From being my favourite show to my most disliked show - Page 5

Originally posted by: rhondasa

Funniest thing is people villainizing Malini for her reaction to Aditya's unfaithfulness, while Aditya gets a free pass. She is the victim here. When will society stop blaming women for the husbands action? How is she in fault for his philandering and lies.

No one is villanizing malini and blaming Its how u look at it. and not only women get cheated. Men as well do ?? Not referring to the show alone but in real life.

These victims move on no matter how difficult their situation is . They dont live in a delusional world.

Once a woman realises her husband is cheating on her she dont live with him under the same roof anymore. get the divorce papers ready sign it and finish it once and for all.

Malini could have done that. Relieve herself from that painful relationship. But no. She still keeping hopes when he has showed the signs of keeping his distance from her.

If she wants she can take up legal action against aditya by finding out the truth behind aditya imlie relationship. Dig infornation. In real life this happens .

But this is reel. Fictional. So just chill

Originally posted by: Aniash

No one is villanizing malini and blaming Its how u look at it. and not only women get cheated. Men as well do ?? Not referring to the show alone but in real life.

These victims move on no matter how difficult their situation is . They dont live in a delusional world.

Once a woman realises her husband is cheating on her she dont live with him under the same roof anymore. get the divorce papers ready sign it and finish it once and for all.

Malini could have done that. Relieve herself from that painful relationship. But no. She still keeping hopes when he has showed the signs of keeping his distance from her.

If she wants she can take up legal action against aditya by finding out the truth behind aditya imlie relationship. Dig infornation. In real life this happens .

But this is reel. Fictional. So just chill

I just hv one question.

Why is everyone expecting Malini to just jump on the divorce train widout even hearing the full truth and getting at the least an apology for the mental trauma she went through ?

But when same thing was happening wid Imlie......everyone was okay wid her still holding on to her relationship , her sindoor , her marriage .......when her marriage was forced on somebody and dt somebody willfully married someone else. Still everyone seemed okay wid the fact that Imlie ws nowhere ready to move on. Even Aditya in the beginning told her a thousand times to move on ........but she blatantly said she won't. She was ready to give up on everything else but not her forceful marriage.

Why is it okay for Imlie to hold on to false hopes but the same leniency is not shown to Malini ? Marriage means the same to everyone........whether you are born in a big city or a village. Just bcz Imlie was born in a village her beliefs are claimed to be stronger and just bcz Malini is a city girl......she is just expected to move on instantly and start a new life. It is a divorce not a break up.

Hypocrisy.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Honestly I hv no idea why you wrote this here. My post was certainly not about Malini. Never said she is flawless. I just said she is innocent in the whole drama. Dts all.

Also nowhere did I say Imlie is unrealistic. Not once. Yes people like her exist. Never denied dt. And now after today's promo. I find her character even more realistic. She herself says she expected Adi to not go back to Malini but on the exterior she kept saying she wanted Adi to stay wid Malini. Hence proving my point that all dt she said for Malini was never a wholehearted gesture. She ws just fooling everyone including Malini and herself by living in denial dt she chose Malini over her own happiness. Dt was my point. I don't hv issue wid how forgiving and happy go lucky she is . Nope not my problm at all.

Lastly I don't find Malini classist or manipulative . When you are born and brought up in certain environment , your sense of living becomes dt way. But she isn't like you choose to describe her. Yes she may not actually know dt Imlie is the reason of her martial problems but somewhere she had the seed of mistrust put into her against Imlie. And abt the whole sindoor drama Imlie in literal sense stole Malini's sindoor that she herself gifted her. I would freak out and scream at a person if dt unmarried person one day decided to take away my vermilion and applying it on her forehead. The person has to be either insane or hiding something and not everybody can handle liars. I certainly can't . Not one bit , not for one moment.

And sorry maybe you haven't met people like Malini in real life who are actually good but I have.

And yes whether or not Adi loved Malini , he decided to marry her. Now it is being made to look like Adi never loved Malini.....just to make the story more Adili favouring. But in the initial episodes he did love Malini. He cared for a lot. And he couldn't wait to get close wid Malini after their marriage. What if he had got that chance and they had been intimate wid each other when he wanted to. What if that had happened and den he had realised he has fallen for Imlie now ??? Would you guys still say dt Adi and Imlie are ryt ? Dt yes love can happen at any moment and it's okay to just go behind your wife and romance all you want wid another lady ?

