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Yesterday's dialogues were very very important, when Shivaay said every girl wants to marry a rich guy because girls need a comfortable life for shopping, to fulfill the basic needs and all, but I am sure he meant luxuries that's my take, what he said was not about comfort, here is my version of luxury:
For example:
You are born in a very very rich family, you are feeling low, you plan a trip an up country tour then you said no let's go to London or Paris it will have a good effect on health and mood.
You are tired of seeing same clothes in your wardrobe, no want more clothes let's shop for a whole new wardrobe.
You want to make changes in your room, re-paint it, renovate room or whole house.
Whenever you want , you are capable of buying new clothes, keep changing the look of your house, frequently going to trips because you have a lot of resources and these are luxuries, if you are ill you can go to the best doctor anywhere in the world.
Now, despite of all these luxuries your told by your family that since you have everything you need ,you need not to do a job, it's the job of men, despite of all the luxuries you want to do something to own something that is yours and you want to earn it by yourself not by your family name, but you are not allowed to fulfill your dreams, how can you feel comfortable despite of having so many luxuries when you are not allowed to do what you like to do with your career??? Will you feel happy until and unless it's your choice that you don't want to make a career and rather prefer to become a housewife.
Not all the people in the world are living a luxurious life but despite of this lacking they are comfortable, some people lack both, comfort does not come because of luxuries it depends on each and every person's choice, comfort is also being mentally peaceful, living with your family in peace despite of limited resources, comfort is having a good understanding with your life partner, for some people comfort is only possible if it comes with lot of luxuries, it's all about different choices but sometimes you don't have any choice, earning money and making career becomes a compulsion when even your basic needs are not getting fulfilled.But in your mind you think that by working hard you can give your family a comfortable life, conflicts arises in family due to financial crisis, some people suffer their whole lives and if a woman say that she has suffered so much she wants someone to make her life easy and must be well settled what's wrong with that????
Mallu
For example:
You are born in a very very rich family, you are feeling low, you plan a trip an up country tour then you said no let's go to London or Paris it will have a good effect on health and mood.
You are tired of seeing same clothes in your wardrobe, no want more clothes let's shop for a whole new wardrobe.
You want to make changes in your room, re-paint it, renovate room or whole house.
Whenever you want , you are capable of buying new clothes, keep changing the look of your house, frequently going to trips because you have a lot of resources and these are luxuries, if you are ill you can go to the best doctor anywhere in the world.
Now, despite of all these luxuries your told by your family that since you have everything you need ,you need not to do a job, it's the job of men, despite of all the luxuries you want to do something to own something that is yours and you want to earn it by yourself not by your family name, but you are not allowed to fulfill your dreams, how can you feel comfortable despite of having so many luxuries when you are not allowed to do what you like to do with your career??? Will you feel happy until and unless it's your choice that you don't want to make a career and rather prefer to become a housewife.
Not all the people in the world are living a luxurious life but despite of this lacking they are comfortable, some people lack both, comfort does not come because of luxuries it depends on each and every person's choice, comfort is also being mentally peaceful, living with your family in peace despite of limited resources, comfort is having a good understanding with your life partner, for some people comfort is only possible if it comes with lot of luxuries, it's all about different choices but sometimes you don't have any choice, earning money and making career becomes a compulsion when even your basic needs are not getting fulfilled.But in your mind you think that by working hard you can give your family a comfortable life, conflicts arises in family due to financial crisis, some people suffer their whole lives and if a woman say that she has suffered so much she wants someone to make her life easy and must be well settled what's wrong with that????
Mallu
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