From being my favourite show to my most disliked show - Page 8

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I hv lost any respect or liking I had left for Adi as a character.

He keeps shifting everything on someone else's shoulders everytime. And man some guys this guy has to tell Malini dt she isn't is wife. Fine you don't love her ,fine you love your second wife and want to live wid her but goddammit you married her willfully and legally. How dare you say she isn't your wife ?!!! Have some character or substance Aditya. Can't believe I liked him so much.

Anyways glad Malini is out of this shit hole and unlike everyone assumed.......she accepted the truth and didn't even blame or got angry on anyone. She can handle the truth. Proven.

Malini was able to handle the truth this time because she could feel it...she could feel the change in the relationship. Pehle jaisa nahi where one day suddenly Aditya Tripathi said that he was forcefully wedded to Imlie.

My grudge against him is he should have tried harder...Malini fainted but he could have told it to her family, his family, annulled the forced wedding or atleast postponed the wedding for a year.

His first marriage was done forcefully so he couldn't do anything Abt it but second one toh apne choice se kar raha tha na ...vaha par toh apni chala sakta tha na but bande se vo nahi hua....Most forum members say negative things Abt Malini but she isn't so negative or fragile to deserve such a mess in her life.

Originally posted by: deepzz

Malini was able to handle the truth this time because she could feel it...she could feel the change in the relationship. Pehle jaisa nahi where one day suddenly Aditya Tripathi said that he was forcefully wedded to Imlie.

My grudge against him is he should have tried harder...Malini fainted but he could have told it to her family, his family, annulled the forced wedding or atleast postponed the wedding for a year.

His first marriage was done forcefully so he couldn't do anything Abt it but second one toh apne choice se kar raha tha na ...vaha par toh apni chala sakta tha na but bande se vo nahi hua....Most forum members say negative things Abt Malini but she isn't so negative or fragile to deserve such a mess in her life.

If malini's health was not good that time, he could borrowed Time for marriage making any reason. But no, he had to dump Malini.. I will watch another 2 episodes to see how malini will handle this mess.

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon girls !!!

Agree with most of what is said on the main post, my friend. Except that it is never my favorite show, just recently came across totally in the fluke. I don't think I would be able to watch for too long, unless they keep up with Malini's character. So far she is the only understandable character in the show for me.

I am not going to lie, Adi guy and young Imli pairing gives me the worst kind of creeps🤢...... like an uncle/niece kind of creeps... and more. I will leave it at that.

Just happened to watch today's show, had to put in my 2 cents here. The whole episode was a grand pity party to Imli with the actions of Anu, running commentary of monologues by Imli. This is what I felt honestly. I am not sure why Imli got praised with folded hands and repentance by Adi guy's dad... because she outed Adi's brother's illness? 3 wickets down. Rupi's barbed taunts at the family, again I have no clue what she has against Malini and family. Looks like 3 wickets down for Team Imlie. They are setting up both the ladies of the house who are mocking Imlie to fall at Imli's feet soon.

And Imli's running monologues are all over the place where she threw herself a grand pity party and took a moral high road. She agonized about vaada's Adi guy forgot ( I thought the vaada's are futile in a forced atrocity )to how he went back to Malini to how the family is striving to bring Adi and Mailini together to how she never claimed her " whatever haq" in order to save Mailini from heartbreak👎🏼. She even packaged atrocities on her and her mother as a generic clash between city bred people and villagers and between rich and poor. I think the writers are trying very hard to disguise the unpalatable Adi, Imli equation as rich/poor class conflict with big bad Anu as a devil to gain all sympathy for Imli. While there may be an undertone of poverty as a flash point, Anu's contention is not JUST that. Is it? It is more to do with her suspicion of having an unwanted interruption in her daughter's marital life.

Also, does Anu know that Imli's mom is Dev guy's fancy several years ago? She talks as if she knows and has an axe to grind against Imli rather than just her unwanted presence in Adi/ Malini's marriage? The physical abuse is just way below the belt that the writers could have done without. Why would Imli take that abuse from a Jane Doe, Anu? If Imli is this fierce, upright character, yadaa, yadaa, yadaa, WHY ? Why does she care to put up with her husband's second wife's😡👎🏼 mom? I hate mouthing this.....🤢

Imli blaming city bred people, rich people for her predicament, another cleverly connived pathos concocted by writers. Blame the two guys and Imli herself for her situation. That sorry dad who acts like a saint, who took responsibility of her now and brought her into his home. Doesn't he know what his wife's behavior is towards Imli? The cowardly lover/husband or whoever, who is claiming great responsibility of her because her amma gave him such responsibility. Doesn't he know how Anu would behave with any intrusions into her daughter's life?

