssuuupppeeerrrbbb posssttt!! Pritzz...๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
Missed u a lot dear...
I Second u on everything...
Now i am soo lazy to comment...
U r right... some ppl ne hadd kardi... with all those nonsense...
And then Here is the saviour of SSO ki character... the great queen of postivity...Prithu...aka Pritzz ๐Ÿค—
Bohoth kam log hai jo tere jaise sochte hain...
Anyways...SSO WAS and IS SSO...๐Ÿ˜ณ
Kya tashan hai bhai...
Love u Pritzz ๐Ÿค—

Love Sharmi
Edited by lucky_princess - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: PaYa_Rivanya

Amazing much needed post by you pritzz..Totally agree with your all perspectives.๐Ÿ˜Š

Even i never support ml manhandling fl...i feel cv's could have avoided at-least this one scene where SSO keeps his foot near Anika's face..that was very disturbing.

What an Amazing performance by Nakuul.He slayed it.he was ruthless to the core...his eyes were on fire...can't believe it's d same person who played Adorable Adi in PKDH...what a transformation to such intense multi-shade char Shivaay/SSO...the way he transformed from Shivaay to Arrogant/Ruthless SSO after that well deserved slap by fiercy Anika...he killed it...take bow Naks.,no one could have played this role better than you...SSO is for you only...so proud of you...Love you to the moon n back.โค๏ธ

Nakuul and Surabhi both nailed it with their terrific performance.๐Ÿ‘

SSO was true to his character.Anika and we have to witness this dark/worst side of SSO as for him his family comes first always,he can go to any extent to save family reputation..after that hired gril ran away...he was frustrated/angry...he has lost control on this worst situation...hence this forced marriage by blackmailing her and he got his due for his wrong accusation on Anika..well deserved tight slap for him.Am sure once he becomes clam...he will defo realize she is framed in bad way by creepy guy.Anika was also not at fault...she did exactly what her heart said...she didn't want to indulge in this mess...but she had to interfer in his life as awlays.๐Ÿ˜‰

Once all mu clear and creepy daksh/tia got exposed...he will defo feel guilty and try to win her love back as he made big accusation on her which is difficult for her to forgive.But they are destined to be together.๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Am so waiting to see Shivaay taking left and right of that psycho daksh ...bahut dulai hone wali hain.๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Shivika's love and hate journey going to be Amazing to watch.It will take time for Shivaay to break all his barriers of blood/lineage/name and accept Anika. She is his wife now,he will be in more of over protective/possessive mode.She is officially his family now.Anika and family will come first from nowonwards.Shivika are still not aware on their personal lives and this marriage will help to know about each other and Shivika will complete by being supportive system to each other.๐Ÿ˜ณ

Even i read some posts on rape whene there was nothing like that is shown...don't know why people assumed that way..he can never do this...even there was one post on Nakuul how could he do such scene...common guys...he is doing his job...he himself a true gentleman in real life...its not easy for him to portray such scene..he did it so flawlessley...People shouldn't forget he already played too goody role just like God Shiv in PKDH{I still Adore my Adi/Romeoโค๏ธ]...SSO is totally polar opp to it...proud of him for bringing life into such complex multi-shade char.๐Ÿ˜Š

#bold agreed it was.. but I guess to increase the intensity of his GREY shade they had to show that bit to scare Anika ..coz anika has seen his Bad side but NOT his Cruel side ๐Ÿ˜†

#bold 2 HAin na??? Gosh this man has become so mature in his acting and absolute gorgeous , after watching him as SSO I just cant go back and watch him as Adi.. I just cant this guy has won me ๐Ÿ˜ณ

#bold 3 Naks and Sur are takkar ke performers โญ๏ธ - bro they are like made for each other co-actors .. I cant imagine anybody else in place of these two .. never

#bold 4 and the complete para - exactly -people are not getting this idea behind this drama.. Anika has to know what Shivaay is so that she knows and understands how to deal with him and tame him even more ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜›

