From being my favourite show to my most disliked show

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I wanted to post this somewhere or atleast say it out aloud. I don't why. May be to make myself feel a bit better. Maybe bcz forums has always been a place I come to when I get involved in a show more than required.

When the show started....I instantly fell in love wid the concept and the characters. I loved Imlie, Aditya and Malini. Yes all three of them . But with how the storyline has been going.......I have to say the show has disappointed me on various levels.....so much so that I have actually stopped watching the show entirely. Just see updates these days.

Initially I was able to relate to all three of the characters. I understood why Imlie kept insisting on a marriage that was forced on the two. I understood the values and upbringing she had coming from a village of traditional people and having no father figure in life. I loved her enthusiasm and her determination to do something in life.

As for Aditya. Though I found it wrong that he didn't tell anyone abt his first marriage but still I could relate to him. Bcz had I been in a situation like dt .......I would hv broken off the marriage the first chance I got. Bcz marriage should be a choice .

As for Malini. Considering she never had any idea abt all this. There was nothing to fault. Yes she is fragile. So are a lot of people but when time comes they deserved the truth. How they handle it ..... shouldn't be the reason for hiding the truth from them and blindingly leading them on.

To be honest I liked how Adi started getting feelings for Imlie. But after the last village track ......the way the story has been handled has made me feel disgust and anger for both Aditya and Imlie.

Aditya knew he was married and insisted on marrying Malini inspite of it all bcz he couldn't handle being forcefully married to a village girl. So he did what he wished. And for that one moment when his conscience came back and he decided to tell the truth. .......Imlie stopped him. So where was Malini's fault in all the whole thing ? Did anyone even ask her ? Ws she even given an opportunity to make an informed decision for her whole life. All she knew was she was marrying the love of her life who she had been dating for 7 yrs.

And now Aditya wants to break off his marriage wid Malini. I am honestly fine wid dt too. But can he just shamelessly stop romancing Malini's own step sister in his house behind her back. ??? Don't people feel any sense of guilt for cheating on their partners who they married of their own free will.

Now the most important thing that had made me stop watching the show ..... Imlie. I adored Imlie so so much. Loved her. But not anymore. It's not bcz Adi chooses her over Malini. It's bcz on one hand Imlie pretends to care for Malini and doesn't want to hurt her but on the other hand she doesn't back out from romancing wid Adi. Why does she have to put the sindoor now when she didn't do it for so long in their house. She keeps saying she cares for Malini but all she is doing is causing her pain. It would be so much better if she would just let Adi tell Malini the truth. But no she refuses to do so. More so bcz she doesn't want people to hate or dislike her......not bcz she cares for Malini. Truth may hurt Malini but it will be better than what is happening ryt now. Ruining someone's life on the pretext of not wanting to ruin their life is what has made me hate Imlie's character. Now her niceness feels fake. Truth has its consequences and Imlie should be prepared to face dt. If she wants her sindoor and her husband......she should let Adi tell the truth or stop whatever she is doing wid Adi .

Anyways I had to say it somewhere. So here it is. How much I hv studied this forum I know 99% people here will not like the post bcz people just want to see the leads romance. .......at whtver cost dt may be. No issues wid dt.

Just don't understand the unnecessary bashing of Malini I see here. That character has done nothing wrong to anyone and yet she is suffering bcz of two very selfish people.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Edited by DT as questioning anyone on this forum for expressing their opinions will not be tolerated

However!

First, reading WU is NOT enough! Sometimes it is misleading ! The emotions what actor put to the show is all missing! So how could anyone judge base on a HALF TRUTH! half truth is a second name of misunderstanding!


Second! Adili ROMANCE NEVER HAPPEND! Ppl just be excited seeing them in one frame! The dark, the candle lighe, the soft tune, gave romance feel, but it was not! Just HAND HOLDING and him trying to comfort here! His jhelee! HIS WIFE!


Actually, I feel sorry for him, having two wives and can't romance any of them 😂 what hand holding will give him anyway?


Third, sindoor is her HAQ , a gift after so many days of denial her own husband had gave her, and she accept it from him as a dear gift! So why she will gave up on this time thing too just to satisfy DD ! She already gave her her husband, so why is it hard for ppl to just accept her believe! The sindoor is enough for her, she still didnt give BS the haq on her, she still didnt want to claim her haq in him while he offer again and again, insisting on him to just make DD happy! It is not her fault BS can't keep DD happy, It is not her fault that BS just realize he never loved DD, Its not her fault BS fall for her!