Ewwwww...... Adi guy saying " Imli pehli patni"🤬🤢 very casually with a hint of ridicule against Malini as he says " you are not a wife".👎🏼 Shame on him, shame on makers for bringing this line with that ridicule to a girl who has gone through a well publicized marriage with him. Especially her culprit saying those things to her face with no shame, guilt or remorse as a one upmanship. The guy doesn't even treat her as an acquaintance when he throws that line at her face as a comeback for her threat of " I will drag your behind to court". The guy's behavior is appalling, in a hurry to get rid of her. There is no compassion to what he is putting her through.

I am only interested in how Malini will handle this. If she deals with fury or bitterness, I will understand her completely. More power to her🤗

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon girls !!!

Agree with most of what is said on the main post, my friend. Except that it is never my favorite show, just recently came across totally in the fluke. I don't think I would be able to watch for too long, unless they keep up with Malini's character. So far she is the only understandable character in the show for me.

I am not going to lie, Adi guy and young Imli pairing gives me the worst kind of creeps🤢...... like an uncle/niece kind of creeps... and more. I will leave it at that.

Just happened to watch today's show, had to put in my 2 cents here. The whole episode was a grand pity party to Imli with the actions of Anu, running commentary of monologues by Imli. This is what I felt honestly. I am not sure why Imli got praised with folded hands and repentance by Adi guy's dad... because she outed Adi's brother's illness? 3 wickets down. Rupi's barbed taunts at the family, again I have no clue what she has against Malini and family. Looks like 3 wickets down for Team Imlie. They are setting up both the ladies of the house who are mocking Imlie to fall at Imli's feet soon.

And Imli's running monologues are all over the place where she threw herself a grand pity party and took a moral high road. She agonized about vaada's Adi guy forgot ( I thought the vaada's are futile in a forced atrocity )to how he went back to Malini to how the family is striving to bring Adi and Mailini together to how she never claimed her " whatever haq" in order to save Mailini from heartbreak👎🏼. She even packaged atrocities on her and her mother as a generic clash between city bred people and villagers and between rich and poor. I think the writers are trying very hard to disguise the unpalatable Adi, Imli equation as rich/poor class conflict with big bad Anu as a devil to gain all sympathy for Imli. While there may be an undertone of poverty as a flash point, Anu's contention is not JUST that. Is it? It is more to do with her suspicion of having an unwanted interruption in her daughter's marital life.

Also, does Anu know that Imli's mom is Dev guy's fancy several years ago? She talks as if she knows and has an axe to grind against Imli rather than just her unwanted presence in Adi/ Malini's marriage? The physical abuse is just way below the belt that the writers could have done without. Why would Imli take that abuse from a Jane Doe, Anu? If Imli is this fierce, upright character, yadaa, yadaa, yadaa, WHY ? Why does she care to put up with her husband's second wife's😡👎🏼 mom? I hate mouthing this.....🤢

Imli blaming city bred people, rich people for her predicament, another cleverly connived pathos concocted by writers. Blame the two guys and Imli herself for her situation. That sorry dad who acts like a saint, who took responsibility of her now and brought her into his home. Doesn't he know what his wife's behavior is towards Imli? The cowardly lover/husband or whoever, who is claiming great responsibility of her because her amma gave him such responsibility. Doesn't he know how Anu would behave with any intrusions into her daughter's life?

Ewwwww...... Adi guy saying " Imli pehli patni"🤬🤢 very casually with a hint of ridicule against Malini as he says " you are not a wife".👎🏼 Shame on him, shame on makers for bringing this line with that ridicule to a girl who has gone through a well publicized marriage with him. Especially her culprit saying those things to her face with no shame, guilt or remorse as a one upmanship. The guy doesn't even treat her as an acquaintance when he throws that line at her face as a comeback for her threat of " I will drag your behind to court". The guy's behavior is appalling, in a hurry to get rid of her. There is no compassion to what he is putting her through.

