I trust you

Here is my question after watching yesterday's episode -- how do you view Aryan's trust in Imlie?

When we sleep, there is a certain amount of trust and comfort needed. Here, both of them are sharing the bed and not even batting an eye. There is no awkwardness or weird glances. Instead, he falls asleep. As he tosses and turns, he naturally edges closer to her. Finally, he is sleeping on her lap. Imlie for her part does not even stir. There is so much comfort and trust that she does not find his presence strange. When she wakes up, there is surprise but no shock or weirdness or horror. Instead, she tenderly moves his head aside and makes sure he won't awake. So when they sleep and their defenses are down, he trusts her and she trusts him.

But what about when they are awake? He tells blue aunty that Imlie might be stupid and impulsive but she would not betray anyone. Yet, when she tries to give explanation, he tells her that he already knows because of CCTV. So was the trust based on evidence? Did he not care because he has seen with his own eyes that they had an argument? While she knows their marriage is fake, she still wants to explain to maintain his trust in her.

Now, as viewers, we know that the cuteness will only last so long. So what do you think will it take for his trust to get shaken? Or will it be other misunderstandings but through it all, they will continue to trust each other? Will Aditya's presence be a poison to their trust meter or will it not matter? What do you think friends? Post your thoughts!

when he told BM that he trust Imlie its cos he really do trust imlie n BM have not business to poke her nose in between husband wife n Aryan know wha BM wants cos she is veyr openly telling her BD is proper bahu for R family. Aryan know BM is using bad words to insult imlie so he making clear that he don't doubt in public is fact. he dont doubt imlie. he trust her n if u r writing abt trust of "loyalty" then he dont have any doubt about it.

he didnt trust imlie to choose herself over AKT n family cos he still believe AKT n T family is manipulating her n she will keep running cos she have soft corner n that she will do for anyone even narmada n arpita now. what he don't know (i cant say dont trust but he don't know n can't say 100% to himself) is that imlie care for him as much as she care for other people in her life. not in way of "husband i love you" but even as person with her. he think she keep him last on her list or may be not on her list.

he saw the cctv n he know imlie n AKT argument happen n then he burn the file. so obvious it is aryan know imlie is not giving hawa to AKT dream of getting her back cos if she have to she will not come back to take last phera (according to him cos he dont know that mitthi force her). but yes, till this cctv he didnt trust imlie will choose AKT but how much he understand frm CCTV only writer of track will know but i dont think it will be about trust as "husband and wife" meaning he is never going to doubt her loyalty to his family but there will be MU for sure cos she is going to find who gave money to that worker to throw petrol bomb on arvind car n it will not be connected to AKT but aryan will also not be wrong cos AKT article started the issue so there will be lot of clash between them. also Aryan dont have any problem of class, naukar-naukrani issue but whenevr arpita-sundar story come imlie n aryan will clash again cos somehw he will be against giving arvind place to any other man so may be imlie will stand for arpita didi's feeling.. but that seem long away cos arpita sundar didnt get any scene in full wedding drama also so god know when their story will start. biggest MU between them will remain that they dont know they love each other n wont tell each other cos both think other person dont love.

this is complicated or many be cvs r opening up a new way...

Aryan one side trust Imlie n its the track to show how Aryan different from Aditya now coming with CCTV footage (video only or Audio + Video) is it cause of this only or there r something more

there both of has some trust for each other n comfort even before their wedding during pd they felt each other n helped each other

there r some kind of pull for them

it may be illogical or magical but they found it

there is Aditya indeed but the lack of monologue gives us confusion just yesterday we got Imlie's stand now where is Aryan

yes he feels for Imlie but doesn't want to accept it , the reason she might reject or not reciprocated but Aryan is also hurt the cause of Imlie's bitter words

so Aryan gives it back to her but Aryan trusts her yes there is something how long how much , and that will be tracked...

Maybe not Aditya or may be his family will be responsible for this trust thing...something is coming ...

right now both AryLie don't have any expectations from each other so trust, care etc r coming as normal

Both r trying to find a logical conclusion from their own selves n from each other but they r getting more tangled ...

their conscious level fighting with each other n their own confused feeling

their insecurities their past their longing for each other ..but subconscious mind trust each other n this is the fight for them

To overcome their demon ..Be it Aditya's shadow or past or T's or anyone else ...

