About SSO and OUR Double Standars- Lets Flip our Thoughts - Page 11

Originally posted by: JaiJaiIraniMata

I think she made it clear that it isn't as if she has not watched or enjoyed gul's shows in the past...made it clear that she can separate personal morals and watch such shows and read such novels...just that she can't condone such behaviour...and as much as I remember of her posts in ipkknd forum she never supported the lead character when he manhandled.She criticized it with much vigour,in fact.

She didn't even bring feminism here man😆...you two are doing that.

Originally posted by: -sakshi-

Finally a post from you darling..Shivaay ke liye tumne post to banayi. We were drooling upon this guy who was falling head over heels in love with the girl, billa bana kutta , what a line yaar😆. we were forgetting that he is the SSO... what he did yday was very rude, abusive and psychotic but for a reason that was justified . The rage he was going thru at that moment when there was no choice, it had to come out like that.
You have put it brilliantly in the post like you always do.. this is the Shivaay we love & we hope to see many layers of shivika that start with hate & end with love. Hope the viewers ( outside the forum ) too take it like that & dont see it as negative side of the hero of the show & lose their interest .

Originally posted by: -sakshi-

Your lines are always hilarious

Originally posted by: nim_var

Pritha, love you girl for making this wonderful post.

I am sitting back and enjoying the ride of IB as it is riveting to watch the drama unfurl along with Shivika on their journey to become man and wife.

Both Narbhi are just doing a tremendously superb job and hats off to them. I am not going to analyze SSO and his menacing behavior toward Anika or Anika's interference in his deal with a khandaani family.

Both of their achilles heel exposed to each other, his family for Shivaay and Sahil for Anika.

👏👏

Originally posted by: jarir2010

good post.

but i cant fully agree with u.yes he was desperate,lost his patience,cool or whatever maybe or he has a family and business to maintain but if he didn't he get a bride in time he will not die,not any of his family member either or their business collapse and they will come to street.the answer is no.

nothing tht sort will happen.they will face loss,but tht can be overcome in future.their family reputation may tarnish a little but people will eventually stop talking about it after few days.and not a single member will get a hear attack after learning tht TIA runaway.

desperate time need desperate measure.but the situation is not tht desperate tht blast car to show the unwilling bride to marry u otherwise u will kill her only family,to make ur family.how ironic.and yes double standard.

we saw in previous episode mallika run away from his marriage but did rana's lost everything,tht can not be recovered or they will act like mad.

here in ur post u point out annika's interference but she literally dont want avoid,avoid hard not to interfere,she refuse twice and when the girl begged with her life,she just give some advice.not any decision.she told her to follow her heart. so the girl did tht which she felt right for her.so where is annika's fault?

when tia runaway he made deal with tht business family for one day marriage.he try to cover up.

but she also left why didnt he offer annika a deal when he believe tht annika can even sold her body for money.why didn't he offer money her or any deal deal to bail him out .coz she is no khandani.ho he can throw her,scared her hell out of life to marry him.and she also runaway in order to save her he rounded her and threaten her tht he will kill her 8 years old brother if she dont comply.

the question is whether he did right or wrong.in my opinion what he did with annika was completely wrong,considering the situation or not considering.

people muder in self difence,parents can killed if someone try to harm their child's life.

but shivaay's situation was not life threatening,not tht desperate.his desperation cant justified his action.to cripple someone mentally to bow her down to his punishment.

and force marriage is a crime.

Originally posted by: richa1792

Are you seriously defending man-handling and criminal activities? Just because Shivaay is going through a tough time, of his own making I might add, does not give him a right to man-handle, misbehave, hurt, push punish any bloody person. Be it Anika or Tia or Sahil or even Mishra.

See, I agree with you about the Tia matter. Anika shouldn't have interfered. Both Shivaay and Tia were okay with their circumstances and it was none of her business. But here, Richa asked her help. She asked, not once, not twice but thrice. She begged for help. She haid she'd rather die than get married this way. So, no. Anika didn't interfere nor was she out of line. If I see something wrong happening, I will speak up. Silence is culpability with the criminal. Standing up for what is right, for what is honorable is not something that should be termed as interference.

Also, Shivaay kidnapped Sahil. He pretended to blow him up. Infront of his sister. That is a level of sheer mental torture that I can't even begin to fathom. That is horrendous and I won't justify it just because he is Shivaay and hey, it's his nature.

Also, Anika doesn't need a man. No woman does, especially not a man like him. If he redeems himself appropriately, may be then we'll see. They aren't even in love yet. Why would she even try to understand him? Just because Shivaay ka family might face a little badnaami, she is supposed to give up her life. And lets be honest. I don't think anyone other than pinky would have been heartbroken about Tia. Nobody cared. So Shivaay is destroying lives just because of his prestige. It doesn't matter that is what he was taught since childhood. He is a grown man now. You can't go running behind a defence of bad childhood teachings for every shitty thing that you do.

P.S. I don't think the Nayi Soch is ever going to be where the man is supposed to throw around a lady as he pleases, even if he does so on a clean pristine sheet. That is just f**ked up and nothing justifies the action, least of all the cleanliness of sheets.