Dhani needs to keep quiet - Page 4

is it really possible for anyone not to see viplav's goodness still ... other than dhaani none in the safed gang is that harsh to him ...i think dhaani simply doesn't want to accept viplav is not rakshas ... it is not easy to wake up someone who is pretending to sleep ... somewhere she must be really getting disturbed with his presence around so she wants to keep him away from herself ... i don't think presence of dulaari has anything to do with it ...it is simply her vidhwa status and the fear of how she is unknowingly getting occupied with his thoughts must be making her harsh with him ...
but it will be fun if viplav comes to know her inner feelings and keeps irritating

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Can we really blame Dhaani for the way she is and behaving ????

From the day she has become a widow, Dulaari has been preaching the Widhwa Dharma to her day in and day out, the same way like she is doing with the others.

What should we expect from Dhaani ????? That she will go against her moms wishes and start accepting everything that Viplav is doing ????

We have seen many times how Dulaari is behaving with Dhaani...she went so far that she didn't even trust her own daughter and beated her infront of the others.

I really cannot blame Dhaani for the way she is and besides, after all the pranks that Viplav played and after all the humiliation that she went through without any fault of hers, I don't think it will be easy for anyone in her shoes to trust Viplav so fast

Absolutely right! I second your thought about the behavior of Dhani but as OP pointed out CV's are showing her to be too overwhelmed abt everything(pun intended). I guess they have to keep few things in mind like the lead actress not having many dialogues will again let out a huge rant from her fans;) so , although they might feel unusual like some of us they have to keep going 😊 😊

thanks for your view in fact every body has given great reasons for and against dhani's attitude.. I think there is method in cv's madness.. the contrast between their attitudes causes friction.. which in turn creates interest in the viewers .. we are not bored. at least I am not.. its early days to see them both enter into an emotional attraction bond. yet.. a slow and gradual progression is more credible. It puts cvs in a position to develop and present more incidents involving both the leads to maintain our attention.. dhani with her seemingly off hand demeanor is enough to chivvy viplav on.. sweet ,sour or spicy she has viplav's attention and the man is not for turning...they make a great couple... vibrant!.. ohhh I can hear them arguing.. what fun!
love hammie

Originally posted by: kubare

Lovely points everyone has made ...but am with Eshasrk & Ladylala on this...

Completely agree with all that they said...

Dhanni says what she says because she can't trust Viplav...because for her as Tarun said ...he is the cause of so many problems she and the widows are suddenly facing and too top it off she has a mother...who keeps preaching harping on Vidhwa Dharam...

The CV's are going about cleverly in showing us two opposite views...

Viplav the educated, city, worldly guy...and the Widows stuck in a society following some very outdated rules...which have been made a part of Religion when it is not so...The widows are hardly aware of life outside the society they live in...and thus don't know or understand what Viplav talks about...

Viplav does not know that his Grandfather is the arbitrator of the way the Widows are treated...he thinks his GF...is a great, worldly open minded man...but alas...we viewers are aware of his true nature...and people very close to him...but the rest like Viplav think of him as a very great compassionate man...Dhanni & the widows included...

Thus...until trust is built between the widows & Viplav...hes going to be shouted at and all his actions be questioned...

Originally posted by: Hamlet53

thanks for your view in fact every body has given great reasons for and against dhani's attitude.. I think there is method in cv's madness.. the contrast between their attitudes causes friction.. which in turn creates interest in the viewers .. we are not bored. at least I am not.. its early days to see them both enter into an emotional attraction bond. yet.. a slow and gradual progression is more credible. It puts cvs in a position to develop and present more incidents involving both the leads to maintain our attention.. dhani with her seemingly off hand demeanor is enough to chivvy viplav on.. sweet ,sour or spicy she has viplav's attention and the man is not for turning...they make a great couple... vibrant!.. ohhh I can hear them arguing.. what fun!
love hammie

I have not read through the entire argument but all i have to say her reaction cum bhashan is getting very repetitive , all the other widows react differently to Viplav on different occasions but Dhaani is like on repeat mode with the same lines which is frankly quite unbearable now please give her some new lines ...and Dulaari is nect in line witht he repetition bug ...if the rest of the safed gang can have a variation why not the lead and her mother ...same dialogues same reactions ...atleast if nothing else their tone of conversation can be polite?

Haven't watched yesterday's episode, so no idea what resulted in this post. But I still stand by Dhani's inability to trust Viplav completely. All I can understand from her behaviour and situations are that she is deeply scarred by Viplav's pranks which stirred a lot of troubles in her otherwise quiet, uneventful widow life. She had been dragged into too much of controversies only coz of him. Though he has like compensated for his ill deeds in helping them with the Ashram case, when she actually started trusting him, however unfortunately it was short lived until Viplav's engagement day fiasco in the temple premises. What Dhani went through after that has again brought her back to square one.

Dhani probably was never closer to any men in her life. I wonder if she ever had father, brother or any kind of male figures in her life so far. Viplav could be the first guy ever who is getting as close as friend. Since she has suffered coz his pranks she still is in a dilemma on whether to completely trust on him and his acts. I also have another suspicion, if she is intentionally trying to keep him far from her so that she wouldn't have to face any more questions on her values...! Well it's just my opinion, but I feel everyone has a valid reason for the way they are in this show! None of the character is baseless!

Originally posted by: Sasha_1939

Can't wait for that day..but I don't think it will come so soon...Dhani needs to get out of the influence of her mother 1st

Yes u r right again that till Dhani is in her mother's influence and her mother in the society's influence, nothing is going to change. Aren't we all looking forward to that change. Sure Dhani is simply being mean but I am sure get guilt will b big later on.
It's frustrating to c Dhani like that but I think the show already has a very fast pace ... From the ex fianc story to Viplav moving into ashram, things have been moving very fast. It wud b nice to c dhani's slow dependence on Viplav in boosting her self esteem and all the societal matters.