IPZN CC#2 yeh pyar na hoga kam - Page 15

I personally had more problem with Ahaan during Mayank's track than Savitri's track.

When Ishqi broke her wedding, Ahaan had no buisness in going after her. He was hurt and all is fine but it was Ishqi's right to choose whatever are her reasons. It was like Begani Shadi Mein Abdulla Diwana😆. Then for 6 months he harrassesd her by taking all her jobs. It was uncalled for and we deserved long redemption track there

With Savitri, I understood him. The childhood Abandonment issues run very deep and Ishqi took it lightly. She handled it in a wrong way so I had more sympathy with Ahaan than her. Even with his angry words, I did not see major issue with it. He was not ready for divorce either. It was Ishqi who pushed him to that point.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

When he got married to Ishqi, she became his family. So in his mind, she is same as everyone in the family and he would put her first like asking dadi to not make him choose between Ishqi and her, making juice at dadi's displease etc.

Yes, he did have problem as Ishqi did not tell him about her health. It is normal among partners to expect that other person share their problems with you.

Yes, he did get jealous of auto drivers which is normal if you like the girl. It is different thing that he was not aware of is feelings. About desk job, durign that phase he was just lookign for Ishqi's reaction other than Sir😆

With Savitri back in his life I wish they had explored AVM and Sonu's mental health more. In my pov AVM and Sonu's were the most layered characters in the show, flawed and endearing. The way AVM, Ishqi and Sonu were written having similar childhood traumatic experiences really spoke to how people cope with life differently. This show was good at getring subtle msgs lacross wrapped in a entertaining romantic dramedy genre. I do hope the makers at the very least consider bringing the characters, cast and show back soon.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I think Ahaan was more perceptive than Ishqi. Ahaan changed his views when he heard different opinion from Kartik, Rhea ot Savitri. It was not guidance per say, it was another POV which clicked with him and he changed his thinking/opinion based on new POVs and evidence. Ishqi was more strong and rigid with her thinking. We agree with her about everything as it was more liberal views like most of us. But in terms of judging and perceptive nature, Ishqi is more judging and Ahaan more perceptive (I am refering judging and perceptive in context of MBTI personality).

Ishqi is stronger emotionally and rigid whereas Ahaan is weaker emotionally and flexible. Both has equal pros and cons. With people like Ishqi, it is impossible to make them realize that they made a mistake. They do not accept it so they dont improve. With people like Ahaan they change when something better comes up but there is also possiblity that they may change for worse.

I completely agree with this. Also Ahaan was not archaic as some of us may think. He was a traditionalist but if you reason him with logic, he would be open to accepting the view.

Originally posted by: Forever_Fangirl

I think my cousins mentioned something along the lines. But here we get paid to be a TA (teaching assistant) so it's a job really, but I have to attend the class. It's honestly a really good experience. I did it as an undergrad too!

I was a TA lol ... yes it is a job and you get paid. Yes to attending class etc. But I liked it heheee

Originally posted by: esprit_00

i was always Jess-Rory shipper ... so I hated how they ended her with thta other guy (whose name i cant even remember) ...

She didn't end up with anybody. 😕

Originally posted by: esprit_00

I was a TA lol ... yes it is a job and you get paid. Yes to attending class etc. But I liked it heheee

For me TA was mandatory for two semesters. If you TA for additional semesters, then only you get paid😆

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

If ur interested in writing ffs we all can collaborate, discuss the topics we wanted to be addressed in the show and write short stories on them. What say?

I would love to read something.. but i lack the patience to write. 😆

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I personally had more problem with Ahaan during Mayank's track than Savitri's track.

When Ishqi broke her wedding, Ahaan had no buisness in going after her. He was hurt and all is fine but it was Ishqi's right to choose whatever are her reasons. It was like Begani Shadi Mein Abdulla Diwana😆. Then for 6 months he harrassesd her by taking all her jobs. It was uncalled for and we deserved long redemption track there

With Savitri, I understood him. The childhood Abandonment issues run very deep and Ishqi took it lightly. She handled it in a wrong way so I had more sympathy with Ahaan than her. Even with his angry words, I did not see major issue with it. He was not ready for divorce either. It was Ishqi who pushed him to that point.

Same here ... The Mayank saga lol ... that was so 🤪.

I completely hated his knee-jerk reactions etc at the time and as you know I didn't watch it because it ruined all the progress Ishqaan had made as a couple.

Upon re-watching later I realized, he had fallen head over heals in love with Ishqi and was struggling to accept or understand it. His inner struggle became slight outbursts towards Ishqi / KArtik and then compensation towards Rhea. Ishqi on the other hand had buried her feelings because of Mayank - had he not been a slime, she would have married him - love or not.

He was like a pendulum during that period, his heart vs all the Dadi indoctrination in his mind: hence he asked her to meet him by the pool. He waited for the entire evening / night. He asked her time and again why she did what she did. But she stayed quiet. Ahaan blamed himself and her for Mayank's family's destruction. The job thing etc was so he could get her to speak - trying to corner her so she would come confront him. But he didn't know her reality, which is why the Mausa truth was his undoing. At that moment, not even knowing about why she dumped Mayank, Ahaan's heart took over again - realizing Ishqi had to have a valid reason for all she did. And even if he didn't know, he was at a point where it didn't matter to him anymore.

Originally posted by: Forever_Fangirl

Oh wow!! Research/academic track or practice track? I honestly don't come across many people in the older Asian generation who have done psych!

Research.. she doesn’t work now though..

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I personally had more problem with Ahaan during Mayank's track than Savitri's track.

When Ishqi broke her wedding, Ahaan had no buisness in going after her. He was hurt and all is fine but it was Ishqi's right to choose whatever are her reasons. It was like Begani Shadi Mein Abdulla Diwana😆. Then for 6 months he harrassesd her by taking all her jobs. It was uncalled for and we deserved long redemption track there

With Savitri, I understood him. The childhood Abandonment issues run very deep and Ishqi took it lightly. She handled it in a wrong way so I had more sympathy with Ahaan than her. Even with his angry words, I did not see major issue with it. He was not ready for divorce either. It was Ishqi who pushed him to that point.

Ditto.. during Mayank track he was acting like a freaking stalker.

Salman Khan ban gaya tha woh 😆