She didnt make any thing to lead him her way, never once! Hence, he is the one who was drawn to her since his first trip to PD! She is charming it is not her fault!


I will not talk a bout Millani, but telling that imlie is manipulative, is just crack me down!

Edited by braveheartdoc - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Aditya as a character is pukeworthy and in this forum people glorify him.

Cheating is CHEATING for God's sake and what Aditya is doing - is cheating.

There's no justification.

You can hate Malini but that doesn’t compensate for Adity's horrible action.

Once a cheater always a cheater

He would do the same with Imlie too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Aditya is ready to romance Imlie but she is the one who is stopping him from that so he is not to b blamed and his frustration is ryt.

See love can happen between two persons anytym and at any age so there is nothing wrong in Aditya but he shld hav told everything to Malini and shld hav not kept her in dark. Malini deserves for the truth much earlier tatz only the wrong and that too becoz of Imlie.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't have anything to say about Adi because according to me, he's surely at fault. Not entirely but majorly.

Imlie wearing Sindoor - I don't understand why this is being made into such a big issue everywhere! Even in the show and even in the forums.

Even though she wears sindoor, she has already told it to everyone that it's her cultural belief. Anybody who understands her character from her pov will also understand why she's wearing it and what it means to her.

Imlie never faked her love for Malini. And according to me, Malini too genuinely cared for Imlie. Their bond was one of the major reasons I started loving the show. Infact Imlie loves Malini really much . If not, she wouldn't have been trying to push Adi towards Malini and she wouldn't be afraid of losing her and the Tripathis. But please understand, Imlie is hardly 19 year old. How much restraint, maturity etc do you expect her character to have? Every time she spends even a moment with Aditya, she feels guilty about it. But just to protect him, she takes it all on her head. She has been doing this right from the beginning. She has always protected him.

And I'm not telling what's happening with Malini is right. Ofc it's not! But Imlie isn't her culprit!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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This discussion has been a lot lately. To me its just fictional. Thats all.


All three leads have flaws. None perfect


Just a brief one


Where i find the flaws ???


Aditya if couldnt tell malini at least could have told family before adini marriage they will be hurt but will work out a solution . Now he is saying those words sab ko sach bethana padega dukh hoga par waqt ke sath sab sei hojayega. These lines which he is saying now could have taken the action earlier.


Malini wants to know the truth but doesnt have the courage to listen. Pretends she is strong enough. Instead of asking directy u have another woman in ur life cooks up a story of infactuation with a college mate. Doesnt make sense. U almost took away ur life for ur husband and now u are telling him u had a soft corner for someone else. A foolishness from writers part. Are u seeing someone ? Are u cheating me ? U have another woman in ur life ? What is ur connection with imlie ? Simple. How difficult is that ?? She cant even ask him directly how is she going to face the truth? And her condition now. In a total mess. Cant think straight. Need to gather herself to be strong and try to move on.



Imlie too selfless in everything . Leave alone aditya malini tripathis even her college mates . Saving them from raging

She is too mahaan which is not ok in todays cruel world. Perhaps her upbringing. She has to understand people dont appreciate what she does for them. Only end up getting blames . For the sindoor she was emotional when aditya applied on her. Understood . After that dont apply again. U want ur husband to be happy with ur malini didi dont apply it again . Dont give him false hopes. But the main flaw in her is her being selfless. Put others happiness before u for what ? To end up getting blames only ? She knew how AC is why go to her home. Just say send me to hostel. I will be able to study well without tension.


Rite now i agree with aditya that truth has to be out . Though a little late now . Before adini marriage it had to be out. Better now than never.


But as i say its fictional. So just enjoy the show as it is if cant take a break for a while and come back when u like it



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Edited by Aniash - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Adi did tell the truth before marrying Malini - she could not handle it and he at that time thought it would never matter since he thought he was in love with her. Telling the truth would have been the right thing to do but he did not anticipate consequences, fine.

Adi needed to tell Malini - the moment he realized love for Imlie and started distancing himself consciously from Malini. It's cruel to pull away without letting the other person know. I agree. And he is an adult who got himself in this mess. I don't buy the excuse of Imlie stopping him from doing that. It's not her call. If she is living life by her belief's he should do the same.

Having said all that - he is now making amends by giving Malini time and also indirectly letting her know that he is out of the relationship. I do hope Imlie does not easily agree to Adi's proposal - so he realizes and pays for his mistakes. She also needs to consider his characteristics - that she will have to deal with later, when she gives in to their love.

Imlie needs to realize she cannot force Adi to love and stay with Malini. And Malini needs to realize - she should get out of this situation asap for herself and not care about what Adi's truth is.

