Imlie Written Updates and Episode Discussions 25 Feb 2022 - Page 28

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Posted: 3 years ago

And Aditya become a good guy again now he kicked Malini out of the house and won me over with more talking more lines closer to the original and seeming like he is properly into the role now so now actually doing a good job for the last few days for me not slapped fish wet lettuce anymore.


I like Gashmeer Aditya better still over Charlatan Venki Aditya as he didn't even put the effort of that Venki role into the Dark Aditya but Venki won me over as Good Guy Aditya the last few days as Aditya he is better as the good guy not the Villian with Malini version.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

Hey kranti , we all have had enough discussion on this when the episode got aired and plz go through that thread if you still want any clarification or understanding reg. the scene.

you mean the EDT got locked for review and became read only for a week after that

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

Hey kranti , we all have had enough discussion on this when the episode got aired and plz go through that thread if you still want any clarification or understanding reg. the scene.

Thanks but I don’t want to read through pages of mental gymnastics.🙏🏻😂
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Thanks but I don’t want to read through pages of mental gymnastics.🙏🏻😂

Then I request you to refrain yourself from talking about groping , restraining and other sexual contexts bcz the scene was nowhere related to that zone. Thanks in advance.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

Then I request you to refrain yourself from talking about groping , restraining and other sexual contexts bcz the scene was nowhere related to that zone. Thanks in advance.

Oh but it was! And if you have a problem with my post you are free to report.😳
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SundariP

you mean the EDT got locked for review and became read only for a week after that

Yeah sundari , discussing about the same scene with the peepz who saw what they wanted to watch without understanding the context of scene will make the discussion go worse again.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

woh bhi aisa pyar jho shiddat wala push aur pull se jagega. Aisa pyar kahan 😆

🤣🤣🤣🤣 jaagne se pehle serious patrakar se bhau paani na phek de😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Krantikari


I couldn’t stop myself from quoting this one.

Groping is literally touching someone without their consent. That’s the same thing as forcefully restraining by holding them under the chest. The female chest is a sexually suggestive area for most normal people.🤷‍♀️ You don’t have to hold someone under the chest to save them from being blown up, there are more appropriate places in the body lol.

And I must say I find it really amusing that Arylie fandom is so quick to push their female lead under the bus when they are out defenses for their devta.

This was the second reply I received that pushed Imlie under the bus. What do you expect me to say to that? Congrats I guess? On being a fan of the groper couple?😆

I couldn't stop myself from quoting this one because throwing around accusations of sexual harrasment on disliked entities are treated so innocuously when it so is not.

She literally gave you the dictionary entry for the word "groping", and you chose to ignore that.🤣

Chalo apki baat maan lete hai. Everyone should just be damned concerned to not hold someone below their chest— respectable women and judges may specify how many inches below the chest is considered not sexual— when literally an active bomb is twenty metres away from them. Who fears death in such a situation? People are obviously looking to creep a feel instead of saving their own life.

Anyhow, please specify the appropriate area to uphold a woman in a life-threatening situation from your many years of experience in rescue/evacuation operations? Aryan wasn't trained anyway

Secondly, does any court of law allow someone else to assume consent or lack thereof on someone's behalf? Has Imlie ever stopped or later objected to Aryan touching her? The arm grabs in the earlier episodes were horrible, and he got bashed by us left and right. Arm-grabbing in itself doesn't constitute sexual assault. I don't remember a time when Imlie has stopped Aryan from touching her normally.

The only time Imlie has stopped Aryan fron entering her space was when he was entering her mandir. She stopped him, and he respected that

Imlie has explicitly asked Aditya thrice to refrain from touching her and coming in close proximity with her

1. When he came in to talk to her after the mirchi eating kand.

2. When he grabbed her hand after Aryan had brought the t-house for her

3. Twice in the dooriyan episode day before yesterday.

That's not even considering when she couldn't wait to get out of the photobooth.

Imlie is not someone who's scared of reiterating her boundaries. Instead Imlie impulsively touches Aryan all the time and compels him to touch her too.

If I were to file a case against Aryan on Imlie's behalf aur woh apni chhoti hilati Hui Aryan ke gale lag jaaye toh judge toh mere discomfort ko ghaas bhi nahi dalega na?

Edited by Deltablues - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Oh but it was! And if you have a problem with my post you are free to report.😳

@bold : Then only I could say that you need to go through pages of mental gymnasticssmiley36

If I have a problem with your post then I will definitely do so 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Deltablues

I couldn't stop myself from quoting this one because throwing around accusations of sexual harrasment on disliked entities are treated so innocuously when it so is not.

She literally gave you the dictionary entry for the word "groping", and you chose to ignore that.🤣

Chalo apki baat maan lete hai. Everyone should just be damned concerned to not hold someone below their chest— respectable women and judges may specify how many inches below the chest is considered not sexual— when literally an active bomb is twenty metres away from them. Who fears death in such a situation? People are obviously looking to creep a feel instead of saving their own life.

Anyhow, please specify the appropriate area to uphold a woman in a life-threatening situation from your many years of experience in rescue/evacuation operations? Aryan wasn't trained anyway

Secondly, does any court of law allow someone else to assume consent or lack thereof on someone's behalf? Has Imlie ever stopped or later objected to Aryan touching her? The arm grabs in the earlier episodes were horrible, and he got bashed by us left and right. Arm-grabbing in itself doesn't constitute sexual assault.

The only time Imlie has stopped Aryan fron entering her space was when he was entering her mandir. She stopped him, and he respected that

Imlie has explicitly asked Aditya thrice to refrain from touching her and coming in close proximity with her

1. When he came in to talk to her after the mirchi eating kand.

2. When he grabbed her hand after Aryan had brought the t-house for her

3. Twice in the dooriyan episode day before yesterday.

That's not even considering when she couldn't wait to get out of the photobooth.

Imlie is not someone who's scared of reiterating her boundaries. Instead Imlie impulsively touches Aryan all the time and compels him to touch her too.

If I were to file a case against Aryan on Imlie's behalf aur woh apni chhoti hilati Hui Aryan ke gale lag jaaye toh judge toh mere discomfort ko ghaas bhi nahi dalega na?

No I didn't. This was the definition provided by her: "fondle (someone) for sexual pleasure roughly or clumsily, or without the person's consent."


See the 'without the person's consent' part?


Not being trained does not give him an excuse to touch her inappropriately. He could have grabbed her arms, legs, anything (besides the sexual areas of the body) and that would be fine. But he chose to restrain her by holding her under the chest which looked inappropriate not just to me but neutral viewers like my mom who are not even fans of anyone.


She was objecting him in that restraining scene itself. It didn't stop him from restraining her. But of course, you'd say that because of the life-threatening situation, wouldn't you? Situation or context is no excuse for touching someone inappropriately, full stop. It's not like Imlie's arms or legs or were amputated or something.


I guess it really is a matter of perspectives but it looked wholly inappropriate between a boss and employee. They weren't a couple yet for him to hold her with such familiarity.


Regarding filing a case, I know it is tricky to assume consent on someone else's behalf, especially women. Therefore, I think it is best practice for men to ask for consent from women explicitly (if not in a relationship or married). A boss (no matter how fond of employee) never touches his employee like that without risking facing a lawsuit.

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