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Originally posted by: Cupcake.
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Agree with everything you mentioned in your post. Last night confrontation was supposed to be intense, serious but it come out childish from her side. It was an immature tit for tat. You hurt me now i will hurt you kind of thing.</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">He said bad about her upbringing but didn't brought her family members in between, she could have defended herself without dragging ShivRu and Tej. When Om said no one has ever pointed a finger at Shivaay, she knew she was losing she brought Tej and hisscandalouslife into the argument.</font><font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I tried giving a chance to her character, but after last night i can happily continue to skip her scenes.</font>
Originally posted by: .bintAli.
Hello 😊
I am typing this from my tab so, sorry for any typos, dear. I'll keep it short.
First of all, just because we want a grey character means we cannot complain when said character does something stupid? Even if she had been what is considered grey (because, as I mentioned in my post, Ishana is flawed but please, she is not grey, that is a joke) and had done what Ishana did in the last episode, I would have criticised her.
The comparison to Anika does not happen because I want her to be like Anika, as I again mentioned in my post, but because Ishana kept harping nonsense about how poor people don't have a choice and cannot be honest - we don't even have to go to real life to prove her wrong, the example is already in the show. That's the only reason why comparisons are bound to happen - her justification was lame.
As for the apologizing part - she didn't do that 'cause she necessarily accepted she was wrong otherwise, she wouldn't have immediately started to justify herself. Hadn't she brought up poor and rich and family name, Om wouldn't have retaliated, either. And as others mentioned, had she done her research properly, she would have known what to say and what not to say in this situation.
Also, as for the part where she "utters some truths" - what new thing did she exactly tell him? Those dialogues were all sorts of messed up which makes her lashing out like this look even less understandable. I mean, the Ashok incident - Om was the one unhappy with how that was handled, he and Shivaay even fought over it. Whatever she told him, Om is not "blind" to it - what does she think why the guy isn't involved in the family business? Why he doesn't want to be associated with the Oberoi name? It looked even lamer because Ishana and her family were in the wrong; had the Oberois done something to her personally or had Om been really blind to all of this and blindly loved and defended his family her dialogue might have been digestible. Heck, he didn't even say anything when she brought up Tej because unlike her, he can call out his father on his mistakes and knows that Tej is wrong, he only lost it when she said he would end up like him. (On this note, Shivaay didn't look guilty when she brought him up, unnecessarily, and even Rudra looked more uncomfortable/hurt than guilty, imo. They didn't have any real reason to be guilty, after all.)
The execution was just... bad, imo. Justifying her actions because she is poor and then, her "uttering of truthts" which was nothing new to Om made it look all kinds of messed up. To me, she didn't react like a grey character but a wounded cat who couldn't take it to be called out on her errors and thus, had to throw mud on others to feel better. Whether it was in character or not, I have no idea because as of now, I don't know what her character is like.
Thanks for your comment, though. Guess we will have to agree to disagree on this one 😳