From being my favourite show to my most disliked show - Page 4

Originally posted by: Divi1301

hey !! That was not for you dear! see I noticed what happens mostly if we get our opinions Esp the negative points of the show we are immediately written off for not watching the show from beginning, reading only updates, not watching Ishti Kutum (why should we anyways!) and what not.. there are some people who think that people just come here every week with a different profile with a different agenda.. as if watching Imlie is the only thing that runs our lives..

Oho

Sorry my mistake !! Apologies !

I thought you thought I was a fake id. Got your point now though.

Originally posted by: rhondasa

Malini doesn't have the courage to hear the truth?? Really which wife will will have the courage to hear that your husband and fiancée of 7 years is married to the women posing as the house maid. He is in love with his housemaid while your 7 years is wasted probably another 7 to get over the trauma. The sheer humiliation, the betrayal. Here Aditya is unpardonable and unworthy of both the women. He had a chance to do the right thing at every turn but always ends up with feeble excuses. He is a coward and an unprincipled man and should be acknowledged as that.

I agree . I hv seen people completely breaking down after a relationship of dt long breaks . It's easier said dn done. Its eàsy to say that he didn't ever love her but did he ever made her feel dt way. I remember Adi was so eager to get close to Malini after his marriage. How was she supposed to even guess. When you hv invested so much in one person for so long .......how are just supposed to understand and move on and move away ? Of course she is scared.

Originally posted by: rhondasa

Malini doesn't have the courage to hear the truth?? Really which wife will will have the courage to hear that your husband and fiancée of 7 years is married to the women posing as the house maid. He is in love with his housemaid while your 7 years is wasted probably another 7 to get over the trauma. The sheer humiliation, the betrayal. Here Aditya is unpardonable and unworthy of both the women. He had a chance to do the right thing at every turn but always ends up with feeble excuses. He is a coward and an unprincipled man and should be acknowledged as that.

Excuse me fiancee for 7 yrs???. I thought they were just good friends and wanted to be life partners.

Engagement was before they got married.

Yes the 7 yrs were wasted coz she never understood him perfectly. In and out. She assumed everything was ok and they are made for each other. Perfect couple.

Imli hardly knew him for several mths before he could say i love u itself she already knew. And she stopped him from saying. If u could remember latest pagdandiya track.

So malini for 7 yrs couldnt see if he loves her or not. When she said she is going on a college trip he never showed any jealousy or possessiveness . This was a flashback scene of aditya when he was at pagdandhya thinking why he was not possessive for malini like imlie

So?? She couldnt see it??

He was never romantic with her not before married not after marriage. He was always blend. Even she herself has said so numerous times. ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. When we love someone truly our action

speaks more. Aditya only says i love u but his actions doesnt seem to portray his feelings so much so that he has never given her the time before marriage during the 7 yrs duration coz for him his job was first priority and malini was second. This was the reason why AC never liked him. What malini couldnt see she saw it. And this is the main reason AC was insecure. Imlie only came in later on.

If a man loves a woman dearly she will be his first priority and nothing else. Though they had been in that 7 yrs so called relationship they hardly knew each other well. And thats why they cant handle their marital issues themselves that third parties are required to solve their issues.

Aditya always says before marriage that he doesnt want to make her wait any longer for their marriage which clearly indicates that malini was th e one who wanted to settle down with him . It was her choice to marry her BEST FRIEND not LOVER. and this she has said past few episodes back that she married him coz if love was never there later on as time passes they will remain good friends and understand each other throughout their marriage life.

Same goes for aditya who married her coz she was his good friend who understood him and the other reason of course was his ego where he was forced to marry imlie.

He rushed into marrying malini which was the biggest mistake.

He tried telling her before marriage but she fainted.

HOW MANY WOMEN OUT THERE FAINTS IF THEIR BF SAYS HE GOT ANOTHER ??? No matter how many yrs in relationship.

What is the normal response??

A slap. A kick on his ass. Galiyaan . Taking an object and throwing at him. Pull his hair. Etccc

But fainting ???

This is a rare reaction

Let me share with u a practical example.

My ex collegemate had a bf of 11 yrs. Since they were in school times. Thought of getting married after graduation. Few mths before marriage he told he is seeing someone else. His colleague. So ??