Trust issues will come surely but how it will unfold we have to watch

We don't really know when he watched the cctv.. I wish the makers had clarified... It could be after t the argument bec when BM started making noise everyone was still sleeping

.... He trusts her not to cheat.. That's given.. That is not who she is.... But does he trust her when she says or will say that she doesn't love aditya anymore to him... Thats a different question..

So that part imlie will have to convince him that he is the one for her.. Esp when she continues to put the t-family before everything.. I'm assuming it will come down to some big choice someday.. When it will be him against the tripathis.. Could be post akt exit.. . Will she choose him? Even I'm not sure.

I keep saying that she has never lost him. So she doesn't really value him. Akt was never hers. Sometimes he rejected her sometimes malini got in the middle. So there was always the idea of wanting what you can't seem to have..

Aryan is just always there for her. Uska bulba tab jalega when she loses him due to something she does. And then she'll go crying back to mitthi

Excellent topic. I was actually wondering that myself. Whether Aryan’s trust in Imlie is inherent or evidence based. Whether he had seen the cctv footage before or after he had defended her. But then in today’s episode, I noticed that he constantly said “my family” referring only to Arpi didi and Narmada Aunty, while Imlie was trying to interview them. He excluded Imlie from his idea of ‘family’. Perhaps it was unintentionally done out of momentary stress. But aren’t people more inclined to speak their true minds under stress, since they’re in a more vulnerable mental state? I feel like while he does have strong feelings for her and he does trust her to a considerable extent, a subconscious part of him is still guarded against her. I sense a gap between how much he tells people he trusts her and how much he actually trusts her. I don’t think he trusts her implicitly at the moment. Imlie, on the other hand, actually trusts him more than she’s letting on.

I had the same doubt when I watched the scene and I came to conclusion based on order of events, Imlie came back from office--> BM and BD called everyone to put a false accusation(so others were alseep) --> BM accused Imlie and Aryan supported her --> Imlie tried to explain to him and he told he has seen the CCTV, if this had happened at night we can say he already saw the CCTV footage but this happened in the morning so Aryan saw the CCTV footage only after that incident and he supported his wife because he knows she will never cheat on him.

He has been with her for a long time - he knows she is not someone who will cheat but yeah we still don't know whether he has heard about Imlie telling Aditya that she no longer loves him.

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

Excellent topic. I was actually wondering that myself. Whether Aryan’s trust in Imlie is inherent or evidence based. Whether he had seen the cctv footage before or after he had defended her. But then in today’s episode, I noticed that he constantly said “my family” referring only to Arpi didi and Narmada Aunty, while Imlie was trying to interview them. He excluded Imlie from his idea of ‘family’. Perhaps it was unintentionally done out of momentary stress. But aren’t people more inclined to speak their true minds under stress, since they’re in a more vulnerable mental state? I feel like while he does have strong feelings for her, he has yet to fully accept her into his inner circle. A subconscious part of him is still guarded against her. I sense a gap between how much he tells people he trusts her and how much he actually trusts her. I don’t think he trusts her implicitly at the moment. Imlie, on the other hand, actually trusts him more than she’s letting on.

I think trusting and part of family are 2 diff things

... Like he trusts that she is not the kind to step out of marriage for some late night affair...

But family? She sings about tripathis all the time. On the contrary I don't think she considers him as family. She cares about narmada and arpita but at least till recent 2 episodes she didn't really think about them.

He thinks she is his 'apne'.. But whenever it comes to akt and tripathis, he knows she'll stand in opposition. So i didn't find his dialogues weird. Because he knows she has one track mind

For me Aryan knows how important trust or biswaas is for me Imlie..remember during the divorce paper signing in fron to him....Imlie spoke about trust and its importance in her marriage. And infact all through his association with her she has never given cause for him to doubt her...through their progression both of them intrinsically trusted each other. Only her trust and conviction took a hit when she got to know about his enmity and reason for the same with Aditya....how can one expect her to understand his motive for the deal marriage, what he fears (dream of losing her) . In her previous relationship she invested too much of herself in that she gave more than 200% but in return she only got pain, Aryan knows how much she values trust...so he is gonna always trust her. Both of them have no awkwardness between them now until it's boss-employee, mentor-mentee, friendship between them, the love feeling still in denial phase but the caring has begun...he finds sukoon with her.

