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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

I am not judging her harshly. I am merely pointing out the facts. She says she had done her research on The Oberois. Even during the most hurting moments, humans have the mind to know when to stop. But here no. She just blasted him off taking his family into it. Om even in all his anger did not take her father or sister's name. But she did


He was implicit. She was explicit. The mere mention of her family was hurtful enough for her. He hasn't researched her family - he was making an assumption. She, on the other hand, knows intimate details about the Oberoi family ( of course, with ill-intentions, I admit), and so she used that information against them.

Why is this wrong? If I want to attack someone, I will look for his sorest spot and repeatedly hit that spot as hard as I can. Ishaana, is likely aware that Om's weak spot is his brothers. He attacked her family, she went after his brothers.

Each person is different. Some control their anger better than others. Some lash out without thinking. Some say things they mean, that they probably wouldn't say until they were pushed to their absolute limit.

The point is that, there is no universal constitution that dictates how one must behave when they are angry.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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honestly i feel there is a big editing mistake here d way she said y u bring my family in it sure he would had said something that she bursted out like that people brings family into fights only when others bring it there i am highly disappointed with editing team btw whatever she said was not totally wrong oberois r masked people even om..(u can bash m for this) bt truth is truth indirectly hi sahi she instigate d seeds of doubt in obebros for d raaz om actually lives a bubbly life of idealism where every one is black n white bt she let him knw people r grey in his life as ishkarian i can't choose in between this two both r right n wrong at their places y shivay late her go easily we knw he is not like that he would hve thrown her to jail bt he didn't he let her go so easily... i am surprised yup she is wrong bt whatever she said was needed to come infront of obebros n comparing him with tej she is totally wrong here bt inside om also fears d same...n she jst got that fear on surface now if any one can bash m u can feel free to that n actually i am not taking ish side or om's cause i am also confused
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

I agree. But whwt was the need to bring every male member in the family into this ??? When it was Ishaana that was wrong and not Om here


Like i said to point out every one is wrong in some way or the other😊

She did accept she was wrong but also pointed out that Om's own loved one's aren't perfect as well.

I am just glad she pointed out about Ridhimma.Hopefully now Om will realize it soon.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14
Hey!!
Firstly awesome post.. 👏
Today vrushika and kunal just nailed it...

Till now Ishkara hasnt sparked any impulse in me for them so I m not a kind of crazy fan...so not defending anybody in this post..

Omkara...I loved how he spoke today...he was in his limits...and being the purest and honest heart he was hurt how she cheated and hence raised his voice against her family..because he has seen sometimes parents fail to inculcate the right values in their children ...moreover he was angry...hurt...not every people can keep calm in these situations...

Ishana...whatever she was speaking was the reality she face everyday...she talked like this about Rudra cause she has seen how some rich call girls to warm their bed...she doesnt know Rudra is not like this the same way Omkara doesnt know before speaking about her family...and again Not every body can keep calm while they are angry...

Im not bashing any body...this is strictly my views..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i think om over reacted...they r not frnds for years or months...trust matter ok...he trust her...n she broke his trust...no need of bringing ishanas family n parvarish in this matter...i m not supporting ishana...ishana s also @ fault...i agree om say truth only bt we cant say whoever mingle with om should say truth...oms character s lyk" i say only truth n those who talk 2 me should say truth"...bt if they say lies 2 others i dont care...both r at fault ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Edited my post on the front page :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hmmm... I don't agree to you on most of it...

I am not counting on how much Om was right and how much Ishana was... But I took it as a heart to heart conversation between the two... they just spoke to each other, one was hurt and the other was angry...
They are 2 different individuals and they do have different opinions... like how Shivay and Om has... they both have got the same parvarish... but yet they are different... the same way, it was just a talk between 2 different individuals... its not necessary that one has to be right and the other one wrong...
Edited by reeeh - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Edited...

Nice post deepu 👏 agreed with your all points
Kunal and Vrushika really nailed there respective character, it was treat to watch them today.