#bold 5 HE HAS TOO.. I have my Fingerscrossed, I am not interested in his redemption coz this grey act was kinda justified and does not require a dememption and also he has married her bhai jo chahiye tha hame wo kiya usne.. shaadi karneke liye kya redemption.. galat tarikese hi sahi but shaadi to ussi se ki naa๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ I am more interested to know how he fills her life wit happiness and colours ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

#bold 6 hahhahhahaa gimme me a Hi-Five๐Ÿ˜† besabri se intezaar hai๐Ÿ˜† psycho ki pitai ki - or Shivaay ki possessiveness or protectiveness avatar ki ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ hayeee

#bold 6 exactly mann such statements were pathetic, it made me so angry, I was compelled to write such a long post after so long and when I had decided to not write again ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: lucky_princess

Sssuuupppeeerrrbbb posssttt!! Pritzz...๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
Missed u a lot dear...
I Second u on everything...
Now i am soo lazy to comment...
U r right... some ppl ne hadd kardi... with all those nonsense...
And then Here is the saviour of SSO ki character... the great queen of postivity...Prithu...aka Pritzz ๐Ÿค—
Bohoth kam log hai jo tere jaise sochte hain...
Anyways...SSO WAS and IS SSO...๐Ÿ˜ณ
Kya tashan hai bhai...
Love u Pritzz ๐Ÿค—

Love Sharmi


๐Ÿค— Sharmiii ๐Ÿค—

Thank you dost .. mujhe pata tha tu bhi mere tarah hi positive hai ๐Ÿฅฑ๐Ÿฅฑ๐Ÿฅฑ

Tujhe bhi me kitna miss ki.. or tere FFs ko.. bass vrat tha mera IF me kabhi post na karneka par SSO ki itni bezzati me nahi sehe sakti..๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ bechare ko koi samjhta hi nahi.. isiliye aana pada mujhe uski royalty bachane ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† pehen liya advocate ka coat wapas, utha liye files , kar liye sabot ekhatte wapas , or banagayi advocate Again .. just for him๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: serendipity.

LORD OH good LORD

IFONLY i had time, id chip in and contribute with my two cents... but since im so short on time... all ive to say is... LOVE you and the post
WORD WORD WORD!

๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

Love you too .. coz very few people tend to agree with my point of views for a Hero+Villian like SSO ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Bsangama

Umm nice analysis ya .
Sso just caught in the web of lies ,betrayal and fake ppl like tia and pony .
He is what a shrewd businessman would be he is work alcoholic and he is far from emotions he only knows to love his brothers unconditionally but outside he is a stone because he needs to be like that to survive he meets a girl who is bindas who does work according to her wish who is independent too and cute he gets attracted fall in love but that emotion he is not aware of because he is committed to tia who is fraud but sso wants to marry for business benefit sidelining his feelings but in that process a fox friend enters and brain washed him and things seemed placed perfectly by that fox so sso wanted to marry fast but tia ran away he arranged a substitute to tia she too rijected he has no time only one girl left was Anika .
The web of lies and runaway bride he acted the way a monster acted how much a person can take for a day so sso poured all the poison on Anika because she is near and dear to him his love his anger his frustrations fall her directly or indirectly so the result wedding with her.
But one sin sso did was using sahil knowing brotherhood sentiment he shouldn't use that meanest thing to do .
Hope his redemption is as furious as this one he has to go down his knees to manow Anika


#bold agreed yaa absolutely
# font Wahi to dude wahi to... koi samjh nai raha hai.. NOT even a day.. In a matter of 20-30 mins his whole world flipped thrice that to in a negative way.. how much can he control, everything was slipping away from his hands ๐Ÿ˜• noboday even tries to understand his state..he CAN'T just sit and cry in the corner , he has to fight to save the sitation ... any strong man/woman would do the same -struggle to still save the dobti naiyaa.. no sit and cry over the loss.. you never loose until you think you have lost..and so I am with SSO ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

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