What she did ??? A tight slap and walked away. She didnt faint.

Malini is fragile and that is the fact. Even in the hospital when aditya wanted to tell her the way she reacted to him he was not able to tell.

Malini if cant hear the truth can actually ask directly are u cheating on me ??? How difficult is that ?? Only 5 words.

U are right that aditya has messed up two women's lives but now when he wants to say it out and clear the air one prevents him for telling and the other cant hear him telling. So ??? Is it 100 percent his fault only ??

Imlie is not giving him the green light to be with him pushing him towards malini and malini is not able to confront him directly.

Malini defo deserves a better person. She needs to be relieved from this loveless marriage. And she is not the only one . Lots of women out there are in her situation. They take up the courage to be strong and move on.

But to do that she needs to face the truth first . If u are talking about 7 yrs of relationship there are women out there who shared longer time with their partners and they accept the fact and move on.

Malini is not accepting it. She still keeps hope that aditya will change hopes that things will be ok. When she knew its not ok. These false hopes are discouraging her to move on. Thats all.

I am not saying u are wrong but i disagree with ur post thats all. So no offense.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I can't say I disagree with any of your points.

Yes Aditya is trying to make amends . I hope he does it and not listen to Imlie this time. Truth better be out for everyone's sake.

As for Imlie I get your point. She is attracted to Aditya. I guess you can blame it on hormones . Can't argue wid dt.

Well I do dt only. Der r only a handful of shows that hv actually lived up to my expectations till the end and most are not on star plus. So I should know better by now.

I watch it for amazing acting and story telling . When I get watch some other shows, i can clearly see the difference in quality . Every actor is so genuine and the main leads don’t usually get repetitive ... the romance is so organic , it’s not like other shows where a girl falling , boy catching and eye lock happens for some 5 mins with soft Romantic music playing.. GM and ST don’t need all this to showcase romance when they are in screen.. their chemistry is so amazing !!

Iam enjoying the story so far and all the adili supporters are now actually excited to see SK bashing adi .. I mean I think this is the first show where fans are excited to see the ml getting punished for what he did ☺️

Man I can't explain the same thing again and again everyday so I'm just writing a previous response of mine here :

Disclaimer : This was originally a response to someone. So context matters.

Regarding IMLIE, I completely reject the idea that this character is unrealistic. People like this exist actually who are self-sacrificing, who are brilliant. Moreover who decides what's realistic or unrealistic? It's a subjective term so I don't understand why a character should be blamed for not upholding someone else's definition of "realistic". I think the one person who suffered the most in this situation is everything. She had to leave behind everything, face mistreatment from AC and even Adi initially. She went through all this for nothing, she deserves better

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Regarding ADI, I inherently dislike him for his flaws and I agree he's an anti-hero. He's a grey character who is selfish, sometimes manipulative too also quite callous. Despite recognising all his flaws, the audience including me still loves Adilie together, which I know isn't okay from set standards of morality. I think despite being so flawed Ad actually cares about Imlie and connects with her simplicity, ambition and her strength of character.

The marriage with Malini was the worst mistake of Aditya. Only and only Aditya. If only he didn't be selfish in that moment and spoke up.

Adi's equation with Malini is flawed, always has been so apparent from a lot of conversations and scenes which talked about their past. You can call this a bias but I think Adini would have broken up even without Imlie, they don't match. Adi looks for fierceness which he doesn't find in Malini (unfair comparison I know)

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Regarding MALINI, I will tell you outright I dislike her but not for the reasons you think. Malini is completely innocent in the wedding drama, she thought she was marrying the man who loved her(or it appeared so). Keep Imlie aside, what I gauze from all the scenes describing past is that Adi is a practical guy who didn't think about love at all, his family was pressuring him to marry someone. Malini was his good friend and he thought understanding is the key to a relationship. This is exactly what happens in real life with arranged marriages, people marry literal strangers even educated ones. Only difference here is, Malini loved Adi but Adi didn't. He just thought Malini will be suitable for him.

Her experienced real love with Imlie, no matter how wrong someone thinks the conditions were. But yes, Malini no matter she's like doesn't deserve this at all. She deserves a man who would love her that is why I want her to leave Adi.