I am only interested in how Malini will handle this. If she deals with fury or bitterness, I will understand her completely. More power to her🤗

Very well written. And

The worst thing about ADI is he is not even guilty.

i really want to frame this...so beautifully worded...i am actually surprised that it got around 40 likes... wow...that is amazing considerering the toxic hate malini gets here.

this serial got the same response from bengali audiences too...in 2011.there were people who just sympathised with malini... poor malini till her death faced nothing but deciet...no hopes that they will improve anything this time. I DECIDED that i wil not watch it, just wanted to see how malini is told the truth. NOW THIS CHAPTER IS OVER FOR ME. always bitterness and confusion that how easily MEN succumb to temptations and how easy it is for them to ut all emotional ties...that really hurts. if they get a gorgeous lead for malini, i might probably have a peek here and there..forward all adilie scenes..

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I wanted to post this somewhere or atleast say it out aloud. I don't why. May be to make myself feel a bit better. Maybe bcz forums has always been a place I come to when I get involved in a show more than required.

When the show started....I instantly fell in love wid the concept and the characters. I loved Imlie, Aditya and Malini. Yes all three of them . But with how the storyline has been going.......I have to say the show has disappointed me on various levels.....so much so that I have actually stopped watching the show entirely. Just see updates these days.

Initially I was able to relate to all three of the characters. I understood why Imlie kept insisting on a marriage that was forced on the two. I understood the values and upbringing she had coming from a village of traditional people and having no father figure in life. I loved her enthusiasm and her determination to do something in life.

As for Aditya. Though I found it wrong that he didn't tell anyone abt his first marriage but still I could relate to him. Bcz had I been in a situation like dt .......I would hv broken off the marriage the first chance I got. Bcz marriage should be a choice .

As for Malini. Considering she never had any idea abt all this. There was nothing to fault. Yes she is fragile. So are a lot of people but when time comes they deserved the truth. How they handle it ..... shouldn't be the reason for hiding the truth from them and blindingly leading them on.

To be honest I liked how Adi started getting feelings for Imlie. But after the last village track ......the way the story has been handled has made me feel disgust and anger for both Aditya and Imlie.

Aditya knew he was married and insisted on marrying Malini inspite of it all bcz he couldn't handle being forcefully married to a village girl. So he did what he wished. And for that one moment when his conscience came back and he decided to tell the truth. .......Imlie stopped him. So where was Malini's fault in all the whole thing ? Did anyone even ask her ? Ws she even given an opportunity to make an informed decision for her whole life. All she knew was she was marrying the love of her life who she had been dating for 7 yrs.

And now Aditya wants to break off his marriage wid Malini. I am honestly fine wid dt too. But can he just shamelessly stop romancing Malini's own step sister in his house behind her back. ??? Don't people feel any sense of guilt for cheating on their partners who they married of their own free will.

Now the most important thing that had made me stop watching the show ..... Imlie. I adored Imlie so so much. Loved her. But not anymore. It's not bcz Adi chooses her over Malini. It's bcz on one hand Imlie pretends to care for Malini and doesn't want to hurt her but on the other hand she doesn't back out from romancing wid Adi. Why does she have to put the sindoor now when she didn't do it for so long in their house. She keeps saying she cares for Malini but all she is doing is causing her pain. It would be so much better if she would just let Adi tell Malini the truth. But no she refuses to do so. More so bcz she doesn't want people to hate or dislike her......not bcz she cares for Malini. Truth may hurt Malini but it will be better than what is happening ryt now. Ruining someone's life on the pretext of not wanting to ruin their life is what has made me hate Imlie's character. Now her niceness feels fake. Truth has its consequences and Imlie should be prepared to face dt. If she wants her sindoor and her husband......she should let Adi tell the truth or stop whatever she is doing wid Adi .

Anyways I had to say it somewhere. So here it is. How much I hv studied this forum I know 99% people here will not like the post bcz people just want to see the leads romance. .......at whtver cost dt may be. No issues wid dt.

Just don't understand the unnecessary bashing of Malini I see here. That character has done nothing wrong to anyone and yet she is suffering bcz of two very selfish people.