This is the storyline - like it or not and was the expectation - the day I signed up to watch it and read on Wikipedia the Ishti Kutum write up. Why the surprise is what I don't get. It's a self proclaimed remake.

Edited by PPak - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Seriously ! People think others create fake ids with different names just to bring a show down! As if it is the only job on earth !! Hahaha ! Everyone knows the good and bad this show is trying to potray and people just put across their views .. the forum belongs to everyone !

Edited by Divi1301 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I wanted to post this somewhere or atleast say it out aloud. I don't why. May be to make myself feel a bit better. Maybe bcz forums has always been a place I come to when I get involved in a show more than required.

When the show started....I instantly fell in love wid the concept and the characters. I loved Imlie, Aditya and Malini. Yes all three of them . But with how the storyline has been going.......I have to say the show has disappointed me on various levels.....so much so that I have actually stopped watching the show entirely. Just see updates these days.

Initially I was able to relate to all three of the characters. I understood why Imlie kept insisting on a marriage that was forced on the two. I understood the values and upbringing she had coming from a village of traditional people and having no father figure in life. I loved her enthusiasm and her determination to do something in life.

As for Aditya. Though I found it wrong that he didn't tell anyone abt his first marriage but still I could relate to him. Bcz had I been in a situation like dt .......I would hv broken off the marriage the first chance I got. Bcz marriage should be a choice .

As for Malini. Considering she never had any idea abt all this. There was nothing to fault. Yes she is fragile. So are a lot of people but when time comes they deserved the truth. How they handle it ..... shouldn't be the reason for hiding the truth from them and blindingly leading them on.

To be honest I liked how Adi started getting feelings for Imlie. But after the last village track ......the way the story has been handled has made me feel disgust and anger for both Aditya and Imlie.

Aditya knew he was married and insisted on marrying Malini inspite of it all bcz he couldn't handle being forcefully married to a village girl. So he did what he wished. And for that one moment when his conscience came back and he decided to tell the truth. .......Imlie stopped him. So where was Malini's fault in all the whole thing ? Did anyone even ask her ? Ws she even given an opportunity to make an informed decision for her whole life. All she knew was she was marrying the love of her life who she had been dating for 7 yrs.

And now Aditya wants to break off his marriage wid Malini. I am honestly fine wid dt too. But can he just shamelessly stop romancing Malini's own step sister in his house behind her back. ??? Don't people feel any sense of guilt for cheating on their partners who they married of their own free will.

Now the most important thing that had made me stop watching the show ..... Imlie. I adored Imlie so so much. Loved her. But not anymore. It's not bcz Adi chooses her over Malini. It's bcz on one hand Imlie pretends to care for Malini and doesn't want to hurt her but on the other hand she doesn't back out from romancing wid Adi. Why does she have to put the sindoor now when she didn't do it for so long in their house. She keeps saying she cares for Malini but all she is doing is causing her pain. It would be so much better if she would just let Adi tell Malini the truth. But no she refuses to do so. More so bcz she doesn't want people to hate or dislike her......not bcz she cares for Malini. Truth may hurt Malini but it will be better than what is happening ryt now. Ruining someone's life on the pretext of not wanting to ruin their life is what has made me hate Imlie's character. Now her niceness feels fake. Truth has its consequences and Imlie should be prepared to face dt. If she wants her sindoor and her husband......she should let Adi tell the truth or stop whatever she is doing wid Adi .

Anyways I had to say it somewhere. So here it is. How much I hv studied this forum I know 99% people here will not like the post bcz people just want to see the leads romance. .......at whtver cost dt may be. No issues wid dt.

Just don't understand the unnecessary bashing of Malini I see here. That character has done nothing wrong to anyone and yet she is suffering bcz of two very selfish people.

totally agree with your words in bold .. how a person may handle the truth should not be the reason for holding back .. Aditya behaves like a 10 year old .. Imlie too, the way she was crying today when Anu was up on her .. which 19 year old behaves like that .. people can stand up to themselves by a much younger age.. how fragile Imlie actually is !


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Posted: 4 years ago
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TM - I agree with every word. Thanks for coming to the forum and writing down all my feelings about this show so eloquently!


I have stopped watching because I can not stomach Aditiya and Imlie together.

Maybe when Malini is completely out of the picture, Aditiya's romance with 19-year old Imilie will not be so pukeworthy - still pukeworthy but a little less. 🤣


Until then, I will be reading updates until we get the scene where Satyakam thrashes Aditiya. I will be tuning in then to watch that scene in repeat mode! 🤣

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