Ishana speaking of being gareeb and aameer was totally out of context. Lady there are people in world who are neck deep in problems more worse than you but they don't go around lashing out on people in frustration of their failures. For a second I thought, she is again taking advantage of Om's soft corner for people in need and emotionally blackmail him.

Om's anger was totally justified and so was his dragging her upbringing. A person's upbringing is reflected in their personality and no doubt Ishana's upbringing is totally crap. The basics that has been fed to a child brain plays an important part in their decisions in future.

Ishana's anger was justified till one point, but the moment she dragged oberoi men, her argument made nosense, it was like she was giving justification of crap that she committed on her own will. Agreed she was angry and person's brain stop working when he is angry and no body's family should be dragged, but lady do you realize that you yourself dragged your family and started this mess, and what kind of con-artist are you that you can't reign in your emoticons and show your sore point to other people. Isn't the first rule of conning is to have great control over your emotions and not to let your facaade slip at any cost, but here you broke by a gentle wind, you are an sorry excuse of a con artist.

Your father actively participated in conning Om, so he has full right to call out to him. Your sister is actively helping you in conning people, so what type of example are you trying to setup for her, that you were so hurt when questioned about your upbringing.

Rudra and shivaay's behaviour or character or ethics was nowhere related to the issue, yet you had the audacity to drag it. Is Rudra forcing girls or the girls are under age with no sense of right or wrong. They are matured adults and if they have no problem in warming someone bed, then what problem do you have. Acting to be the saviour of women kind, are we. What guarantee do you have that those girls didn't had any ulterior motive behind their action.

Regarding Tej-Shivaay sense of business, lady do you have any frikkin idea how corporate world works, that you are pointing at them. If oberois are Chor, then pray tell me which business tycoon aren't. You can't sit at ocean's shore and pass your judgement about its depth. So lady, for the things you have no idea, don't jump in it with your gun blazing because it can royally backfire on you.

Which family doesn't have skeletons of past that you are pointing out at them. For all you know your family has more skeletons in their closet than you can ever dream about. Comparing Om with Tej was clearly cheap and below the belt move. You can definately be compared to your father in some areas, but where did you find traits in Om, who has been honest to you from day 1 which are similar to his father, whom you haven't even met. Just speaking nonsense for the sake retaliation.

Regarding how will Om turn out in future, you haven't seen the future to pass comment on it. Maybe in future you may turn out to be a psychopath killer, seeing your reaction towards failure this thought is not that foreign.
Edited by aadi720 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said!
Ishana accepting that she was a con was nothing great because she had been caught and there was no other way...Om could have had her arrested! She had conned him and got him jailed!

And what he said...about morals not being the luxury of the rich...was true...she was the one who was totally wrong here..that's the point...he did nothing to her...just tried to be a friend in fact...! But she wanted to use him and his wealth even after knowing how sensitive he was!

What she said was purely on the basis of offence is the best form of defence...nothing else!

On what basis did she say that he would become like his father? Does she even know his past?? That was just to hurt him...and she had no right to hurt him as whatever he said as right...her father taught her to con!

She cannot just walk away after giving a lecture on morals to someone who didn't wrong her at all..he would react of course! And I don't think he said anything to justify her talking harshly against every member of his family..people who have done nothing to her! If there was a background of Shivaay or tej or rudra affecting her negatively then what she said would ha e made more sense...

But here she just researched him to loot him and when caught spewed a lot of dialogs ...the brothers could have just handed her over to the police..would she say the same things then??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post Deep 😊
I totally agree she has no right to say anything to OM as she is the one cheated him... her plan failed so it was just the outburst... but I guess its normal in that situation. Ishaana knows nothing about Om, or how Obros are.


I was angry when she bashed Obros... how can she blame our cute little Ru? Or papa Shivaay Oberoi? or compare Om to Tej?... she knows nothing about them.

but about Oberoi family, about Tej or the man who burnt himself... if Om loves truth so much why did he let Shivaay hide the news? because for him his family comes first though he said he will choose sachchai but I guess he can never do that.



NO idea what to write lol

Eager to know what happens next

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