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Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

when he told BM that he trust Imlie its cos he really do trust imlie n BM have not business to poke her nose in between husband wife n Aryan know wha BM wants cos she is veyr openly telling her BD is proper bahu for R family. Aryan know BM is using bad words to insult imlie so he making clear that he don't doubt in public is fact. he dont doubt imlie. he trust her n if u r writing abt trust of "loyalty" then he dont have any doubt about it.

he didnt trust imlie to choose herself over AKT n family cos he still believe AKT n T family is manipulating her n she will keep running cos she have soft corner n that she will do for anyone even narmada n arpita now. what he don't know (i cant say dont trust but he don't know n can't say 100% to himself) is that imlie care for him as much as she care for other people in her life. not in way of "husband i love you" but even as person with her. he think she keep him last on her list or may be not on her list.

he saw the cctv n he know imlie n AKT argument happen n then he burn the file. so obvious it is aryan know imlie is not giving hawa to AKT dream of getting her back cos if she have to she will not come back to take last phera (according to him cos he dont know that mitthi force her). but yes, till this cctv he didnt trust imlie will choose AKT but how much he understand frm CCTV only writer of track will know but i dont think it will be about trust as "husband and wife" meaning he is never going to doubt her loyalty to his family but there will be MU for sure cos she is going to find who gave money to that worker to throw petrol bomb on arvind car n it will not be connected to AKT but aryan will also not be wrong cos AKT article started the issue so there will be lot of clash between them. also Aryan dont have any problem of class, naukar-naukrani issue but whenevr arpita-sundar story come imlie n aryan will clash again cos somehw he will be against giving arvind place to any other man so may be imlie will stand for arpita didi's feeling.. but that seem long away cos arpita sundar didnt get any scene in full wedding drama also so god know when their story will start. biggest MU between them will remain that they dont know they love each other n wont tell each other cos both think other person dont love.

That is true; he trusts her loyalty and believes in her character - that she is not a person who will cheat on him. However, he does not believe that she cares about him or his family or will put them above Tripathy family. So in that sense, there is a lack of trust and that will definitely cause clashes...

Originally posted by: KrishnaSourav

this is complicated or many be cvs r opening up a new way...

Aryan one side trust Imlie n its the track to show how Aryan different from Aditya now coming with CCTV footage (video only or Audio + Video) is it cause of this only or there r something more

there both of has some trust for each other n comfort even before their wedding during pd they felt each other n helped each other

there r some kind of pull for them

it may be illogical or magical but they found it

there is Aditya indeed but the lack of monologue gives us confusion just yesterday we got Imlie's stand now where is Aryan

yes he feels for Imlie but doesn't want to accept it , the reason she might reject or not reciprocated but Aryan is also hurt the cause of Imlie's bitter words

so Aryan gives it back to her but Aryan trusts her yes there is something how long how much , and that will be tracked...

Maybe not Aditya or may be his family will be responsible for this trust thing...something is coming ...

right now both AryLie don't have any expectations from each other so trust, care etc r coming as normal

Both r trying to find a logical conclusion from their own selves n from each other but they r getting more tangled ...

their conscious level fighting with each other n their own confused feeling

their insecurities their past their longing for each other ..but subconscious mind trust each other n this is the fight for them

To overcome their demon ..Be it Aditya's shadow or past or T's or anyone else ...

Trust issues will come surely but how it will unfold we have to watch

I am all for magical pull but my question is does magical pull have power when they meet real world problems? If there is no base to how they have built the trust, then will it last? Aryan has basically gone above and beyond as a friend. Still there is a part of her that doesn't trust him and she acted like a brat at times during the whole wedding track. So we haven't gotten to the part of them dealing with the insecurities of their past, relationships etc and how that has affected their trust levels. I guess the bigger question is if they trust each other enough to be vulnerable.