Now regarding why I don't like Malini, (this is all independent from me liking Adilie) she's very classist. She concealed it really well because she has always been image concious. Also because Aditya likes people who are simplistic and have strong values (quite ironic I know). Imlie has been Malini's pet project. Now you would say I'm accusing her, no.

Malini never actually cared about Imlie. You must've heard white people like blacks only as victims but the moment they try to be at par with them, their superiority comes out in front. This is exactly what happened here. Malini claimed she didn't believe in class etc but the she used Imlie to vent her frustration, was jealous because she thought Adi cared for her. Mind you here she didn't know the truth but still she chose to insult Imlie for that sindoor and call her naukrani, random ladki etc. And this is just one instance.

Malini is also very manipulative. She says what she wants and then goes like koi nahi nothing happened. Maybe you haven't met manipulative people irl but that's how they behave. It's called love-bombing.

Finally, I dislike Malini but I don't think she deserved what happened to her with the marriage/troubled marriage. She didn't deserve that no girl deserves it no matter how flawed. The only logical solution is that Malini gathers her self respect and choose herself over Adi. Also if Adilie want to be together, I don't think anybody can stop them at all. Also, as an audience I would want a bright future for Imlie and Adi finally being free from all the guilt.

Originally posted by: prietyp

I watch it for amazing acting and story telling . When I get watch some other shows, i can clearly see the difference in quality . Every actor is so genuine and the main leads don’t usually get repetitive ... the romance is so organic , it’s not like other shows where a girl falling , boy catching and eye lock happens for some 5 mins with soft Romantic music playing.. GM and ST don’t need all this to showcase romance when they are in screen.. their chemistry is so amazing !!

Iam enjoying the story so far and all the adili supporters are now actually excited to see SK bashing adi .. I mean I think this is the first show where fans are excited to see the ml getting punished for what he did ☺️

Yes I completely agree. All the actors are doing a terrific. I even love the ensemble cast of Imlie. Probably the only show where I hv appreciated all the actors. I hv been a fan of the actor playing Adi since he was on a show called Anjaan. But I equally appreciate Sumbul and Mayuri. Abt the story telling.....I can't say the same. I do find clichéd romantic scenes. You don't hv to agree wid me on dt.

As for Adi getting bashed. .....well he does deserve it. So people should enjoy dt.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Man I can't explain the same thing again and again everyday so I'm just writing a previous response of mine here :

Disclaimer : This was originally a response to someone. So context matters.

Regarding IMLIE, I completely reject the idea that this character is unrealistic. People like this exist actually who are self-sacrificing, who are brilliant. Moreover who decides what's realistic or unrealistic? It's a subjective term so I don't understand why a character should be blamed for not upholding someone else's definition of "realistic". I think the one person who suffered the most in this situation is everything. She had to leave behind everything, face mistreatment from AC and even Adi initially. She went through all this for nothing, she deserves better

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Regarding ADI, I inherently dislike him for his flaws and I agree he's an anti-hero. He's a grey character who is selfish, sometimes manipulative too also quite callous. Despite recognising all his flaws, the audience including me still loves Adilie together, which I know isn't okay from set standards of morality. I think despite being so flawed Ad actually cares about Imlie and connects with her simplicity, ambition and her strength of character.

The marriage with Malini was the worst mistake of Aditya. Only and only Aditya. If only he didn't be selfish in that moment and spoke up.

Adi's equation with Malini is flawed, always has been so apparent from a lot of conversations and scenes which talked about their past. You can call this a bias but I think Adini would have broken up even without Imlie, they don't match. Adi looks for fierceness which he doesn't find in Malini (unfair comparison I know)

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Regarding MALINI, I will tell you outright I dislike her but not for the reasons you think. Malini is completely innocent in the wedding drama, she thought she was marrying the man who loved her(or it appeared so). Keep Imlie aside, what I gauze from all the scenes describing past is that Adi is a practical guy who didn't think about love at all, his family was pressuring him to marry someone. Malini was his good friend and he thought understanding is the key to a relationship. This is exactly what happens in real life with arranged marriages, people marry literal strangers even educated ones. Only difference here is, Malini loved Adi but Adi didn't. He just thought Malini will be suitable for him.