Originally posted by: chullbulli

i really want to frame this...so beautifully worded...i am actually surprised that it got around 40 likes... wow...that is amazing considerering the toxic hate malini gets here.

this serial got the same response from bengali audiences too...in 2011.there were people who just sympathised with malini... poor malini till her death faced nothing but deciet...no hopes that they will improve anything this time. I DECIDED that i wil not watch it, just wanted to see how malini is told the truth. NOW THIS CHAPTER IS OVER FOR ME. always bitterness and confusion that how easily MEN succumb to temptations and how easy it is for them to ut all emotional ties...that really hurts. if they get a gorgeous lead for malini, i might probably have a peek here and there..forward all adilie scenes..

@ Bold.... I second these two sentiments, my friend.

Oh teri ! what did they do with Malini yesterday. For all the grief she got from everybody as a non-decider, faint hearted and what not, how in the span of 20 min did she fall off from being a "wife to a dusri aurat" in her own words. HOW THE HELL CAN one call themselves that, when she is in the dark for the whole time? This sets the tone of how this show is going to go🤬

Why is she not hopping mad? Why isn't she not raking the cheater guy on hot coals? Why is she soo understanding of cheater-Imli equation to the point that whatever she got for whatever amount of time is at the mercy of Imli😡 These writers have horrid minds to even have a cheated woman mouth those words. Truly heartless of the people who conceptualized that to be so lenient towards Adi guy and Imli. Is it so easy to say, I didn't think my 1st wedding was legal ( not my words, gairkanooni in that guy's own ) so I married you. Now, I want to call the gairkanooni wedding authentic, because I seem to like/love that teenager better and therefore I decide that my wedding with you is now illegal, null and void😡🤬and your status is " zero, not a wife" in my life. Warped sense of justice to a young girl on whom an atrocity was committed by her tribe. How easy it is to say " I fell in love, I am not at fault" to the face of a person you made promises to up to the moon🤢 and we are expected to lap it up with Kya karein, ho jaata toh ho jaata👎🏼

I have no in depth knowledge of the Indian law, but really, Malini has no recourse against the cheater guy? She just retreats into the shadows silently just because the guy says " guess what ! cheekho, chillao, jo karna karo, truth is you are not the wife". I already have a wife before you, and I will disclose this fact when I feel like to you. If the other character is not interesting, I would never have disclosed this fact to you. I can't imagine my country's law to be so heartless😡 Stupid writers with twisted minds☢️

I expected violence from Malini, spacing herself from the cheater. Why, oh why would she go along with him in the car? Doesn't she need some time for herself after that devastation? The last few minutes just killed off any expectations, when Malini herself sounded so remorseful for her coming " in between" the destined love birds, how she got her great married life ( non ) in charity from Imli. Laughable.☢️ I too don't think there is anything left in the show anymore. I certainly am not in the mood to watch the older guy-teenager equation. Gives me creeps.......🤢

Originally posted by: mili9

@ Bold.... I second these two sentiments, my friend.

Oh teri ! what did they do with Malini yesterday. For all the grief she got from everybody as a non-decider, faint hearted and what not, how in the span of 20 min did she fall off from being a "wife to a dusri aurat" in her own words. HOW THE HELL CAN one call themselves that, when she is in the dark for the whole time? This sets the tone of how this show is going to go🤬

Why is she not hopping mad? Why isn't she not raking the cheater guy on hot coals? Why is she soo understanding of cheater-Imli equation to the point that whatever she got for whatever amount of time is at the mercy of Imli😡 These writers have horrid minds to even have a cheated woman mouth those words. Truly heartless of the people who conceptualized that to be so lenient towards Adi guy and Imli. Is it so easy to say, I didn't think my 1st wedding was legal ( not my words, gairkanooni in that guy's own ) so I married you. Now, I want to call the gairkanooni wedding authentic, because I seem to like/love that teenager better and therefore I decide that my wedding with you is now illegal, null and void😡🤬and your status is " zero, not a wife" in my life. Warped sense of justice to a young girl on whom an atrocity was committed by her tribe. How easy it is to say " I fell in love, I am not at fault" to the face of a person you made promises to up to the moon🤢 and we are expected to lap it up with Kya karein, ho jaata toh ho jaata👎🏼

I have no in depth knowledge of the Indian law, but really, Malini has no recourse against the cheater guy? She just retreats into the shadows silently just because the guy says " guess what ! cheekho, chillao, jo karna karo, truth is you are not the wife". I already have a wife before you, and I will disclose this fact when I feel like to you. If the other character is not interesting, I would never have disclosed this fact to you. I can't imagine my country's law to be so heartless😡 Stupid writers with twisted minds☢️

I expected violence from Malini, spacing herself from the cheater. Why, oh why would she go along with him in the car? Doesn't she need some time for herself after that devastation? The last few minutes just killed off any expectations, when Malini herself sounded so remorseful for her coming " in between" the destined love birds, how she got her great married life ( non ) in charity from Imli. Laughable.☢️ I too don't think there is anything left in the show anymore. I certainly am not in the mood to watch the older guy-teenager equation. Gives me creeps.......🤢

Originally posted by: mili9

@ Bold.... I second these two sentiments, my friend.