Did you even read the disclaimer at the top? 🤣

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I just hv one question.

Why is everyone expecting Malini to just jump on the divorce train widout even hearing the full truth and getting at the least an apology for the mental trauma she went through ?

But when same thing was happening wid Imlie......everyone was okay wid her still holding on to her relationship , her sindoor , her marriage .......when her marriage was forced on somebody and dt somebody willfully married someone else. Still everyone seemed okay wid the fact that Imlie ws nowhere ready to move on. Even Aditya in the beginning told her a thousand times to move on ........but she blatantly said she won't. She was ready to give up on everything else but not her forceful marriage.

Why is it okay for Imlie to hold on to false hopes but the same leniency is not shown to Malini ? Marriage means the same to everyone........whether you are born in a big city or a village. Just bcz Imlie was born in a village her beliefs are claimed to be stronger and just bcz Malini is a city girl......she is just expected to move on instantly and start a new life. It is a divorce not a break up.

Hypocrisy.

Totally.....

100% agree with you

Originally posted by: abha981

Finally she accepts she indeed was a naukarani in t house and malini the bahurani. Bahurani ke husband ke saath naukraani romancing.when i told this..i got brickbats ...now dearest imli is saying same. Also tripathi got rid of her at the first mauka as she is just a naukarani and they chose their bahurani.

Well said..true that

Imli's mask is finally off....she pretended to be Malini's well wisher for so long....and secretly pining for her husband

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Did you even read the disclaimer at the top? 🤣

Yes I did

And still I thought it would hv atleast some lil relevance or something related to the post. But it didn't. So I asked why did you even put it here ?

Bcz I don't hv problem wid every aspect of the story . So I don't get the long preaching post on my topic .So even it's a copy paste it should be meaningful in relation to the given topic.....which it isn't.

If you don't hv anything to say related to the post.......ders no point posting here at all.

I knew it was a matter of time before more and more people understood how disgusting this show is. Imlie snd Aditya are absolutely intolerable. Morals are morals they have to be valued in TV shows. Show someone as villain and show wrong morals is OK. Show someone as hero with with morals is not acceptable.

100% agree. I now care for only Malini's life and her happiness. I really hope she is able to move on and create a good future for herself (and we get to see that in this show). And leave the two cheaters behind.

Today's episode was like a tight slap on adilie and the wierd justifications for this fiasco. Malini rightly pointed out in to the point tone and adi being the cheater and spineless he is giving bahana of amma of why he went. Beta amma kahan gayi thi jab malini se shaadi ki thi and were treating imlie like dirt.

Tripathis acting finally like some sane people who question and giving the cheaters their due. Even if they come to know first wife wala thing...how adilie explain this that first adi didn't love imlie after marriage with malini he developed feelings for imlie...which is no short of cheating and ema. They are not going to be too kind to these cheaters, all that beti jaap by tripathis was so so fake. Beti jaisi hai but pehli fursat mein uthaka bahar.

Mahaan imlie ji repeating the same mistake again..coming tripathi house unannounced giving opportunity to anu and tripathis to blame her. Bhai phone bhi th kar sakti thi.

Imli also has double minds.. first tells adi go and then wondering kahan gaya. This two minds have wreaked someone else's life. When will these cheaters understand this.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I just hv one question.

Why is everyone expecting Malini to just jump on the divorce train widout even hearing the full truth and getting at the least an apology for the mental trauma she went through ?

But when same thing was happening wid Imlie......everyone was okay wid her still holding on to her relationship , her sindoor , her marriage .......when her marriage was forced on somebody and dt somebody willfully married someone else. Still everyone seemed okay wid the fact that Imlie ws nowhere ready to move on. Even Aditya in the beginning told her a thousand times to move on ........but she blatantly said she won't. She was ready to give up on everything else but not her forceful marriage.

Why is it okay for Imlie to hold on to false hopes but the same leniency is not shown to Malini ? Marriage means the same to everyone........whether you are born in a big city or a village. Just bcz Imlie was born in a village her beliefs are claimed to be stronger and just bcz Malini is a city girl......she is just expected to move on instantly and start a new life. It is a divorce not a break up.

Hypocrisy.

Your MAlini character is unstable enough to attempt suicide without knowing the full truth - divorce is a much more palatable option....pleeease what are you defending?