Her experienced real love with Imlie, no matter how wrong someone thinks the conditions were. But yes, Malini no matter she's like doesn't deserve this at all. She deserves a man who would love her that is why I want her to leave Adi.

Now regarding why I don't like Malini, (this is all independent from me liking Adilie) she's very classist. She concealed it really well because she has always been image concious. Also because Aditya likes people who are simplistic and have strong values (quite ironic I know). Imlie has been Malini's pet project. Now you would say I'm accusing her, no.

Malini never actually cared about Imlie. You must've heard white people like blacks only as victims but the moment they try to be at par with them, their superiority comes out in front. This is exactly what happened here. Malini claimed she didn't believe in class etc but the she used Imlie to vent her frustration, was jealous because she thought Adi cared for her. Mind you here she didn't know the truth but still she chose to insult Imlie for that sindoor and call her naukrani, random ladki etc. And this is just one instance.

Malini is also very manipulative. She says what she wants and then goes like koi nahi nothing happened. Maybe you haven't met manipulative people irl but that's how they behave. It's called love-bombing.

Finally, I dislike Malini but I don't think she deserved what happened to her with the marriage/troubled marriage. She didn't deserve that no girl deserves it no matter how flawed. The only logical solution is that Malini gathers her self respect and choose herself over Adi. Also if Adilie want to be together, I don't think anybody can stop them at all. Also, as an audience I would want a bright future for Imlie and Adi finally being free from all the guilt.

Honestly I hv no idea why you wrote this here. My post was certainly not about Malini. Never said she is flawless. I just said she is innocent in the whole drama. Dts all.

Also nowhere did I say Imlie is unrealistic. Not once. Yes people like her exist. Never denied dt. And now after today's promo. I find her character even more realistic. She herself says she expected Adi to not go back to Malini but on the exterior she kept saying she wanted Adi to stay wid Malini. Hence proving my point that all dt she said for Malini was never a wholehearted gesture. She ws just fooling everyone including Malini and herself by living in denial dt she chose Malini over her own happiness. Dt was my point. I don't hv issue wid how forgiving and happy go lucky she is . Nope not my problm at all.

Lastly I don't find Malini classist or manipulative . When you are born and brought up in certain environment , your sense of living becomes dt way. But she isn't like you choose to describe her. Yes she may not actually know dt Imlie is the reason of her martial problems but somewhere she had the seed of mistrust put into her against Imlie. And abt the whole sindoor drama Imlie in literal sense stole Malini's sindoor that she herself gifted her. I would freak out and scream at a person if dt unmarried person one day decided to take away my vermilion and applying it on her forehead. The person has to be either insane or hiding something and not everybody can handle liars. I certainly can't . Not one bit , not for one moment.

And sorry maybe you haven't met people like Malini in real life who are actually good but I have.

And yes whether or not Adi loved Malini , he decided to marry her. Now it is being made to look like Adi never loved Malini.....just to make the story more Adili favouring. But in the initial episodes he did love Malini. He cared for a lot. And he couldn't wait to get close wid Malini after their marriage. What if he had got that chance and they had been intimate wid each other when he wanted to. What if that had happened and den he had realised he has fallen for Imlie now ??? Would you guys still say dt Adi and Imlie are ryt ? Dt yes love can happen at any moment and it's okay to just go behind your wife and romance all you want wid another lady ?

Here cheaters are behaving like victims, which is really irritating.

Malini shd take her mother n shift to other city. Let these so called innocent, loving ppl stay together. But I want Malini n her mother give some kind of punishment them before leaving, so that rest of their life repent for it.

Originally posted by: Aniash

Excuse me fiancee for 7 yrs???. I thought they were just good friends and wanted to be life partners.

Engagement was before they got married.

Yes the 7 yrs were wasted coz she never understood him perfectly. In and out. She assumed everything was ok and they are made for each other. Perfect couple.

Imli hardly knew him for several mths before he could say i love u itself she already knew. And she stopped him from saying. If u could remember latest pagdandiya track.

So malini for 7 yrs couldnt see if he loves her or not. When she said she is going on a college trip he never showed any jealousy or possessiveness . This was a flashback scene of aditya when he was at pagdandhya thinking why he was not possessive for malini like imlie

So?? She couldnt see it??