Oh teri ! what did they do with Malini yesterday. For all the grief she got from everybody as a non-decider, faint hearted and what not, how in the span of 20 min did she fall off from being a "wife to a dusri aurat" in her own words. HOW THE HELL CAN one call themselves that, when she is in the dark for the whole time? This sets the tone of how this show is going to go🤬

Why is she not hopping mad? Why isn't she not raking the cheater guy on hot coals? Why is she soo understanding of cheater-Imli equation to the point that whatever she got for whatever amount of time is at the mercy of Imli😡 These writers have horrid minds to even have a cheated woman mouth those words. Truly heartless of the people who conceptualized that to be so lenient towards Adi guy and Imli. Is it so easy to say, I didn't think my 1st wedding was legal ( not my words, gairkanooni in that guy's own ) so I married you. Now, I want to call the gairkanooni wedding authentic, because I seem to like/love that teenager better and therefore I decide that my wedding with you is now illegal, null and void😡🤬and your status is " zero, not a wife" in my life. Warped sense of justice to a young girl on whom an atrocity was committed by her tribe. How easy it is to say " I fell in love, I am not at fault" to the face of a person you made promises to up to the moon🤢 and we are expected to lap it up with Kya karein, ho jaata toh ho jaata👎🏼

I have no in depth knowledge of the Indian law, but really, Malini has no recourse against the cheater guy? She just retreats into the shadows silently just because the guy says " guess what ! cheekho, chillao, jo karna karo, truth is you are not the wife". I already have a wife before you, and I will disclose this fact when I feel like to you. If the other character is not interesting, I would never have disclosed this fact to you. I can't imagine my country's law to be so heartless😡 Stupid writers with twisted minds☢️

I expected violence from Malini, spacing herself from the cheater. Why, oh why would she go along with him in the car? Doesn't she need some time for herself after that devastation? The last few minutes just killed off any expectations, when Malini herself sounded so remorseful for her coming " in between" the destined love birds, how she got her great married life ( non ) in charity from Imli. Laughable.☢️ I too don't think there is anything left in the show anymore. I certainly am not in the mood to watch the older guy-teenager equation. Gives me creeps.......🤢

Same thought came in my mind. This is how makers justified cheater. But how dare they justify like this. I wanted Malini kick his butts n move away. So, this is end for me.

please make a gif and i will use it as my siggy....🤣the only miserable person in the entire show is him... worse than vanraaj... at least vanraaj is repenting...but aditya ...anyways i don't even care...just want malini to have a dashing one now..

Originally posted by: Peonies

TM - I agree with every word. Thanks for coming to the forum and writing down all my feelings about this show so eloquently!

I have stopped watching because I can not stomach Aditiya and Imlie together.

Maybe when Malini is completely out of the picture, Aditiya's romance with 19-year old Imilie will not be so pukeworthy - still pukeworthy but a little less. 🤣

Until then, I will be reading updates until we get the scene where Satyakam thrashes Aditiya. I will be tuning in then to watch that scene in repeat mode! 🤣

Originally posted by: chullbulli

please make a gif and i will use it as my siggy....🤣the only miserable person in the entire show is him... worse than vanraaj... at least vanraaj is repenting...but aditya ...anyways i don't even care...just want malini to have a dashing one now..

Edited by DT...but adi how dare these writers reduce malini to a freaking doosri aurat. Just for the sake of pukeworthy adilie romance they want shove down our throats such a regressive plotline. Adi doesn't even have an iota of shame that he destroyed malinis life knowingly .while he wants to romance a 19 year old. All this he gave an explanation HUM BADAL GAYE. seriously of this show promotes graphic violence...malini should have given him a tubelight then and there. Just done with this disgusting storyline.