He was never romantic with her not before married not after marriage. He was always blend. Even she herself has said so numerous times. ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. When we love someone truly our action

speaks more. Aditya only says i love u but his actions doesnt seem to portray his feelings so much so that he has never given her the time before marriage during the 7 yrs duration coz for him his job was first priority and malini was second. This was the reason why AC never liked him. What malini couldnt see she saw it. And this is the main reason AC was insecure. Imlie only came in later on.

If a man loves a woman dearly she will be his first priority and nothing else. Though they had been in that 7 yrs so called relationship they hardly knew each other well. And thats why they cant handle their marital issues themselves that third parties are required to solve their issues.

Aditya always says before marriage that he doesnt want to make her wait any longer for their marriage which clearly indicates that malini was th e one who wanted to settle down with him . It was her choice to marry her BEST FRIEND not LOVER. and this she has said past few episodes back that she married him coz if love was never there later on as time passes they will remain good friends and understand each other throughout their marriage life.

Same goes for aditya who married her coz she was his good friend who understood him and the other reason of course was his ego where he was forced to marry imlie.

He rushed into marrying malini which was the biggest mistake.

He tried telling her before marriage but she fainted.

HOW MANY WOMEN OUT THERE FAINTS IF THEIR BF SAYS HE GOT ANOTHER ??? No matter how many yrs in relationship.

What is the normal response??

A slap. A kick on his ass. Galiyaan . Taking an object and throwing at him. Pull his hair. Etccc

But fainting ???

This is a rare reaction

Let me share with u a practical example.

My ex collegemate had a bf of 11 yrs. Since they were in school times. Thought of getting married after graduation. Few mths before marriage he told he is seeing someone else. His colleague. So ??

What she did ??? A tight slap and walked away. She didnt faint.

Malini is fragile and that is the fact. Even in the hospital when aditya wanted to tell her the way she reacted to him he was not able to tell.

Malini if cant hear the truth can actually ask directly are u cheating on me ??? How difficult is that ?? Only 5 words.

U are right that aditya has messed up two women's lives but now when he wants to say it out and clear the air one prevents him for telling and the other cant hear him telling. So ??? Is it 100 percent his fault only ??

Imlie is not giving him the green light to be with him pushing him towards malini and malini is not able to confront him directly.

Malini defo deserves a better person. She needs to be relieved from this loveless marriage. And she is not the only one . Lots of women out there are in her situation. They take up the courage to be strong and move on.

But to do that she needs to face the truth first . If u are talking about 7 yrs of relationship there are women out there who shared longer time with their partners and they accept the fact and move on.

Malini is not accepting it. She still keeps hope that aditya will change hopes that things will be ok. When she knew its not ok. These false hopes are discouraging her to move on. Thats all.

I am not saying u are wrong but i disagree with ur post thats all. So no offense.

Malini definitely was in delusional. Adi is not even worth of friend, whom she thought good friend. Malini mother was so right thinking adi is not worth for Malini.

I feel, adi was definitely in love with Malini, otherwise he wouldn't hv faced brunt from MIL. Now love has changed bcoz of imlie. Tomorrow when Malini does all sacrifices and good thing to adi, will that love again shift to Malini? Another thing If he cannot fulfill marital promises, why did he even ruin her life marrying her.

I feel imlie over acting as sacrificial. Actually she is not. She is home breaker with the face of victim. If she had that much concern for Malini, she could easily kept adi away from her.

Don't know what Malini will do when she comes to know even her father cheated her mother and this girl is her sister. How painful it can be. I don't want makers make her feel any sympathy for imlie. Let her be realistic, think abt herself n mother. I want her character lil selfish. Lets see how makers going to show her character. I found malini character very interesting in this serial. The actor really pulled off her character really well.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I agree . I hv seen people completely breaking down after a relationship of dt long breaks . It's easier said dn done. Its eàsy to say that he didn't ever love her but did he ever made her feel dt way. I remember Adi was so eager to get close to Malini after his marriage. How was she supposed to even guess. When you hv invested so much in one person for so long .......how are just supposed to understand and move on and move away ? Of course she is scared.

Funniest thing is people villainizing Malini for her reaction to Aditya's unfaithfulness, while Aditya gets a free pass. She is the victim here. When will society stop blaming women for the husbands action? How is she in fault for his philandering and lies.